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When I have a cold it's hard to get erection
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"Have anyone else had this problem when you have cold or feeling unwell and you can't get erection or is it just me.
Thanks"
You are not a robot Sir and our bodies have a survival mechanism that sends all blood flow to the vital organs and muscles. Unfortunately, the genitals are NOT a vital organ/muscle in the grand scheme of survival!
If only I could explain this to several middle-aged men that their dicks won't work the way they want to if they are physically and mentally stressed.
And then you/men have to find another way to deal with stress instead of wanking/fucking. |
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"If I'm really tired or feeling ill I don't feel like sex , I imagine men are the same "
Porn has warped the Millenial brain...luckily I grew up somewhere I was safe from porn until age 18. I know men are not robots....problem is I'm not sure many of them know that they are not robots.
I grew up knowing about the sex manuals, the Joy of Sex and the KamaSutra so I knew porn was not thebe all and end all of sex. Now Sex is very sterile with a lot of men. Shove their dick in with minimal lubrication and pump away. Gross. And this is often when you see at swingers clubs also. So I know it's not just me or my partners. |
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"Jeeze OP don't stress about it.
It's hardly the end of the world your unwell, I'd be more worried about that."
Too late mate. Nearly every man I know who is around my age is obsessed with his penis and builds his identity around his penis so if it stops working from the way it was when they were in their twenties and teenage years they freak out because no one told them to expect any different.
I mean you see male porn actors in their 40 and 50 pumping out (pun intended) videos every week with a bunch of nubile nymphs. The fact is those men are outliers and no doubt in supreme mental and physical shape!
As a woman we were told that the vagina get less wet and had a bit of atrophy with age so we know how to handle that. KY! Menopause however makes you feel incredibly unsexy but at least we are talking about it.
Male genital working and health are still taboo in mainstream societal discussion. |
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"It’s probably natural with your body trying to fight the cold, instead of using it’s energy to do other things…"
Usually this is accurate, but not always.
I recall reading somewhere that the poet Keats was often struck down with severe bouts of illness from 'consumption' (probably TB) in his youth. Despite this, he was notorious for having extended and multiple bouts of wanking and sex during those times.
I suspect it's down to your individual body and health state. |
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"I’m a horny little fucker I never fail to get hard. If I’m honest I do get a few more inappropriate random boners than I’d like too.
The mr "
Well you're obviously blessed but thats not helping the OP  |
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"Jeeze OP don't stress about it.
It's hardly the end of the world your unwell, I'd be more worried about that."
I'm not stressing qbout it I wouldn't if it happens to others |
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