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I’ve learned to live with the frustration, it took a while but I’m comfortable with the situation now. When it gets too much I have a wank. That generally provides a short term fix but ultimately it can be unfulfilling |
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This really isn't meant to be a boast - I'm just interested in psychology - but I don't have this either. Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?
For me, sexual desire needs a stimulus. The world in general, and Fab in particular, is full of that, of course, so it's pretty easy! But if I were just washing up, say, or reading, I wouldn't experience sexual desire. So I suppose the frustration doesn't arise because the need doesn't make itself felt until there is a reasonable chance of satiating it. |
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"This really isn't meant to be a boast - I'm just interested in psychology - but I don't have this either. …….
For me, sexual desire needs a stimulus. The world in general, and Fab in particular, is full of that, of course, so it's pretty easy! But if I were just washing up, say, or reading, I wouldn't experience sexual desire. So I suppose the frustration doesn't arise because the need doesn't make itself felt until there is a reasonable chance of satiating it."
So, if your interested. Here’s me.
I see a photo video and I KNOW it’s sexy, because I’m a perve, and I can’t help it. Does it make me want to wank? No. But it could get me hard.
But the stimulation that gets me horny and sexually frustrated is an attraction to someone, I know I’m enjoying myself for that moment hour or a much longer time. They make me want to enjoy my sexy sex with them. That’s my frustration. Does that make sense?
I don’t walk around like I teenage hardon trying to poke every hole it will fit into.  |
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"I’ve learned to live with the frustration, it took a while but I’m comfortable with the situation now. When it gets too much I have a wank. That generally provides a short term fix but ultimately it can be unfulfilling "
I hear this and relate. I just get on with something else to move away from
Sexy thoughts.
Then, what happens in the showers stays in the shower. …. Not literally, I rinse the tray afterward. |
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"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?"
Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A FB of mine can switch her sexual desires off.
But after having a good session, she’s horny for days after and is insatiable. "
Yes. More can make you want more.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.
So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery
That’s too deep for a Friday morning."
It's never too deep  |
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"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.
So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery
That’s too deep for a Friday morning.
It's never too deep "
It is when you’ve only got a couple of inches  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lifting heavy things usually works for me. If that doesn’t work I just have a wank.
So lifting my cock is a vicious circle of misery
That’s too deep for a Friday morning.
It's never too deep "
Even in a morning?  |
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So, if your interested. Here’s me.
I see a photo video and I KNOW it’s sexy, because I’m a perve, and I can’t help it. Does it make me want to wank? No. But it could get me hard.
But the stimulation that gets me horny and sexually frustrated is an attraction to someone, I know I’m enjoying myself for that moment hour or a much longer time. They make me want to enjoy my sexy sex with them. That’s my frustration. Does that make sense?
I don’t walk around like I teenage hardon trying to poke every hole it will fit into. "
Completely interested. And thank you. Yes, I didn't imagine the latter! Just fascinated by how sex is different in different people. |
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"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?
Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more."
Really interesting. Thank you. But that feeling must fade at some point, no? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Tell him - talk about all those debauched thoughts, drive ourselves even more crazy then do all those debauched things together when I see him
Failing that I was recently gifted a we vibe toy which definitely hits the spot. |
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"Really interesting. Thank you. But that feeling must fade at some point, no?
Usually shortly after parting ways with the person who caused it."
Rookie error for that person to leave at all, then. |
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"Rookie error for that person to leave at all, then.
I have a very limited social battery. All my favourites know to get out of my hair before it's exhausted."
Ah, that makes perfect sense - thank you for indulging my curiosity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do some people experience sexual desire like hunger? Full after you've just eaten, then gradually hungrier until you are ravenous and would eat al.ost anything?
Absolutely opposite. Once I've had some all I want is more. It doesn't matter how good it was or if it genuinely felt like I just had the soul fucked out of me, once I've regained the ability to move my limbs I'll be actively trying to get more."
I’m exactly the same especially after using a toy hehe |
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