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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u??  can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol |
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You're new here, right? Basically don't expect anything. This place is the biggest sausage fest ever, women get literally hundreds of messages a day.
Want to get noticed then start going to the socials and the clubs. |
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Hi mate. It's a vicious circle I'm afraid on here. No one will meet you if you arnt "meet verified", but you can't get verified if no one will meet you.
A lot of us single blokes on here suffer from exactly the same problem. |
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There are four things you can have on here that increase your chances:
Good avatar
Good profile text
Good gallery
Good messages
Any one of these can let you down if you get it wrong.
Remember: Cock photos are not popular. |
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"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"
Who are you fucking bb in your pics if you have not met anyone on here? |
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"Thanks guys might just have to go to the clubs the closer one to me is the attic in Derby anyone one meet for a social?"
The Attic is a great club. No guarantee of sex but if you're friendly you'll find plenty of people to chat to.
If you want to meet from here, I would suggest that you rethink your profile. That said, if you're happy that it accurately reflects you, then leave it as it is.
Nita |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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you get notice by standing out and being you ..
no one knows you no one knows what you like or are into ? only you know the answer to this ..
advice will not help you all it will do is give you a false profile thats not you and end up looking like all the other profiles that asked for advice ..
come on op open up feel what you want to write be you there no such thing as a perfect profile you'll never please everyone and dont forget fab its self is way way more than these tiny forums
be you be confident take your time do it a bit at a time after all its no race on here if your a guy as its hard for guys |
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The SHOUTY ‘rules’ of your profile - really necessary?
I’d say it was common sense to be shower fresh and cleaning their teeth would be basic hygiene level.
Not one person who doesn’t do the above will think ‘shit, he’s put it on his profile as a rule, so it must be a dealbreaker’ 
Everything has to appeal on your profile, (pics/bio/interests/messages - if one thing looks odd/strange/weird then people will just move on to the next guy…
K
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"There are four things you can have on here that increase your chances:
Good avatar
Good profile text
Good gallery
Good messages
Any one of these can let you down if you get it wrong.
Remember: Cock photos are not popular. "
Totally agree with the above, maybe look a little at your approach and list of demands.
Have a look at some of the popular guys pics and profile see where they are going right and you wrong.
Just don't expect to much.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys might just have to go to the clubs the closer one to me is the attic in Derby anyone one meet for a social?
The Attic is a great club. No guarantee of sex but if you're friendly you'll find plenty of people to chat to.
If you want to meet from here, I would suggest that you rethink your profile. That said, if you're happy that it accurately reflects you, then leave it as it is.
Nita"
thanks guys |
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"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"
Change your gender to female 
No don't do that. Just keep trying and have no expectations. Everyone is busy and most women on here need to hire an admin assistant, impossible for them to go through all those messages. hopefully they get time to take a break over the coming bank holiday.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised "
Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the tune of fresh prince. Du duh do do do!
Now, this is a story all about how
life on fab-can make a man feel down
And I'd like to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how many people tell us life ain’t fair!!!
At best the ‘forumites’ will hear this every day
“Why won’t people meet me?, I’ve tried every way! “
Send dicks out, tits out, blowjob on a stool.
Deleted ignore feeling like a fool
Then a couple of messages from a woman wants wood!
Wasted your time, being blocked ain’t good
You’re ego is floored and you feel despair
You say, I’m posting in the forum because fab ain’t fair!
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"Can someone please help how do u get notice on this site I don't judge I love everything about swinging but can't even get a reply back. How do u get verified if no one will see u or even reply back to u?? can someone help I know so am not that ugly lol"
one good tip don’t seem so desperate |
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"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised
Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys"
Purple mamba is literally round the corner from your profile picture op give that a try 
Mr |
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"Go to clubs or to an organised meet and greet and expect nothing and when something does happen you will be plesently surprised
Very true I think that's the best is to to the club thanks guys
Purple mamba is literally round the corner from your profile picture op give that a try
Mr"
I would go there but a family member lives next door lmao |
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