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By *pstanding Citizen OP   Man  over a year ago

Nottingham

Honest answer.... I was on a piss up holiday in Benidorm, horny, hungover, wanting a hook up and my mate had recently come across the website... The rest is history

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By *r_North-EastMan  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A couple in a club told me about it.

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus

Googled, “who’s going to like photos of my penis” and up popped fab

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By *ore4fundevonCouple  over a year ago

West Devon

We were told about it while talking to someone on another site.

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I fell off the SHip and washed ashore here.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Young man on pof told me about it x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Met a couple on our honeymoon, no idea if they're still here!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mumsnet x

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By *pstanding Citizen OP   Man  over a year ago

Nottingham


"Young man on pof told me about it x"

It wasn't me, was it?! I used to use POF haha

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By *izzy.Woman  over a year ago

Stoke area

After failed marriage, I wanted to find adult friends. I stumbled across a site of that name and it was an innocent misunderstanding initially. After joining there, I was told about Fab.

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

Friend told me about it!

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman  over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Two of my neighbours were outside arguing and screaming at each other in the street and one shouted you're nothing but a slut, you're on FabSwingers, then the other replied, and so are you, I laughed and thought hmmmm what is this FabSwingers and now the rest is history

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By *hehavenduoCouple  over a year ago

Near Brighton

Told about site whilst having a 3some in a hotel with a fit female we hired for 2 hours..that was a lot of fun!!! X x x

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By *ourbonKissMan  over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"A couple in a club told me about it."

Same here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"Young man on pof told me about it x

It wasn't me, was it?! I used to use POF haha "

Did we talk there? But no he was local to me x

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By *ull English with teaMan  over a year ago

London

I was Googling tractors…

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

A guy I was seeing from another site told me about it

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus


"Two of my neighbours were outside arguing and screaming at each other in the street and one shouted you're nothing but a slut, you're on FabSwingers, then the other replied, and so are you, I laughed and thought hmmmm what is this FabSwingers and now the rest is history "

Your street is manic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It was a link from Flirtomatic, which is way back in the day!

Several leave and returns later, I’m still here with you lovely bunch!

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By *ornycougaWoman  over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

After I ended a very long term vanilla relationship I was bi-curious. Joined another site looking for FFM initially, met some great people who recommended Fab and have never looked back

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Someone I used to meet showed me it years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chatting on Badoo and this was mentioned. Clubs soon after

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Someone I used to meet showed me it years ago."

On behalf of us all, I thank whoever it was!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"After failed marriage, I wanted to find adult friends. I stumbled across a site of that name and it was an innocent misunderstanding initially. After joining there, I was told about Fab. "

We were on the aforementioned site. After it went into decline we just googled best swinger sites in the UK.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

I was doing some internet banking and 14hrs later I found I’d wasted my day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A guy in work told me about his freind who would use a site to meet up regularly with strangers for sex. I thought now there's an idea. And here I am.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I was googling fatfingers and ironically.....

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By *reepass4meCouple  over a year ago

Cheltenham

We were two nervous rabbits making our club debut in Xtasia. Some kind folk took pity and started chatting to us. They mentioned Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

11 years ago when I was part of a couple someone mentioned it to us at Cupids

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By *exySwitches203Couple  over a year ago

Felixstowe

Mr was on another site over 15 years ago before it went downhill and changed and decided to come to fab…

Mrs was told about fab through a fwb… funnily enough its how we both came closer together 7 years ago

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I fell off the SHip and washed ashore here. "

Round about 2008 if I remember the mass exodus correctly.......?

At least that's when I jumped ship. Never looked back.

A

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By *9 kisses.Man  over a year ago

clacton on sea

My mate introduced me to this site with his then girlfriend a few years back,

Met a few couples with them, took a break from here a few times, but couldn't resist coming back,

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By *injaprincessWoman  over a year ago

herehere

Ummm about 2009/2010

Me and the ex where looking for a lady to join us found fab !

Been on off since single but just here mainly for the forums

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS  over a year ago

Newquay

Just stumbled across it whilst online

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By *and321Couple  over a year ago

south

By being dirty perves n browsing the net

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By *atricia ParnelWoman  over a year ago

In a town full of colours

A FB Introduced me to it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Over heard my ex's parents taking about it many moons ago

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

.

There was a site a long time ago where you could post ads. You know, horny young busty student looking for NSA sort of thing. After a batch of emails offering various things, a friend told me about here and it seemed far easier to get dicked to my vagina's content.

It was. Still is.

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By *MattyMan  over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - RWB-Swindon

I was introduced by a good friend shall we say, she thought it may spice things up for me and her and it did

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Someone suggested this was a better fit than regular dating sites, so right!

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By *orphia2003Woman  over a year ago

Tonypandy.

An ex used it so was aware of site. Then a friend recommended it to me few months back.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan  over a year ago

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Used to be on Adultfriendfinder back in the day and had hookups a plenty. And old Craigslist before all the spam, huckers, con artists and honey traps. Never really got on with PoF or Tinder, but bounced around a few other sites over the years which have mostly gone to shit. For years I had a core group I'd fuck about with before we went various ways with jobs and relocations so didn't need to be on any more sites. Then someone I used to hook up with from another site messaged me about Fab and I moved over.

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By *rolicUsCouple  over a year ago

Alluringly mysterious


"Mumsnet x"

Oh my god bestie, same!

Was semi pissed in 2017 and saw chat about sex clubs on Mumsnet. Ended up on a fetish site, ran away scared, found this one and didn’t think it could be real due to possibly being run by abacuses and steam power. Returned 5yrs later and the rest is currently evolving history

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By *ivek68Man  over a year ago

york

I was on be-naughty . And a girl I met in Hull told me about it a few years ago now .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was told about it by some members of my local club. Took me a couple of weeks of mulling it over and then two attempts to sign up....the barrage of messages upon first signing up was a tad overwhelming.

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By *he AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I was on another irish site and someone there invited me here,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Come across fab? Is this a tribute thread?

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By *ourbonKissMan  over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I was told about it by some members of my local club. Took me a couple of weeks of mulling it over and then two attempts to sign up....the barrage of messages upon first signing up was a tad overwhelming. "

Has the barrage actually stopped?

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By *uddly GoblinMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Was told about the site whilst on a club visit, joined the next day and never looked back, been a fun and eventfull 9 years

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I googled bi curious and fab popped up

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli

My mum told me about it, true story

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone mentioned it in a FB group, so thought I'd sign up!

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By *itvclaireTV/TS  over a year ago

Birmingham

Saw a link on another site. That was about 8 years ago.

XX

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North

I fancied a club

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Someone i met irl 'persuaded' me to set up a couples profile

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Found Fab via a BDSM site… a well known one. Seemed to be right up my street. Stayed til I got married, left. And now I’m back for good

* there’s a song there

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By *ouple3334MFCouple  over a year ago

birmingham

A friend told me (mr) about a site his friend goes on to meet couples, not knowing we were into that lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I met a guy on Tinder who told me about it and had had some excellent meets through the site. Took me a while but I eventually joined.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ex hubby signed us up, without my knowledge!

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield

A (female) friend on Twitter said I should join as I would “clean up”.

So I joined.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I googled bi curious and fab popped up "

What happens if you Google ‘fab straight’

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"I googled bi curious and fab popped up

What happens if you Google ‘fab straight’ "

69% of the guys on here that say they're straight

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple  over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I was looking for a girlfriend so I joined the local LBTQ+ social group.

Somebody from there helped me to join up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Was told about it in La Chambre I joined the next day

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By *immy PMan  over a year ago

notts via worksop

heard a lad at work talking about it and said , ooooo i've never heard of that. that night, profile up and running.... what a glorious place it is too..

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By *rispyDuckMan  over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Noticed cousin browsing Fab, curiosity got the better of me & joined week later

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My ex talked me round to it years and years ago. Turned out I liked it and he didn't, so I still pop on and off when I feel like it now that I'm single.

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By *rake69Man  over a year ago

Liverpool

Does anyone have a good advice on how to start getting meets? Like I'm genuinely trying to meet with couples and ladies but no luck so far

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does anyone have a good advice on how to start getting meets? Like I'm genuinely trying to meet with couples and ladies but no luck so far"

If it's OK to say, I see two things right off that might be off-putting...the phrase 'I don't bite' and the big disclaimer at the end of your profile. I don't know anyone who isn't put off by either of those.

Nice body though

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By *ilBWoman  over a year ago

West Midlands


"Honest answer.... I was on a piss up holiday in Benidorm, horny, hungover, wanting a hook up and my mate had recently come across the website... The rest is history "

An older lady called Anne told me about Fab....

While in a hot tub...

In a sex club....

...After she'd boned 8 guys in front of me and her husband.

I didn't really even know it was a sex club until this day and definitely didn't know anything about Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Many years ago , went to a New years party with someone I was dating at the time. And turned out it was a swingers organized event.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A guy I was seeing told me about it so I joined. We were together for nearly 10 years, and when we split up I decided to stay on here

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By *ddictedToLoveMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Was on kik browsing groups found one called fab and spoke to a lady on there. Said she was on here and that I should join, so I did

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

A bloke told me about it, after he had given me a good fucking. I met him from another site.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I helped a friend out, hosting parties for guys to have fun with tgirls. Most of the guys attending the parties came through here, and I remembered it. Thought I’d give it a go.

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By *rolicUsCouple  over a year ago

Alluringly mysterious


"Honest answer.... I was on a piss up holiday in Benidorm, horny, hungover, wanting a hook up and my mate had recently come across the website... The rest is history

An older lady called Anne told me about Fab....

While in a hot tub...

In a sex club....

...After she'd boned 8 guys in front of me and her husband.

I didn't really even know it was a sex club until this day and definitely didn't know anything about Fab. "

Sounds legit

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By *eadjeyecMan  over a year ago

Bucks/London

Redgirl introduced me to it after chatting on fetlife

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good friend told me about it x she was fun xx

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By *nked and Ms InkedCouple  over a year ago

nr wrexham

My bestie told me about it. I knew he was on it, but after I found out that my ex cheated on me with numerous women, he told me to join, meet for nsa fun xx

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8

I got told about the FB thing online years ago by a mate at work. Googled it and joined a site, which was shit, but met someone there who was also on fab. She got me to join (my first ever veri) and the rest is history.

It’s been great fun. Very hard work but then nothing in life worth having is easy.

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By *ricdonna1971Man  over a year ago

Hastings

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By *ricdonna1971Man  over a year ago

Hastings

A friend told me about the site and as I'm now single thought I'd check it out ??

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman  over a year ago

Cambridge/London

An old friend told me about it

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By *old HoopsWoman  over a year ago

Near Chester

Went to a club for the first time. Everyone was so lovely and kept asking my fab name and I had no clue what it was.

They said it was a bit like Facebook where you can keep in touch with people you meet at clubs and get details of upcoming events.

So I got home and signed up complete with a profile picture.

My jaw dropped at the number of messages I had by the morning. Ended up taking the picture down.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A fireman told me about it

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By *irty-pairCouple  over a year ago

South Essex

We found it on Google after getting bored with a certain fetish website. And we’ve never looked back!

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By *estLondonDeepMan  over a year ago

London

I met a woman on a vanilla dating site and she mentioned the following weekend that she was organising a hotel room in Notting Hill for a gang bang (I can't remember if she was inviting me). There was nothing in our communication up until that point which alluded to her lifestyle.

She sent me a link to her profile, but I had to join before I could view it.

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By *akeanyoneMan  over a year ago

LH

Was chatting with a girl from a singles Fbook group in my vanilla days, she told me about it. I joined, left pretty sharpish. A week later Curiosity got the better of me so I joined again, then a deviant was born

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

From the Fetish World, got bored with those clubs and munches (admittedly I still go occasionally) decided to try this world as well.

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By *rettyflamingoCouple  over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I was chatting to a fella on a vanilla dating site and he told me about fab. The rest as they is history

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

someone screenshotted me my ex husband's profile.. i came on to have a look... and now im here Px

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By *omtom21100Man  over a year ago

Fareham/Portchester

A girl I met on PoF told me about it. She was very naughty so I came to have a look….

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By *unthum62Man  over a year ago

Benidorm

A lady on another site mentioned it as a good place to look for fun.

I have only been here a month and it has been a very interactive experience with lots of positives.

That elusive green tick seems possible, soon I hope.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I visited a BDSM event at a swingers club and was introduced to it through that.

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By *ristinapinkWoman  over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

I guy I met on POF told me it would be a good place to find guys wanting to have 3sums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Heard about it on another site; Fab is a lot more fun and leads to more interactions

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By *aidbare5Couple  over a year ago

down the road


"Heard about it on another site; Fab is a lot more fun and leads to more interactions "

This was the same for us.

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By *hisismeXXXMan  over a year ago

Welsh Wales

Having come through the old fashioned way into swinging via contact mags etc, in the early days of the internet at the turn of the century myself and by then wife signed up to a few sites (Swing2us and DirtyDavid’s) for those that remember.

Swing2us was good, word of mouth took us to localswingers and SDC.

Post split, when I was looking to get back into the scene most of those sites had gone or were no longer busy. Talking to a few people Fab kept on coming up so here I am!

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