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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back |
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A lot of people have left, didn’t come back after Covid or maybe don’t post on the forums as much.
But other people get involved now so it’ll always be evolving. As to whether you think it’s gone downhill is down to personal taste.
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This community right here is gorgeous, welcoming, witty, kind, and well-informed.
It's to know what your concern is from your original post, but if you are claiming that the community spirit has gone, you are, happily, wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This community right here is gorgeous, welcoming, witty, kind, and well-informed.
It's to know what your concern is from your original post, but if you are claiming that the community spirit has gone, you are, happily, wrong."
^ totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This community right here is gorgeous, welcoming, witty, kind, and well-informed.
It's to know what your concern is from your original post, but if you are claiming that the community spirit has gone, you are, happily, wrong."
Or just most of us are full of crap  |
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
I've noticed that myself. I'm sure covid had some impact. There was an influx of fake accounts and timewasters that could have also caused people to leave. |
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"This community right here is gorgeous, welcoming, witty, kind, and well-informed.
It's to know what your concern is from your original post, but if you are claiming that the community spirit has gone, you are, happily, wrong."
What he said. It's still there, OP, even if it's not identical to the one(s) you remember... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to look in the pockets. All the best things are kept in pockets.
Agreed. Especially dresses with pockets. They have all the best things in "
A dream  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
That's not very friendly OP  |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
How very dare you!
I'm friendly |
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"You have to look in the pockets. All the best things are kept in pockets.
Agreed. Especially dresses with pockets. They have all the best things in
Swooon. I love it when you talk dirty to me "
For you darling… anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly "
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...  |
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I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. †  † |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo... "
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †"
Sex would probably be alright though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you! "
Aww I owe you so much  |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
Sex would probably be alright though?"
Nero isn't fussy, he double dips |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
Sex would probably be alright though?"
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Yes, it would be............................................nice. |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †"
So am I Dumb or Dumber? |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber? "
I assume I’m the other one |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †"
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
I'm constantly finding people to laugh with - or at - on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This community right here is gorgeous, welcoming, witty, kind, and well-informed.
It's to know what your concern is from your original post, but if you are claiming that the community spirit has gone, you are, happily, wrong."
Agreed, I have found it be a great little community |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one "
Well we do come as a pair |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
I'm constantly finding people to laugh with - or at - on here "
.. exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to look in the pockets. All the best things are kept in pockets.
Agreed. Especially dresses with pockets. They have all the best things in "
Gotta love a dress with pockets  |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair "
Yes, I imagine you do.
I imagine it quite often.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †"
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"You have to look in the pockets. All the best things are kept in pockets.
Agreed. Especially dresses with pockets. They have all the best things in
Gotta love a dress with pockets "
I know right! They’re the best |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
"It’s still here. Or at least in my opinion."
I agree, but there has been a lot of changes of names and faces recently. I don’t know if some of the old guard got bored, frustrated, or changed personas. |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair
Yes, I imagine you do.
I imagine it quite often. "
I bet you do |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair "
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With emphasis on the "come". It would be anticlimactic otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hit the delete button swipe out the tread
I am still here
You need tread or you spin out of control  "
I can do sometimes |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much "
You totally do |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair
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With emphasis on the "come". It would be anticlimactic otherwise. "
Sorry is this better darling?
Dumb and Dumber love to *come* together |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair
•
With emphasis on the "come". It would be anticlimactic otherwise. "
Surely that classes as “vulgarity”?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much
You totally do"
3 and a half orgasms for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I assume I’m the other one
Well we do come as a pair
•
With emphasis on the "come". It would be anticlimactic otherwise.
Sorry is this better darling?
Dumb and Dumber love to *come* together "
I feel you're trying to take attention away from Nero and I having to make sweet love after posting about lack of meets and being horny here... |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much
You totally do
3 and a half orgasms for you!"
Does the half orgasm come from a fingerblasting session? |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
"I'm always surprised how many people are happy to message from the forums even though I have a blank profile"
Hidden, not blank. And I think the foeumited are happy to chat - at least within my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber? "
I’m probably Dumbass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much
You totally do
3 and a half orgasms for you!
Does the half orgasm come from a fingerblasting session? "
No that's a full one silly! The half is from nipple stimulation only x |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I’m probably Dumbass "
Oh yes darling. We are the nameless triumvirate |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much
You totally do
3 and a half orgasms for you!
Does the half orgasm come from a fingerblasting session?
No that's a full one silly! The half is from nipple stimulation only x"
Ah I see, I've got it now..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
So am I Dumb or Dumber?
I’m probably Dumbass
Oh yes darling. We are the nameless triumvirate "
I guessed so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
How very dare you!
I'm friendly
Friendly isn't the first word that comes to mind when describing you _oo...
Wind your neck in, I think you'll find I was one of the first people to speak to you!
Aww I owe you so much
You totally do
3 and a half orgasms for you!
Does the half orgasm come from a fingerblasting session?
No that's a full one silly! The half is from nipple stimulation only x
Ah I see, I've got it now..... "
lucky gal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to look in the pockets. All the best things are kept in pockets.
Or bras "
The number of times I've taken a bra off and had random forgotten things hit the floor, and no I don't mean my boobs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"… and no I don't mean my boobs
Apart from that one time. "
Rosie dearie you promised not to speak of that.....
And I was kneeling....kindof, so ya know, not such a drop |
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I am new here so cannot comment on the past. There is definitely a nice community on here and largely genuine people from what I have seen so far, but as yet, I am not part of it. That may take time.
Also, much wisdom.
Pockets.
Kitchen.
Bra.
All the best things and people lurk there.
See also.
Under the bed.
In the washing machine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have left, didn’t come back after Covid or maybe don’t post on the forums as much.
But other people get involved now so it’ll always be evolving. As to whether you think it’s gone downhill is down to personal taste.
K"
Pretty much |
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'S awright I s'pose.....
If you like that kind of thing.
I could name names from when I first got acquainted with Fab, all gone now for one reason or another, the lounge was full of clever, articulate and funny as fuck characters. Each and every one, sadly UNLOS.
Today's lounge is full of clever, articulate and funny as fuck characters, they just have different names from the "old crowd".
The Lounge, when the funny, the sensible, the argumentative, the weird, the friendly, the piss takers, the caring and supportive folks congregate on a daily basis.
Salute'
Winston |
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †"
You still have your coterie of concubines, so stop moaning!! |
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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have left, didn’t come back after Covid or maybe don’t post on the forums as much.
But other people get involved now so it’ll always be evolving. As to whether you think it’s gone downhill is down to personal taste.
K
Pretty much "
Agreed, although I don’t know many here now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back
I've noticed that myself. I'm sure covid had some impact. There was an influx of fake accounts and timewasters that could have also caused people to leave."
Covid definitely changed it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Covid saw a huge wave of men wanting an instashag. It ruined things for the old timers and now, fab is seen as just a fuckfest and not many know what genuine swinging is about!"
That was always the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met on here as singles YEARS ago and we recently came back as a married couple.
We can honestly both say that while the community has evolved and expanded, it has by no means gone downhill! The people of fab have been and continue to be nothing short of kind, funny and welcoming
That’s our experience as singles and then as a couple across many years on here. |
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It's the same as usual, as was said ^^ it's the classroom that never changes. People get attached to regular posters and when the tide takes them away on the permanent naughty step & unlos, people forget
Don't forget many have multiple profiles and are just waiting for their moment to reappear... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
What do you think is missing which you have experienced before?
Do you believe you are making same effort as you used to?
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
I agree that it used to be a laugh, that’s all I came on for was a giggle, now it’s just who’s got the best this and that, just generally feels like a flirting forum, yeah yeah I know it’s fab and that’s the game but it’s a bit blah every day the same thing, bring back the fun people I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might be a bit predictable at times but watching it for the last couple of months I find it much more balanced. I remember it being overtaken by mini groups of friends constantly 'performing', making private jokes, excessive flirting all over each threads and love bombing one another. Ha! I suppose I might have participated too at times as a single. My partner claims I was a "popular girl". I didnt see it that way. A bit marmite situation depending where you "sit". These days I don't see that to that extent for sure. It might be a slowlier moving creek, less meanders and spectacular waterfalls but it takes us on a pleasant journey with some good views along.
Tones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The community is in tatters. They needed to put bars on the windows as cars are burned out each weekend…..local riots … human sacrifices, dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria!!!!
*one for the film nerds  |
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The forums and Fab are two separate things - most people on Fab don’t go anywhere near the forums.
I think Fab itself is the same as it has always been and I enjoy that.
The forums change and evolve overtime. Personally I find the forums repetitive at the moment with people just asking the same questions on threads that are already running but that will change as those people move on as always happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the same as usual, as was said ^^ it's the classroom that never changes. People get attached to regular posters and when the tide takes them away on the permanent naughty step & unlos, people forget
Don't forget many have multiple profiles and are just waiting for their moment to reappear..."
I totally agree. There is always the flavour of the month, until the new one comes along. It’s quite funny when you observe this place and notice things |
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"The community is in tatters. They needed to put bars on the windows as cars are burned out each weekend…..local riots … human sacrifices, dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria!!!!
*one for the film nerds "
Wizard of Oz?
Winston |
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"The community is in tatters. They needed to put bars on the windows as cars are burned out each weekend…..local riots … human sacrifices, dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria!!!!
*one for the film nerds
Wizard of Oz?
Winston"
It's Ghostbusters |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The community is in tatters. They needed to put bars on the windows as cars are burned out each weekend…..local riots … human sacrifices, dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria!!!!
*one for the film nerds
Wizard of Oz?
Winston"
Can you imagine the Lollypop guild coming down your street with bats? |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"The forums and Fab are two separate things - most people on Fab don’t go anywhere near the forums.
I think Fab itself is the same as it has always been and I enjoy that.
The forums change and evolve overtime. Personally I find the forums repetitive at the moment with people just asking the same questions on threads that are already running but that will change as those people move on as always happens."
I never used the forums before lockdown, I think it was just something to do while sunbathing in the garden and seemed fun at the time, kind of became a habit but now I’m just taking a look here and there as people just tend to say the same thing over and over, it’s like watching the same drama on repeat, sorry, maybe time for a forum break |
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I’m not new to fab but I am new to the forums. It seems like a fun place to be and I’m enjoying breaking my way into conversations if I feel I can contribute.
As an outsider, it can be an intimidating place. It’s quickly apparent there are friends who know each other and josh about stuff I don’t get. Individually, I’m outgoing and sociable. But I get intimidated in big groups and don’t talk, which often deters me from feeling like I belong. I also worry about light heartedly taking the piss out of people who don’t know me - “Who TF is this guy?!!” or my sense of humour being taken as criticism.
All stuff for me to work on this year. I’ve got chatting to some really nice people and I’d like to keep that going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing remains constant.
Troughs and peaks are constant.
Therefore troughs and peaks are nothing.
Err this logic thing is hard to grasp.
Syl Logism told me that. |
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"I have using fab for years on and off and it seems like the friendly fab community has all but disappeared which is a massive shame was a right laugh a while back "
Well look who it is!
To be more precise..... I have no idea who you are.
Who were you?
Have you got enough replies yet ? |
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"Seems a shame to barely even start a new year and already be complaining about things  "
Some people just like to watch the world burn.
I think Fab is a lovely place, but then I'm a bit Pollyannaish because everyone is so lovely to me. It's impossible to get an objective overview. And some people have been so hurt by matters of the heart that they can be ultra-defensive/bitter at what might seem gentle playfulness.
I try to remember that useful meme about never knowing what someone else is going through. (I often forget, but I try!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems a shame to barely even start a new year and already be complaining about things
Wait whuuuuuut.. It the favourite pasttime for British people  where would we be without a good old moan "
Am I allowed to moan about people moaning? I don’t know the rules!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems a shame to barely even start a new year and already be complaining about things
Wait whuuuuuut.. It the favourite pasttime for British people where would we be without a good old moan
Am I allowed to moan about people moaning? I don’t know the rules!!! "
It's just another Manic Moanday. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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The groups who take over the forum now change every six months or so… cycles are quicker now. Before it was a longer time before people flounced, I mean, left or stopped posting which is why you may notice it more… |
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"The groups who take over the forum now change every six months or so… cycles are quicker now. Before it was a longer time before people flounced, I mean, left or stopped posting which is why you may notice it more… "
The Fab spin cycle. Don't forget to clear your fluff filters regularly. |
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"The community is in tatters. They needed to put bars on the windows as cars are burned out each weekend…..local riots … human sacrifices, dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria!!!!
*one for the film nerds "
This is just my little town on a weekend
Fab never seemed so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not new to fab but I am new to the forums. It seems like a fun place to be and I’m enjoying breaking my way into conversations if I feel I can contribute.
As an outsider, it can be an intimidating place. It’s quickly apparent there are friends who know each other and josh about stuff I don’t get. Individually, I’m outgoing and sociable. But I get intimidated in big groups and don’t talk, which often deters me from feeling like I belong. I also worry about light heartedly taking the piss out of people who don’t know me - “Who TF is this guy?!!” or my sense of humour being taken as criticism.
All stuff for me to work on this year. I’ve got chatting to some really nice people and I’d like to keep that going."
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"Seems a shame to barely even start a new year and already be complaining about things
Wait whuuuuuut.. It the favourite pasttime for British people where would we be without a good old moan
Am I allowed to moan about people moaning? I don’t know the rules!!!
It's just another Manic Moanday. "
Monday, Monday. Can't trust that day....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not new to fab but I am new to the forums. It seems like a fun place to be and I’m enjoying breaking my way into conversations if I feel I can contribute.
As an outsider, it can be an intimidating place. It’s quickly apparent there are friends who know each other and josh about stuff I don’t get. Individually, I’m outgoing and sociable. But I get intimidated in big groups and don’t talk, which often deters me from feeling like I belong. I also worry about light heartedly taking the piss out of people who don’t know me - “Who TF is this guy?!!” or my sense of humour being taken as criticism.
All stuff for me to work on this year. I’ve got chatting to some really nice people and I’d like to keep that going.
Love this. "
Oops sorry, the last bit I love. Not the intimidated bits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's ever been a 'community' among Forum users, just a moveable feast of lust, friendship and enmity. "
But like in those sushi restaurant conveyor belt things we all come back around again, just a little warmer and soggier each time |
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"Seems a shame to barely even start a new year and already be complaining about things
Wait whuuuuuut.. It the favourite pasttime for British people where would we be without a good old moan "
Could be worse, we could all be queueing up........
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think there's ever been a 'community' among Forum users, just a moveable feast of lust, friendship and enmity.
But like in those sushi restaurant conveyor belt things we all come back around again, just a little warmer and soggier each time "
I call it Yo’Bitch !
*it’s a joke!!!! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Some of the old names seem to have gone since I had my last profile or maybe they're just not posting as often these days"
Some will have left.
Some will have changed names.
Some will be posting less.
Some won't be allowed to post anymore.
Some will be doing all of the above at different times, at the same time and without most even realising.
Tis Fab as it's always been and always will be.
In my 14 years on here I've not seen it any more or less welcoming, any greater or lesser prevalence of 'community' or changing much at all.
Just different names, faces and the same old questions, discussions and gripes.
If mankind doesn't destroy itself it'll continue that way ad infinitum. Unless a big asteroid comes our way of course.....
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"I'm afraid those that you seek and lament over have been apotheosised.
All that remains is us mere mortals, dining each day with Phineus and being tormented by the Harpies who represent the daily Threads of banality and vulgarity.
I shall mourn for eternity when they take from us RealityBites, Beyond Purity, Élèphantis, Mïdnïght, RedArseForDanger, YouOnlyDieThrice, DreamyBoobs, Piscean-Knightmare...
...leaving me with Dumb, Dumber, Dumbass and Bruce. † †
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You still have your coterie of concubines, so stop moaning!! "
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It is true, I still have my ever-increasing retinue of 'love-dwellers', who share my pool of oxytocin and oestrogen. I still miss you though, Sprockett²². |
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