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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
I was just thinking about how profiles can not really tell us much even when really filled out.
Sometimes profiles have really clear statements about what they’re looking for, but at the same time are so subjective. For example, “must be good looking”. Surely the “what’s the best size cock?” debate is easier to answer than “what makes someone good looking?”, especially with how subjective beauty is.
Another one is about humour. How on earth do people know if their humour suits yours?!
Any other clear statements which people have found ambiguous, during their time on fab?
J.H
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Please do not mention “must be professional” as that always turns into all out forum warfare  |
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over a year ago
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"We had a profile message that had 2 lines of text one being "if you don't think your sexy don't message us".
Our reply was I don't think I'm sexy sorry! It seemed a very strange thing to ask.
Mrs
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You are sexy as fuck.
Be more knights. That's the answer. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going."
Even after all of that though, you have no public face pic, no public dick pic, though your sense of humour is kinda visible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going."
You're right, you are funny... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going.
Even after all of that though, you have no public face pic, no public dick pic, though your sense of humour is kinda visible "
Start with the bait my friend, reel them in with the looks and cock after  |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
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"We had a profile message that had 2 lines of text one being "if you don't think your sexy don't message us".
Our reply was I don't think I'm sexy sorry! It seemed a very strange thing to ask.
Mrs
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Ah well. I guess they wanted people with over the top egos. You guys are sexy as hell!
Their profile makes me think of american psycho and Christian Bale flexing at himself in the mirror. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops 
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ..."
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional! |
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""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional! "
He is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think couples just looking for single guys to join them in general. There are so many dynamics I've heard of that they don't really go into detail of what they want the guy to do if they meet. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is "
Perfect! Butler only meet then! |
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""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is
Perfect! Butler only meet then!"
Well I could send my valet too  |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is
Perfect! Butler only meet then!
Well I could send my valet too "
Now you’re just rubbing it in. Next you’ll invite me to your country estate! And after all this you’ll tell me your working class!
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""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is
Perfect! Butler only meet then!
Well I could send my valet too
Now you’re just rubbing it in. Next you’ll invite me to your country estate! And after all this you’ll tell me your working class!
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I could send the chauffeur to collect ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume I’m neither funny nor good looking.
I’m told humour is attractive…and yet I get very few people wanting to meet up Face to face and when I send a face picture… I stop getting messages 
So that’s how people people decide if you are or not. |
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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is
Perfect! Butler only meet then!
Well I could send my valet too
Now you’re just rubbing it in. Next you’ll invite me to your country estate! And after all this you’ll tell me your working class!
I could send the chauffeur to collect ..."
As long as smells good! |
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""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ...
Oh butler you say. You sound posh. Doesn’t mean you’re professional!
He is
Perfect! Butler only meet then!
Well I could send my valet too
Now you’re just rubbing it in. Next you’ll invite me to your country estate! And after all this you’ll tell me your working class!
I could send the chauffeur to collect ...
As long as smells good!"
Depends if he's just treated the leather or not ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Professional "
Oh wait ... you said ... oops
On god. What “class” means will be coming next!! You mark my words!
Hang on .. I'll ask my butler ..."
Haha I think he's in the cupboard with my Maid |
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going."
You beat me to it by half an hour. I was busy in the kitchen.
Professional here. Goes without saying.
Sense of humour, debatable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text/ info - like verifications - are pointless. "
Verifications yes, utterly pointless!
But the bio is all you, not some randoms opinion on you.
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Sure most people are at least vaguely aware of traditional beauty standards. So if you know you're in those ranges, or just that you have enough success that your looks are clearly good enough, then you class as good looking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text/ info - like verifications - are pointless.
Verifications yes, utterly pointless!
But the bio is all you, not some randoms opinion on you.
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Yeah but I could write any old shite on there. Make it sound like I'm hot and funny and wet. Absolute bollocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text/ info - like verifications - are pointless.
Verifications yes, utterly pointless!
But the bio is all you, not some randoms opinion on you.
Yeah but I could write any old shite on there. Make it sound like I'm hot and funny and wet. Absolute bollocks. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text/ info - like verifications - are pointless.
Verifications yes, utterly pointless!
But the bio is all you, not some randoms opinion on you.
Yeah but I could write any old shite on there. Make it sound like I'm hot and funny and wet. Absolute bollocks.
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We met at a social, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be frank it’s all nonsense. You can write what you want air brush pictures and post as many glowing verifications as you like. The proof of the pudding is meeting face to face making a decision on what are the options.
This of course excludes group events where it’s a matter of numbers? |
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All language is going to be unique to us, tapping into our unique experiences and personalities. We can only try to colour our written and spoken words in ways that get some of the tone and colour to reflect our perceptions and reality. |
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I think some people take this too seriously. This is supposed to be fun; a release from the drudgery of every day existence. If I'm not going to tick your boxes, I'm not gonna send a message, and I'll find someone who's witty, interesting and doesn't take themselves too seriously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text/ info - like verifications - are pointless.
Verifications yes, utterly pointless!
But the bio is all you, not some randoms opinion on you.
Yeah but I could write any old shite on there. Make it sound like I'm hot and funny and wet. Absolute bollocks.
We met at a social, right?"
Hahaha. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going."
Two out of three isn’t bad  |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
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Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive. |
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive."
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive."
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking "
If you are the guy in the shower, you are hot.
If they laugh at you they are shitty people. |
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking
If you are the guy in the shower, you are hot.
If they laugh at you they are shitty people. "
All of my photos are me and some people are just shitty people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going.
Two out of three isn’t bad "
Could be worse right?! |
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Looking for like minded people... How do you know if someone is like minded unless you say what you're into/looking for... It's so vague!
Also "people who look after themselves" I mean I have a shower and brush my hair most days, does that count? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never ask for a face pic in a first message
Plus no one wants to see my mush 
Try me
God no you’ll have nightmares "
I slept like little baby Jesus the night I saw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never ask for a face pic in a first message
Plus no one wants to see my mush
Try me
God no you’ll have nightmares
I slept like little baby Jesus the night I saw "
Yeah yeah whatever Brucey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for like minded people... How do you know if someone is like minded unless you say what you're into/looking for... It's so vague!
Also "people who look after themselves" I mean I have a shower and brush my hair most days, does that count? "
Pretty feet is essential |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for like minded people... How do you know if someone is like minded unless you say what you're into/looking for... It's so vague!
Also "people who look after themselves" I mean I have a shower and brush my hair most days, does that count? "
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"I was just thinking about how profiles can not really tell us much even when really filled out.
Sometimes profiles have really clear statements about what they’re looking for, but at the same time are so subjective. For example, “must be good looking”. Surely the “what’s the best size cock?” debate is easier to answer than “what makes someone good looking?”, especially with how subjective beauty is.
Another one is about humour. How on earth do people know if their humour suits yours?!
Any other clear statements which people have found ambiguous, during their time on fab?
J.H
P.S
Please do not mention “must be professional” as that always turns into all out forum warfare "
They don't know any of these things yet but it's their guideline, so we send pics they evaluate then you either have success or you don't, simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The requests for “Hot guys only” are a bit confusing.
I mean, does everyone rush to the mirror and say that’s me, I’ll drop a message? And I’m guessing they’ve formed the opinion they are hot themselves,hence the request?
I think Fab should add an overall rating box, where you can tick normal for your profile  |
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"Heavy cummer.........is there such a thing?
At best there can only be a couple of tables spoons as a variation. What’s 30mls between intimate friends?"
I met heavy cummers. There's definitely a clear difference |
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" The requests for “Hot guys only” are a bit confusing.
I mean, does everyone rush to the mirror and say that’s me, I’ll drop a message? And I’m guessing they’ve formed the opinion they are hot themselves,hence the request?
I think Fab should add an overall rating box, where you can tick normal for your profile "
Maybe a "hot guy" is someone who is in high demand? |
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They are all legal disclaimers which allow the owner of the profile to point to a failure to uphold, or maintain, the particular characteristic, as a clear and satisfactory reason to discontinue any relationship/communication.
Signed, The Fab Lawyer. (Qualification: I watched some Rumpole.) |
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"They are all legal disclaimers which allow the owner of the profile to point to a failure to uphold, or maintain, the particular characteristic, as a clear and satisfactory reason to discontinue any relationship/communication.
Signed, The Fab Lawyer. (Qualification: I watched some Rumpole.) "
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going.
You're right, you are funny..."
Funny looking .....  |
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"We had a profile message that had 2 lines of text one being "if you don't think your sexy don't message us".
Our reply was I don't think I'm sexy sorry! It seemed a very strange thing to ask.
Mrs
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I think by the sounds of it they were after someone not necessarily sexy but someone who is confident in their own skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heavy cummer.........is there such a thing?
At best there can only be a couple of tables spoons as a variation. What’s 30mls between intimate friends?
I met heavy cummers. There's definitely a clear difference "
I refer the honourable lady to my previous post! |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking "
Don’t be, I’ve just read your veri’s and you have been described as, handsome, gorgeous and a dreamboat, you look good looking to me from what I can see on your pics and yes of course not everyone’s for everyone but if you like someone go for it |
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking
Don’t be, I’ve just read your veri’s and you have been described as, handsome, gorgeous and a dreamboat, you look good looking to me from what I can see on your pics and yes of course not everyone’s for everyone but if you like someone go for it "
Thank you for saying so
I'll make sure I message more people in the future and the worse that happens is I get no reply or just deleted so far but I rarely send messages at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good looking is easy. Have a face like mine.
Have a good cock is easy. Have a cock like mine.
Have a good sense of humour you see where this is going.
You're right, you are funny...
Funny looking ..... "
Well I thought folk were nicer in Cumbria I gotta say! |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking
Don’t be, I’ve just read your veri’s and you have been described as, handsome, gorgeous and a dreamboat, you look good looking to me from what I can see on your pics and yes of course not everyone’s for everyone but if you like someone go for it
Thank you for saying so
I'll make sure I message more people in the future and the worse that happens is I get no reply or just deleted so far but I rarely send messages at the moment "
Just go for it, you never know what will happen |
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking
Don’t be, I’ve just read your veri’s and you have been described as, handsome, gorgeous and a dreamboat, you look good looking to me from what I can see on your pics and yes of course not everyone’s for everyone but if you like someone go for it
Thank you for saying so
I'll make sure I message more people in the future and the worse that happens is I get no reply or just deleted so far but I rarely send messages at the moment
Just go for it, you never know what will happen "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I pretty much avoid messaging anyone that says they're looking for good looking, hung, exceptional etc
Everyone’s idea of good looking is different though, one of my friends makes my mind boggle at who she thinks is attractive.
Yes this is true but I just have visions of me sending a message and them laughing because I don't think I'm good looking
Don’t be, I’ve just read your veri’s and you have been described as, handsome, gorgeous and a dreamboat, you look good looking to me from what I can see on your pics and yes of course not everyone’s for everyone but if you like someone go for it
Thank you for saying so
I'll make sure I message more people in the future and the worse that happens is I get no reply or just deleted so far but I rarely send messages at the moment
Just go for it, you never know what will happen
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You've got this sport! |
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