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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts"
It’s always great to see more inclusivity and I’m happy you feel this is happening for bi-males but I think there’s still a way to go for you guys |
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Just like everything else it will never be for everyone, there are lots of couples and singles of both genders who don’t want to be in the same room as a bi man, and that’s ok
However it is great to see so much more inclusivity and also to see that it’s becoming more popular |
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I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting comments, I accepted sexual play with guys was nothing to feel ashamed of many years years ago.
i feel the perception that guys are more promiscuous and therefore more a risk to STI's is the greatest misconception as every gent I've had the pleasure in meeting always play safe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them "
This attitude is exactly why so many straight couples don't want to meet bi men!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards.. "
It's not double standards. |
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
This attitude is exactly why so many straight couples don't want to meet bi men!! "
It's funny how it's always bi men that say things like he just did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my POV...
There are couples with bi guys. They often want a bi third.
There are many single women who like bi mmf, and so a club is a great way of arranging. And also observing
Theres still some hangups from some couples (presumably with straight men). Can debate why this is. I get "preferences" but there seems to be something about guy on guy action that causes a reaction that most other sexual acts don't.
While many power/privalage wheels have bi (m and f) and lesbian as being less powerful than hetro and gay men, I'm not sure. I think bi is lower as it comes with more stigmas.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
This attitude is exactly why so many straight couples don't want to meet bi men!!
It's funny how it's always bi men that say things like he just did "
Bi women often do the same in clubs. Predatory. |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards.. "
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men |
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"Interesting comments, I accepted sexual play with guys was nothing to feel ashamed of many years years ago.
i feel the perception that guys are more promiscuous and therefore more a risk to STI's is the greatest misconception as every gent I've had the pleasure in meeting always play safe.
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That is exactly the case, but it goes across straight and bi profiles, so many videos are on here of BB anal and throat fucking, it's definitely a turn off seeing people not concerned with their sexual health |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them "
*Facepalm*
Some men are hiding their secuality from their OHs.
I'm not sure they'd really be loving the idea of being outted during a 3some.
The way you say it borders on predatory. I really hope that isn't your intent. Doesn't help with the stigma tho. |
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
*Facepalm*
Some men are hiding their secuality from their OHs.
I'm not sure they'd really be loving the idea of being outted during a 3some.
The way you say it borders on predatory. I really hope that isn't your intent. Doesn't help with the stigma tho. "
And some men aren’t actually attracted to men at all |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men "
Well from my personal experience, yes I know I'm no Dorian Gray but I find it hard to find any couples that want to meet a slighly ageing bi male, not sure if they think I'd only be interested in one or the other of them or maybe it's the area I live in or maybe it is just me. |
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
*Facepalm*
Some men are hiding their secuality from their OHs.
I'm not sure they'd really be loving the idea of being outted during a 3some.
The way you say it borders on predatory. I really hope that isn't your intent. Doesn't help with the stigma tho.
And some men aren’t actually attracted to men at all "
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Well from my personal experience, yes I know I'm no Dorian Gray but I find it hard to find any couples that want to meet a slighly ageing bi male, not sure if they think I'd only be interested in one or the other of them or maybe it's the area I live in or maybe it is just me. "
Ah right couples. That may be the man who’s not interested. I was talking about females on here in general |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess we in the middle so trying to find something can be tricky
But I just think if happens great if not I won’t push it
Still gotta respect both genders and personal preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
*Facepalm*
Some men are hiding their secuality from their OHs.
I'm not sure they'd really be loving the idea of being outted during a 3some.
The way you say it borders on predatory. I really hope that isn't your intent. Doesn't help with the stigma tho.
And some men aren’t actually attracted to men at all "
absolutely. Wasn't seeking to imply otherwise. |
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A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men "
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello "
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue? "
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello "
Hey there |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this "
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on "
Yes strap on fun is the best haha |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no "
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it. |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
Yes strap on fun is the best haha "
I don't agree with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it. "
Thing is if I want pegging or sexual fun it has to be concentual
Yes I may send 100s of messages and only get 10 replies and of them 9 are normally nos
But hey it’s this site
I’m happy to chat and wait for the right thing to come along |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
Yes strap on fun is the best haha
I don't agree with that "
Oh really how come?
Prefer the real thing?
Thing is I can get bigger size and girth with toys haha and they don’t stop after 30 seconds |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Thing is if I want pegging or sexual fun it has to be concentual
Yes I may send 100s of messages and only get 10 replies and of them 9 are normally nos
But hey it’s this site
I’m happy to chat and wait for the right thing to come along "
Pegging is different though. That can be with a woman so it’s not really relevant in the old bi thing. Unless another man is involved of course. |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
Yes strap on fun is the best haha
I don't agree with that
Oh really how come?
Prefer the real thing?
Thing is I can get bigger size and girth with toys haha and they don’t stop after 30 seconds "
I don't like cock or things near my ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Thing is if I want pegging or sexual fun it has to be concentual
Yes I may send 100s of messages and only get 10 replies and of them 9 are normally nos
But hey it’s this site
I’m happy to chat and wait for the right thing to come along
Pegging is different though. That can be with a woman so it’s not really relevant in the old bi thing. Unless another man is involved of course. "
Yes sorry
Being piggy in middle for pegging is very hot but again defo need the guy bi for that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
Yes strap on fun is the best haha
I don't agree with that
Oh really how come?
Prefer the real thing?
Thing is I can get bigger size and girth with toys haha and they don’t stop after 30 seconds
I don't like cock or things near my ass "
Oh strange u on a bi guy forum haha |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Thing is if I want pegging or sexual fun it has to be concentual
Yes I may send 100s of messages and only get 10 replies and of them 9 are normally nos
But hey it’s this site
I’m happy to chat and wait for the right thing to come along
Pegging is different though. That can be with a woman so it’s not really relevant in the old bi thing. Unless another man is involved of course.
Yes sorry
Being piggy in middle for pegging is very hot but again defo need the guy bi for that one "
Ah I see! Yep you would haha |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Thing is if I want pegging or sexual fun it has to be concentual
Yes I may send 100s of messages and only get 10 replies and of them 9 are normally nos
But hey it’s this site
I’m happy to chat and wait for the right thing to come along
Pegging is different though. That can be with a woman so it’s not really relevant in the old bi thing. Unless another man is involved of course.
Yes sorry
Being piggy in middle for pegging is very hot but again defo need the guy bi for that one
Ah I see! Yep you would haha "
I’m just waiting for that special profile to message me hehe ?? |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
Yes strap on fun is the best haha
I don't agree with that
Oh really how come?
Prefer the real thing?
Thing is I can get bigger size and girth with toys haha and they don’t stop after 30 seconds
I don't like cock or things near my ass
Oh strange u on a bi guy forum haha"
You don't have to be bi to have a discussion about it |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts"
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with |
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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with"
May I introduce myself… |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it. "
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live?? |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live?? "
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi. |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi. "
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise. |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise. "
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally. |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise.
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally. "
Think it's the fact that I'm surrounded my men most days in a male influence work sinario, and listening to the talk they'd be very much against having something inserted inside them, rubber or real.... Their loss I say. |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise.
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally.
Think it's the fact that I'm surrounded my men most days in a male influence work sinario, and listening to the talk they'd be very much against having something inserted inside them, rubber or real.... Their loss I say. "
Maybe maybe not. If they don’t like it they don’t like it. I don’t like it but don’t see it as a loss. |
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with"
Trouble is out of 10 meets, if 1 is bad that's the thing that people focus on, people get carried away in sexual play and not everyone has the ability to say no when boundaries are overstepped. |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise.
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally.
Think it's the fact that I'm surrounded my men most days in a male influence work sinario, and listening to the talk they'd be very much against having something inserted inside them, rubber or real.... Their loss I say.
Maybe maybe not. If they don’t like it they don’t like it. I don’t like it but don’t see it as a loss. "
Sexual liberation opens you up so so many new and fun experiences, loosing the fear of what a hand or mouth might accidentally ( or purposely touch) makes any experience far more relaxed and personally I find more enjoyable. |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on "
I'll be gentle.
But pegging isn't bi!!!!!
The amount of messages I get saying oh I'm bi I'll take your strap on, but when you mention another guy they're off!!
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise.
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally.
Think it's the fact that I'm surrounded my men most days in a male influence work sinario, and listening to the talk they'd be very much against having something inserted inside them, rubber or real.... Their loss I say.
Maybe maybe not. If they don’t like it they don’t like it. I don’t like it but don’t see it as a loss.
Sexual liberation opens you up so so many new and fun experiences, loosing the fear of what a hand or mouth might accidentally ( or purposely touch) makes any experience far more relaxed and personally I find more enjoyable. "
Of course it does. I totally agree. But if one doesn’t like something they don’t like it. It’s not really a loss. If they enjoyed it they’d do it. That’s what I’m trying to say |
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live??
That’s a separate issue though surely? That nothing to do with being bi. A woman using a strap on on a man doesn’t make him bi.
That's very true, sorry if it seamed like I implying otherwise.
Don’t be sorry . Loads of people think it is. I just don’t see how it is personally.
Think it's the fact that I'm surrounded my men most days in a male influence work sinario, and listening to the talk they'd be very much against having something inserted inside them, rubber or real.... Their loss I say.
Maybe maybe not. If they don’t like it they don’t like it. I don’t like it but don’t see it as a loss.
Sexual liberation opens you up so so many new and fun experiences, loosing the fear of what a hand or mouth might accidentally ( or purposely touch) makes any experience far more relaxed and personally I find more enjoyable.
Of course it does. I totally agree. But if one doesn’t like something they don’t like it. It’s not really a loss. If they enjoyed it they’d do it. That’s what I’m trying to say "
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
I'll be gentle.
But pegging isn't bi!!!!!
The amount of messages I get saying oh I'm bi I'll take your strap on, but when you mention another guy they're off!!
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I like you a lot but I don't like anyone enough to want things up my bum, it's just not something that I like the thought of.
Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…"
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight "
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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight "
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X |
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X"
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not. |
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not. "
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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not. "
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
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May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not. "
Very much so |
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not.
That’s why I get to know people before meeting anyway"
But it always helps to be honest and open in the first place, if a profile says straight they might not even reply and visa versa. |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive "
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
I love that this is happening
As a bi couple we love the opportunity to play with similar couples, but it saddens me that bi males are shunned by some couples " in case the guy tries it on with the guy"
I would never try to force someone male or female to do anything sexual they aren't comfortable with
May I introduce myself…
But your profile says straight
I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X
You may not believe in labels but these labels are there on here tell other people what you’re into. That’s how I see it. I would see that as deceitful if I met someone and they’d put straight when they’re not. "
Definitely deceitful, there's no good reason for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting comments, I accepted sexual play with guys was nothing to feel ashamed of many years years ago.
i feel the perception that guys are more promiscuous and therefore more a risk to STI's is the greatest misconception as every gent I've had the pleasure in meeting always play safe.
It's not about being more promiscuous than a straight male but anal sex in general carries a higher risk of STI's due to the thinner skin of the anus and therefore it's easier for virus's to enter the body.
I was unaware of this until a few years ago.
Even safe anal sex male to me I have to wait 90 days until I can donate blood but hetero safe sex is deemed OK.
Like the question do you have sex with men who have sex with men, it is deemed higher risk.
Safer sex of any hole and any gender should be viewed the same which would surely help male bi acceptance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I’m straight (or more accurately only attracted to men) and I only seek out bi men or ideally MM couples (actual couples, not two straight mates).
I’d love for there to be nights at clubs where only the men are bi, not the women. I find it weird that “straight” swingers nights expect women to fancy women. I’m not into femininity at all, I want to see boys playing together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts"
We have always liked them and it’s very good news for Jack that some couples like bi guys. Miss J doesn’t mind watching either. |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman). "
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive |
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over a year ago
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I don’t believe in labels as my main attraction is to women, I play fully bi in the bedroom though. X"
Tbh if a man messages me and his profile says straight but he claims to be bi, I’m not interested. I would like to play with men who are out. I know it’s not for everyone but it’s my preference. |
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over a year ago
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive "
All depends
If she is laid down and u on top riding her that’s not submissive |
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over a year ago
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive "
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive. |
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over a year ago
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
All depends
If she is laid down and u on top riding her that’s not submissive "
Dominance and submission are about more than positioning or who is penetrating whom. It’s about intent. |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men
Hello
See! This one doesn’t like much at all! But she likes this
She wants to ruin their butt with her strap on
I'll be gentle.
But pegging isn't bi!!!!!
The amount of messages I get saying oh I'm bi I'll take your strap on, but when you mention another guy they're off!!
I like you a lot but I don't like anyone enough to want things up my bum, it's just not something that I like the thought of.
Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive "
Pegging is just play with toys.
It's only submissive if you are in a dynamic with the person pegging you. |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive. "
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong |
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over a year ago
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong "
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong "
Fair enough. I have spoken to male doms who have ordered their subs to penetrate them. There’s probably a difference here between being dominant/submissive and being a Dom/a sub.
I prefer to use the terms topping & bottoming.
Fwiw I enjoy being penetrated but I’m always dominant and always taking the lead. |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
So if a woman is on top, is that being dominant? "
Riding me no she isn't |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
So if a woman is on top, is that being dominant?
Riding me no she isn't "
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
Fair enough. I have spoken to male doms who have ordered their subs to penetrate them. There’s probably a difference here between being dominant/submissive and being a Dom/a sub.
I prefer to use the terms topping & bottoming.
Fwiw I enjoy being penetrated but I’m always dominant and always taking the lead. "
Yes it can make a difference if there is dynamic but if someone asks someone to pin them on the ground and beat them black and blue then I think that then makes the person doing the beating the dominant one in that moment.
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
So if a woman is on top, is that being dominant?
Riding me no she isn't
Pinning you down, taking the lead...."
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Yes it can make a difference if there is dynamic but if someone asks someone to pin them on the ground and beat them black and blue then I think that then makes the person doing the beating the dominant one in that moment.
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Where are you getting the pinning & beating them stuff from we were talking about being penetrated, that’s all You’re having a totally different conversation |
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Yes it can make a difference if there is dynamic but if someone asks someone to pin them on the ground and beat them black and blue then I think that then makes the person doing the beating the dominant one in that moment.
Where are you getting the pinning & beating them stuff from we were talking about being penetrated, that’s all You’re having a totally different conversation "
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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them "
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The thought of 2 men together is a huge passion killer for me. I’m aware this is double standards as we don’t feel the same way about 2 women.
I love that people can find what they want and need via Fab though. We’re happy with our preferences  |
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"I’ve been quite candid in other similar posts, I’ve explained why our preference is for straight guys.
The thought of 2 men together is a huge passion killer for me. I’m aware this is double standards as we don’t feel the same way about 2 women.
I love that people can find what they want and need via Fab though. We’re happy with our preferences "
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue? "
"Likely get turned on by the man" ??
Really?
It's weird. Because I've been naked in the same room as a fuck ton of women over the years that have never turned me on in the slightest. Are you seriously suggesting that every bi guy is automatically going to be attracted to the male in a couple and couldn't possibly be just attracted to the female?
That's a serious statement you're making there.
It's basically saying that bi men are incapable of self control. Pretty insulting really. Would you say the same about bi women? How about straight men? Because I somehow doubt it......
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
So if a woman is on top, is that being dominant?
Riding me no she isn't "
This is an interesting thread…
My ex would never let me go on top as he said it felt too submissive.
And on the subject of pegging, I wouldn’t get any pleasure from doing that. I feel that pegging is a more dominant thing to do and it would make me feel like I was emasculating my partner, which would not float my boat at all. No offence intended at all, each to their own |
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Also I know it doesn't make you bi if a woman pegs you but I'm zero submissive
It doesn’t make you submissive to enjoy being penetrated. The word you’re looking for is bottoming, not being submissive. Plenty of people are dominant while being penetrated (ask any dominant woman).
I disagree, letting a woman pin you down and peg you is definitely submissive
Pinning someone down is the dominant/submissive element. Being pinned down was NOT mentioned in the list I relied to. Being penetrated is not inherently submissive. If you penetrate a woman, is she being submissive? No. If you pin her down and penetrate her, then yes she may be. But being penetrated is not INHERENTLY submissive.
If a woman is pegging a guy then I see that as her being dominant if she taking the lead, that's just my opinion on it so it's neither right or wrong
So if a woman is on top, is that being dominant?
Riding me no she isn't
This is an interesting thread…
My ex would never let me go on top as he said it felt too submissive.
And on the subject of pegging, I wouldn’t get any pleasure from doing that. I feel that pegging is a more dominant thing to do and it would make me feel like I was emasculating my partner, which would not float my boat at all. No offence intended at all, each to their own "
I don't mind woman on top, it's a nice view reverse cowgirl and means you can spank them at the same time if they like that |
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts"
It all reverted back when a bi guy revealed he only showered once a week and liked the smell of his buddy’s sweaty scrote in a recent thread.
The dream is over! |
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"Personally I’m straight (or more accurately only attracted to men) and I only seek out bi men or ideally MM couples (actual couples, not two straight mates).
I’d love for there to be nights at clubs where only the men are bi, not the women. I find it weird that “straight” swingers nights expect women to fancy women. I’m not into femininity at all, I want to see boys playing together. "
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"A lot of bi men seem to have an issue with straight people not wanting to meet for mfm when they say they can “play straight” if you’re bi you’re bi. You’ll likely get turned on by the man also even if you don’t act on it. The straight man may not be comfortable with that. Why is that his issue?
Totally agree
It may even turn the other guy off knowing a guy is turned on by him
I fully respect any one who says no
Exactly. Yet you see so many not understanding that at all. Not particularly on this thread but in the thousands before it.
Finding a woman that is comfortable enough to use a strap on on a man is almost impossible to find I've found, again is it me or the area I live?? "
The area you live. I own a strap on  |
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"I think bisexual females are far more accepted by all except fully gay guys , however bi males are still very much a no go for most females (i mean most, before i get ambushed by the accepting few)...some might say double standards..
Not true. Especially on here. You will find more females prefer bi men "
Really? I've found the exact opposite to be the case on here.
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
It all reverted back when a bi guy revealed he only showered once a week and liked the smell of his buddy’s sweaty scrote in a recent thread.
The dream is over!"
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"Interesting to see the increasing popularity in 'bi night' events run by adult clubs.
my observation is that I feel we are in a position where bisexual males are no longer shunned but increasingly sought after by couples.
love to hear your thoughts
It all reverted back when a bi guy revealed he only showered once a week and liked the smell of his buddy’s sweaty scrote in a recent thread.
The dream is over!"
Love BI playful MMF with couples and I smell so fresh |
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In much the same way we do not always have the same food every day peoples sexual preferences vary according to their moods too.
These hard definitions will always cause issues.
While I am a newbie to this world I am seeing a lot of bi interest in profiles, from both sexes.
If the situation is right and same sex fun occurs does that instantly make the people permanently bi and therefore change their description? I do not believe it does. It may be a step on a journey or perhaps just a diversion.
If you only want to meet people with 100% desire to play with both sexes then yes bi is the honest description.
I guess that is why there is a bi curious option.
We are all different. As long as there is honesty (I know, right) just be you. |
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Definitely. But a good guy is hard to find! We think it’s easier to find a unicorn sometimes.
Bi nights in clubs are without doubt the best nights so so friendly and always an awesome vibe.
Mondays at chameleon for us, always an awesome way to start the week. |
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"People are just people
Time time to drop labels "
I think the sexuality tick box should be removed from profiles because it's irrelevant. The Looking For tick boxes are enough. |
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"It all reverted back when a bi guy revealed he only showered once a week and liked the smell of his buddy’s sweaty scrote in a recent thread.
The dream is over!"
thats gross behaviour |
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them "
So true. We admit it and love it. X |
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"Definitely. But a good guy is hard to find! We think it’s easier to find a unicorn sometimes.
Bi nights in clubs are without doubt the best nights so so friendly and always an awesome vibe.
Mondays at chameleon for us, always an awesome way to start the week. "
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"Bi mmf is really the best scenario
My opinion it really is the best
I think many husbands are just shy of admitting it but would love a bisexual man to join them
So true. We admit it and love it. X"
I love been the single bi playful guy in a bi MMF scenario, it’s so very naughty |
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I love been the single bi playful guy in a bi MMF scenario, it’s so very naughty "
I have to agree, especially with inhibition's lowered, the more relaxed the scene becomes and the more fun it is. |
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Has to be a good move, though there's some way to go (including on this site where so many couples only want bi women!) Society as a whole, and the law, have historically been harder on male same-sex activity than female. Good to see attitudes changing. |
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"Interesting comments, I accepted sexual play with guys was nothing to feel ashamed of many years years ago.
i feel the perception that guys are more promiscuous and therefore more a risk to STI's is the greatest misconception as every gent I've had the pleasure in meeting always play safe.
That is exactly the case, but it goes across straight and bi profiles, so many videos are on here of BB anal and throat fucking, it's definitely a turn off seeing people not concerned with their sexual health"
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