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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, so let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.
It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.
Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.
Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.
Please remember to keep it via PM, not on the thread.
The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Try to think of it like group therapy, it’s not about you, it’s about others too. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...
Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.
Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.
Away you go folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh  "
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh "
Hey!!! Good to see you back  |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads. "
Who are you again? 
Miss me?
Posh |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
Hey!!! Good to see you back "
Hey Ruby... thanks!
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh "
Christmas is complete and it just so happens to be tits out Tuesday |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
Christmas is complete and it just so happens to be tits out Tuesday "
Oops... I totally forgot Tuesday. Gimme a sec and I'll sort it out
Also... aww fanks 
(Tea is gonna kill me)
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
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"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
Posh! Hello lovely!
Mrs TMN x"
Hi there Mrs  good to see you
P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads.
Who are you again?
Miss me?
Posh "
I thought a 4 month break from you would have been better.  :-good to see you back. |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads.
Who are you again?
Miss me?
Posh
I thought a 4 month break from you would have been better. :-good to see you back. "
I knew you had missed me you cheeky devil. Sending a massive snog (from me... Bob doesn't wanna snog you, sorry)
P |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads.
Who are you again?
Miss me?
Posh
I thought a 4 month break from you would have been better. :-good to see you back.
I knew you had missed me you cheeky devil. Sending a massive snog (from me... Bob doesn't wanna snog you, sorry)
P "
Fgs!
You could literally flirt anywhere!
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Well... those I know probably already know what I'll say, and those I don't won't have anything to say... but hey, why the hell not? I'm in.
Posh
I used to know another Posh. She was in this forum loads.
Who are you again?
Miss me?
Posh
I thought a 4 month break from you would have been better. :-good to see you back.
I knew you had missed me you cheeky devil. Sending a massive snog (from me... Bob doesn't wanna snog you, sorry)
P
Fgs!
You could literally flirt anywhere!
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And I'm not even sorry |
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters"
I assume you have yours up, too, since your profile is hidden to me. Absolutely not a complaint! You need to do whatever works for you. But just checking it's not an oversight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters"
Maybe Tea would pass them on for you? Or i don't mind, if you want to message me instead (i can remove my 'no public photo' temporarily) |
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
I assume you have yours up, too, since your profile is hidden to me. Absolutely not a complaint! You need to do whatever works for you. But just checking it's not an oversight. "
No. People can message me they just can't see my profile |
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
Maybe Tea would pass them on for you? Or i don't mind, if you want to message me instead (i can remove my 'no public photo' temporarily)"
Time for another 'Lady's Prerogative' thread, maybe? |
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
Maybe Tea would pass them on for you? Or i don't mind, if you want to message me instead (i can remove my 'no public photo' temporarily)"
Thankyou midnight |
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
I assume you have yours up, too, since your profile is hidden to me. Absolutely not a complaint! You need to do whatever works for you. But just checking it's not an oversight. No. People can message me they just can't see my profile"
Ah, got it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
Maybe Tea would pass them on for you? Or i don't mind, if you want to message me instead (i can remove my 'no public photo' temporarily)Thankyou midnight"
I've adjusted filters - will put them back tomorrow x no pressure if you change your mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm back in today. Had a couple of nice messages. I'm finding it difficult to message the ones I want due to filters
Maybe Tea would pass them on for you? Or i don't mind, if you want to message me instead (i can remove my 'no public photo' temporarily)
Time for another 'Lady's Prerogative' thread, maybe? "
Oh i don't remember that thread, I'll have to search |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me 
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market? "
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P |
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"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P "
You want to put me on display in the penis museum? |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum? "
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis |
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"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis "
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year  |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year "
Dammit... I needed a new one. I kinda... erm... got over enthusiastic with the last one and it's... an ex-clone.
I'll wait until after the xmas rush though |
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"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year
Dammit... I needed a new one. I kinda... erm... got over enthusiastic with the last one and it's... an ex-clone.
I'll wait until after the xmas rush though"
Posh, Breaker of the penis |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year
Dammit... I needed a new one. I kinda... erm... got over enthusiastic with the last one and it's... an ex-clone.
I'll wait until after the xmas rush though"
Question;
Is your PM function broken? |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year
Dammit... I needed a new one. I kinda... erm... got over enthusiastic with the last one and it's... an ex-clone.
I'll wait until after the xmas rush though
Question;
Is your PM function broken? "
You're so mean to me 
Also I think it must be |
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"Go on then, I think quite a few don't know how to take me
I'll take you
Posh
To the Christmas Market?
Absolutely! Can we go to some in Berlin? I know some other very interesting places you'd like there too
P
You want to put me on display in the penis museum?
Oh darling... there are many things I'd like to do with your penis
I'm not doing more clones, royal mail hate me this time of year
Dammit... I needed a new one. I kinda... erm... got over enthusiastic with the last one and it's... an ex-clone.
I'll wait until after the xmas rush though
Question;
Is your PM function broken? "
Not as much as your humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got one , and it kind of summed me up pretty well "
I got one. I’m hoping to ask them to book in with them next week as part of my ongoing therapy.
Can you hear that sound! *** that was them hitting the mail on the head with their message ! |
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