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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx |
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Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with.  |
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So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?  
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Speaking for myself I go to clubs to enjoy myself, not to babysit someone. Every club has a host to show you around and give you the basics, the rest is up to you. Clubs aren't for everyone but you'll never know unless you give it a shot. Good luck  |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K"
The above is possible. She didn’t look like her pictures though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with. "
Yeah totally get all this and np im defo nothingblike that obv my hope is to chat openly and honestly with any suiter that may be insterested about both parties boundries rules and expectations ... i no this is prob a mega huge long shot .... as sad and pathetic as it sounds but the amount of rejection iv had here going a clb as a single male alone hopeing someone might be interested in chat not expecting to fck but then to be rejected face to face as much wouls kill my confidence lol xxx |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K"
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee "
I think what you're asking for is probably more challenging than finding someone here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't have enough stamina to go home with someone after I've been to a club "
Thats casue 1 ur a lady so u get fun as and when u please and 2 cause ur smoking hot so again willl get tones of suiter mwah zzz |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
The above is possible. She didn’t look like her pictures though "
It is possible yes…but I’d say it’s more possible getting to know someone, meeting them sexually and then deciding to go to clubs together.
Not the way the OP wants to meet. That’s needle in a haystack territory
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee
I think what you're asking for is probably more challenging than finding someone here."
More then likely obv the posy on the forum was to get opinions of if anyone actually does this or if infact im on cloud cuckoo land and iv zero chance in the flesh let alone here hahaha
Just hard when i didnt feel i was that ugly and obv i no i dont appeal to everyone but the pure rejection iv had makes u feel extremly worthless and yes plse before im attack no i no im not to expect a guarenteed fck on here but be nice to have some female company after a good few years alone xx |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee
I think what you're asking for is probably more challenging than finding someone here.
More then likely obv the posy on the forum was to get opinions of if anyone actually does this or if infact im on cloud cuckoo land and iv zero chance in the flesh let alone here hahaha
Just hard when i didnt feel i was that ugly and obv i no i dont appeal to everyone but the pure rejection iv had makes u feel extremly worthless and yes plse before im attack no i no im not to expect a guarenteed fck on here but be nice to have some female company after a good few years alone xx"
This can be a difficult site for men, I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
The above is possible. She didn’t look like her pictures though
It is possible yes…but I’d say it’s more possible getting to know someone, meeting them sexually and then deciding to go to clubs together.
Not the way the OP wants to meet. That’s needle in a haystack territory
K"
Well no as iv said in relies cpurse id want to meet someone get to know them as well and hopefulky chat but as i dont even get a reply back most time it was just a thought of an alt method xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee
I think what you're asking for is probably more challenging than finding someone here.
More then likely obv the posy on the forum was to get opinions of if anyone actually does this or if infact im on cloud cuckoo land and iv zero chance in the flesh let alone here hahaha
Just hard when i didnt feel i was that ugly and obv i no i dont appeal to everyone but the pure rejection iv had makes u feel extremly worthless and yes plse before im attack no i no im not to expect a guarenteed fck on here but be nice to have some female company after a good few years alone xx
This can be a difficult site for men, I'm afraid."
Under no illusions how difficukt it is ov been on and off here over 10 yeats seen how its got hugely populated and become extremly dofficukt to chat let alone meet . Was jisy wondering if this was an option for anyone is all zx |
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"Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with.
Yeah totally get all this and np im defo nothingblike that obv my hope is to chat openly and honestly with any suiter that may be insterested about both parties boundries rules and expectations ... i no this is prob a mega huge long shot .... as sad and pathetic as it sounds but the amount of rejection iv had here going a clb as a single male alone hopeing someone might be interested in chat not expecting to fck but then to be rejected face to face as much wouls kill my confidence lol xxx"
If your confidence is that fragile, clubs or FAB for that matter aren’t for you…
If you are the type of person that can talk to anyone in normal bars/clubs then sex clubs will work.
If you’re the type to not approach anyone and expect someone to approach you then you’ll have limited chances.
Fortune favours the brave in clubs…the people that do well are chatty and easy going and they may get approached to join others. But sit there awkwardly, acting all shy, then you’ll get ignored.
It’s not rejection, it’s being the right fit for people.
K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with.
Yeah totally get all this and np im defo nothingblike that obv my hope is to chat openly and honestly with any suiter that may be insterested about both parties boundries rules and expectations ... i no this is prob a mega huge long shot .... as sad and pathetic as it sounds but the amount of rejection iv had here going a clb as a single male alone hopeing someone might be interested in chat not expecting to fck but then to be rejected face to face as much wouls kill my confidence lol xxx
If your confidence is that fragile, clubs or FAB for that matter aren’t for you…
If you are the type of person that can talk to anyone in normal bars/clubs then sex clubs will work.
If you’re the type to not approach anyone and expect someone to approach you then you’ll have limited chances.
Fortune favours the brave in clubs…the people that do well are chatty and easy going and they may get approached to join others. But sit there awkwardly, acting all shy, then you’ll get ignored.
It’s not rejection, it’s being the right fit for people.
K"
Well in a social setting my friends say i talk to everyone and anyone and im funny but obv thats worh friends in a diff situation .... im not unconifident like today i got a trim and shave my cousins was like ur look way to psoh tk go barbers but i felt attractive but its the utter fesr of saying hi to somekne and they go errr not for me like alot have on here x obv i get and hooe people in person might ve politier its just a silly pathetic fear of going alone and coming home so wprthless ig that makes sense not that my worth is valued in sex but think we all can aggree it can validate us alot xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with.
Yeah totally get all this and np im defo nothingblike that obv my hope is to chat openly and honestly with any suiter that may be insterested about both parties boundries rules and expectations ... i no this is prob a mega huge long shot .... as sad and pathetic as it sounds but the amount of rejection iv had here going a clb as a single male alone hopeing someone might be interested in chat not expecting to fck but then to be rejected face to face as much wouls kill my confidence lol xxx
If your confidence is that fragile, clubs or FAB for that matter aren’t for you…
If you are the type of person that can talk to anyone in normal bars/clubs then sex clubs will work.
If you’re the type to not approach anyone and expect someone to approach you then you’ll have limited chances.
Fortune favours the brave in clubs…the people that do well are chatty and easy going and they may get approached to join others. But sit there awkwardly, acting all shy, then you’ll get ignored.
It’s not rejection, it’s being the right fit for people.
K
Well in a social setting my friends say i talk to everyone and anyone and im funny but obv thats worh friends in a diff situation .... im not unconifident like today i got a trim and shave my cousins was like ur look way to psoh tk go barbers but i felt attractive but its the utter fesr of saying hi to somekne and they go errr not for me like alot have on here x obv i get and hooe people in person might ve politier its just a silly pathetic fear of going alone and coming home so wprthless ig that makes sense not that my worth is valued in sex but think we all can aggree it can validate us alot xx"
Sadly you have to learn as cold as it might seem rejection is a big part of this lifestyle. Not everyone is going to be your cup of tea and neither are you…
Sometimes it can take a while to find someone.
Don’t go with a mindset of expecting anything, just treat it like a night out and if anything happens… it’s a bonus, if not then it shouldn’t be a problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have a look in the Club review section, there's some around Manchester.
Most women won't go to a club with a stranger. It's too risky. He could get weird, assume she will fuck him, he might get leery and start groping all the women. Some men use the woman as bait to get with couples.
Not saying you are like that of course.
Just go on your own and walk around and see if you meet anyone you get on with.
Yeah totally get all this and np im defo nothingblike that obv my hope is to chat openly and honestly with any suiter that may be insterested about both parties boundries rules and expectations ... i no this is prob a mega huge long shot .... as sad and pathetic as it sounds but the amount of rejection iv had here going a clb as a single male alone hopeing someone might be interested in chat not expecting to fck but then to be rejected face to face as much wouls kill my confidence lol xxx
If your confidence is that fragile, clubs or FAB for that matter aren’t for you…
If you are the type of person that can talk to anyone in normal bars/clubs then sex clubs will work.
If you’re the type to not approach anyone and expect someone to approach you then you’ll have limited chances.
Fortune favours the brave in clubs…the people that do well are chatty and easy going and they may get approached to join others. But sit there awkwardly, acting all shy, then you’ll get ignored.
It’s not rejection, it’s being the right fit for people.
K
Well in a social setting my friends say i talk to everyone and anyone and im funny but obv thats worh friends in a diff situation .... im not unconifident like today i got a trim and shave my cousins was like ur look way to psoh tk go barbers but i felt attractive but its the utter fesr of saying hi to somekne and they go errr not for me like alot have on here x obv i get and hooe people in person might ve politier its just a silly pathetic fear of going alone and coming home so wprthless ig that makes sense not that my worth is valued in sex but think we all can aggree it can validate us alot xx
Sadly you have to learn as cold as it might seem rejection is a big part of this lifestyle. Not everyone is going to be your cup of tea and neither are you…
Sometimes it can take a while to find someone.
Don’t go with a mindset of expecting anything, just treat it like a night out and if anything happens… it’s a bonus, if not then it shouldn’t be a problem "
Yeah i appreciaye that and obv i go hoping but not expecting more thrn likely the oposite but if i looked like u id bounce threw doors like don won demarko hahaa but i look like me and me on here doesnt so it for anyone atm but hay ho as i say was jist wondering if any lady woulda been kind enough to help a guy out for 2023 hahahahaa ?????? |
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"Blackpool social are hosting a social event at a swingers hotel in Blackpool in January. Why not book a place go along and meet likeminded people "
U mind me asking if u no where rhe link is or post etc ? Im nota million miles from bpool so miht give it a try as my first toe dip ... will u be going heheh xx |
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx"
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol...... |
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over a year ago
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"Blackpool social are hosting a social event at a swingers hotel in Blackpool in January. Why not book a place go along and meet likeminded people
U mind me asking if u no where rhe link is or post etc ? Im nota million miles from bpool so miht give it a try as my first toe dip ... will u be going heheh xx "
Look up Blackpool Social Couple they are hosting. Yes I may be |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol...... "
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K"
It's sooooo romantic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Blackpool social are hosting a social event at a swingers hotel in Blackpool in January. Why not book a place go along and meet likeminded people
U mind me asking if u no where rhe link is or post etc ? Im nota million miles from bpool so miht give it a try as my first toe dip ... will u be going heheh xx
Look up Blackpool Social Couple they are hosting. Yes I may be"
Really appreciate that sweet il take a gander thank u xxxx |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol......
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
Thabk u pal "
Club play is the best club around and I’ve been to a few. Much better than the Chorley club and infusions but I guess you need to make your own mind up |
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"So you want a single woman to go to a club with you, hold your hand and suck your cock.
Then you go off and play around and then you get together at the end and have sex together.
You read many fairytales OP?
K
I no it may sound silly and wishful and obv as iv said id hope to chat about expectations but in an ideal wprld id hope to go with someone who found me sexually attractive in the first place obviously hehee
I think what you're asking for is probably more challenging than finding someone here.
More then likely obv the posy on the forum was to get opinions of if anyone actually does this or if infact im on cloud cuckoo land and iv zero chance in the flesh let alone here hahaha
Just hard when i didnt feel i was that ugly and obv i no i dont appeal to everyone but the pure rejection iv had makes u feel extremly worthless and yes plse before im attack no i no im not to expect a guarenteed fck on here but be nice to have some female company after a good few years alone xx
This can be a difficult site for men, I'm afraid."
Difficult is an understatement. |
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol......
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
Thabk u pal
Club play is the best club around and I’ve been to a few. Much better than the Chorley club and infusions but I guess you need to make your own mind up "
Guess everyone has there likes and dislikes about them all . Was just saying i had red in the forums alot of people saying club play ws extrenly clicky ... i appreciate everyones help x |
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol......
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
Thabk u pal
Club play is the best club around and I’ve been to a few. Much better than the Chorley club and infusions but I guess you need to make your own mind up
Guess everyone has there likes and dislikes about them all . Was just saying i had red in the forums alot of people saying club play ws extrenly clicky ... i appreciate everyones help x"
I’ve been to 7 different clubs to a total of 17 visits, as a solo guy, and two clubs I definitely wouldn’t return to. One is Club Play. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though! |
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol......
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
Thabk u pal
Club play is the best club around and I’ve been to a few. Much better than the Chorley club and infusions but I guess you need to make your own mind up
Guess everyone has there likes and dislikes about them all . Was just saying i had red in the forums alot of people saying club play ws extrenly clicky ... i appreciate everyones help x
I’ve been to 7 different clubs to a total of 17 visits, as a solo guy, and two clubs I definitely wouldn’t return to. One is Club Play. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though! "
7 fck me haha u get about lolol thanks bud im trmpted fpr cupids heard alotof good about it tbh as i said the original post wasjust to see if . A lady woulda liked to have come along fpr moral support hahah |
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"So iv recently been told off multiple foruns pists that clubs are better luck for sibgle men then on here but im wanting to maybe try a club with a ladie whp knows somw kind of cpuplws hook up if that makes sense
Go together hppefully have fum togther for others to watch maybe go our seperate ways for a bit then back together to go hone and play
Im in the north west but mot sure of mainly clubs other thrn bpool and chorley
Would anyone like to take on an apprentise of sorts in jan and help me kickstart my club experiences in 2023
Would that be of interest to any lady at all ? Xx
I can definitely recommend No.3 in Chorley, for your first time in a club. It's a nice place, not too big that you will feel lost in, and has a proper social area around the bar, that you can chat to people in. Mary, Sian and Ged were always friendly and made me feel welcome, and even remembered my name on repeat visits when I'm hardly a regular there.
As for Blackpool clubs; I haven't been to Infusion, but friends of mine say it's a very relaxed atmosphere, and more like a spa visit, so probably good for you to learn to relax in a swinging environment. Club Play I found to be very clicky, and made feel as welcome as a fart in a lift. Although the place is clean, tidy, and well decorated throughout, it was very cold upstairs, and the bar area doesn't work well for social mixing (it was a particularly quiet night when I went mind).
There are precious few single ladies visit swinger clubs as a rule, so you are unlikely to find one willing to babysit you. Just try a couple of places, tell yourself to have a drink, and give it an hour. You're more likely to be underwhelmed and wonder why so many in the forums bleat on about the places lol......
Aprreciate the heads up buddy tbf head alot of te same about club pky and actually no one of the ladies who organsies alot of the event and i totally get why ud say what u did about it ... as for the chorley one i work there alot so might give that a tryabd does sound very relaxed
Thabk u pal
Club play is the best club around and I’ve been to a few. Much better than the Chorley club and infusions but I guess you need to make your own mind up
Guess everyone has there likes and dislikes about them all . Was just saying i had red in the forums alot of people saying club play ws extrenly clicky ... i appreciate everyones help x
I’ve been to 7 different clubs to a total of 17 visits, as a solo guy, and two clubs I definitely wouldn’t return to. One is Club Play. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though!
7 fck me haha u get about lolol thanks bud im trmpted fpr cupids heard alotof good about it tbh as i said the original post wasjust to see if . A lady woulda liked to have come along fpr moral support hahah "
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When I used to go to clubs I would never take a stranger I valued my reputation. You don't know how they are going to behave. Leary creepy or drink to much. zgo on your own. Some clubs have newbie nights or go to a big social at a club. If you interact with other people you will be looked after |
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