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Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break 
I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….
Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?
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You’d probably have more luck going to a club.
Whilst we’d be happy someone watching for a bit privately, another person would be there to join in too.
We don’t get off any more having someone watch us but maybe others will. Also doesn’t detract - I switch off to my surroundings once in the zone…I’m having sex not performing for someone.
K |
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"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.
Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit."
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"You’d probably have more luck going to a club.
Whilst we’d be happy someone watching for a bit privately, another person would be there to join in too.
We don’t get off any more having someone watch us but maybe others will. Also doesn’t detract - I switch off to my surroundings once in the zone…I’m having sex not performing for someone.
K"
Yes I think I need to have my first club visit
The porn comment was for exactly that reason of it not being a ‘performance’
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"Fairly common in clubs. I know that’s the usual advice on here but if you just want to watch people have sex there probably isn’t a better place for it."
I best get to google then… |
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"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.
Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit."
Yeah. A creepy drooling approach is my bag.
Get your own approach, OP |
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"Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break
I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….
Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?
Always curious "
Like an impartial observer? Would it be for mutual sexual pleasure? |
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"A stranger asking to watch is going to come across in the creepy drooling way I think.
Asking people you already know who are into that might be okay. But don't make it an opening gambit.
Yeah. A creepy drooling approach is my bag.
Get your own approach, OP"
But if yours works I’m stealing it haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hello all I hope you have had a fantastic festive break
I was just sat here in this ‘unknown week’ between Xmas and new year …. And I thought to myself….
Would it be rude / too intrusive to ask a couple (male & female or female & female) if you could join them just to watch? Not in a creepy drooling on yourself kind of way… but just to see how others interact with one another? And it be ‘real life’ and not just a staged porn shoot?
Always curious
Like an impartial observer? Would it be for mutual sexual pleasure?"
It would certainly turn me on… and if I was adding to their experience then that would be amazing …. |
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If it's what you want and if you don't ask you don't get then ask away.
Some may find it creepy ....some may enjoy putting on a show.
I have these kind of offers and I'm wary of them, for ultimately don't people want to 'get off' and they may see this as a way in.
I dare say there are those true voyeuristic and don't need to touch.
Would that be seen as a kink as there is no sexual pleasure in the moment?
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"If it's what you want and if you don't ask you don't get then ask away.
Some may find it creepy ....some may enjoy putting on a show.
I have these kind of offers and I'm wary of them, for ultimately don't people want to 'get off' and they may see this as a way in.
I dare say there are those true voyeuristic and don't need to touch.
Would that be seen as a kink as there is no sexual pleasure in the moment?
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You don’t need to touch to get off surely? Within the mind stimulation can be excelled? |
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