 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I've got an offer from a beautiful lady, but she's pre op.....
She's promised it will be hidden, she has amazing breasts, and is beautiful!
But there's a metaphoric elephant in the room.....
Any straight guys with experience? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me "
So don't meet her. If it bothers you then it's not fair on either of you.
Nothing worse than a straight man suddenly getting angry with regret after sex. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me
So don't meet her. If it bothers you then it's not fair on either of you.
Nothing worse than a straight man suddenly getting angry with regret after sex. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's different potentially, if you meet in a place like a club, a guy adores my breasts, we have a snog and move on, to meeting somewhere private, where it could be uncomfortable.
If uncertain, perhaps just have a social. Just ensure that she doesn't feel like an experiment or a curiosity.
All activities are consensual, so nothing is agreed, until it is. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
All I can say is that I wouldn’t want to meet anyone who wasn’t 100% happy with the every part of my body.
Be honest with her about your concerns before you meet and leave it up to her |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me "
Not being into cock doesn't make you a terrible person |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me
Not being into cock doesn't make you a terrible person "
Absolutely, this hasn’t really been said enough so far. Whilst you should discuss your concerns with her it should also be said that it’s perfectly okay that you have concerns in the first place, it doesn’t at all make you a bad person that you do. We all like what we like or don’t in this case |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me
Not being into cock doesn't make you a terrible person
Absolutely, this hasn’t really been said enough so far. Whilst you should discuss your concerns with her it should also be said that it’s perfectly okay that you have concerns in the first place, it doesn’t at all make you a bad person that you do. We all like what we like or don’t in this case "
I agree. Male bits are an absolute red line for me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Half the population don't have cocks so why sweat it? Either enjoy meeting her,all of her,or don't. I met a TS in Spain a couple of years ago and it was awesome |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Meet for a social, take sex off the table and see where it goes.
For me if I was to be having these kind of doubts then I would call off any kind of potentially sexual meet.
Your right there is an elephant in the room and that is not going away.
She deserves someone who 'really' wants to meet her.
This can't be easy for her either, don't lead her on and make your mind up, soon.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me
Not being into cock doesn't make you a terrible person "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Private.....
I'm conflicted..... she's (and I don't mean to be rude) one of the most feminine and beautiful trans ladies I've met, and she's said it would be tucked away, we'll have lots of kisses and cuddles, but there's still that other thing, and I feel like a terrible person that it bothers me
Not being into cock doesn't make you a terrible person "
Everyone has first times. You don't know if you don't try. But if you already feel bad about it, don't try it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
