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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?
How do you respond?
This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors."
Two questions.
Who made the first contact - you or them?
Are you actually interested in the profile or not?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.
I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave! |
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If interested and they send one when they ask sure no problem but if someone with no pics asks they get politely told no until they provide one of there own with proof like the daily newspaper in it |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.
I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!"
I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.
It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.
Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.
I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!
I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.
It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.
**Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?**
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"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?
How do you respond?
This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors.
Two questions.
Who made the first contact - you or them?
Are you actually interested in the profile or not?
A"
Two very important questions
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love it when you send a face pic and then the chat just ends! Subtle 
Wait what?!?
I thought they'd just got really busy. "
I like to believe that cos that’s happened to me before I had a face pic |
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I wouldn’t continue to chat to someone without seeing one, I have mine on my profile, but appreciate some can’t/won’t do that, but I’m not going to expend a huge amount of effort talking to a cleavage (I save that for the pub) |
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Most of the (single woman) profiles that I see say something along the lines of "no face pic no reply" so I'm quite surprised by the number of people in this thread that don't expect to exchange those early in the conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always ask! Don't ask you don't get people.
I also send on account of being a handsome son of a bitch that only sometimes has women say 'you look young' - yeah well sorry I'm not wrinkled to the max looking gaunt and ill you precious angel face  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't send one if they're unverified but if we've been chatting a while and think it could end up going somewhere, I'll send one so they're not too invested if they don't find me attractive and if they want to send one back, it's up to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inconsistent in my replies.. very dependent on my mood. However I do think it's important to know early on if you find that face attractive (both ways). I usually do the autodelete when read... irrelevant really as can't imagine anyone wanting to collect it! |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
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I have to be fairly interested in somebody to be motivated enough to send a face pic. I'm a fiercely private person, so if I'm asked for a face pic in early stages of a chat it sets off alarm bells tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the (single woman) profiles that I see say something along the lines of "no face pic no reply" so I'm quite surprised by the number of people in this thread that don't expect to exchange those early in the conversation."
Mine specifically says 'no face pix'... If I'm asked for a face pix, or get sent one unprompted , its almost a guarantee that the conversation will never develop into anything more meaningful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "
Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo]  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.
Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo] "
Oh I hate those people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "
This is the worst thing ever , especially when you already kinda like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward. "
Ouch!  |
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.
Especially when people say 'so what do you think' [of my photo] "
Yes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.
Ouch! "
Moral of the story.. Don't send a face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not photo verified but that’s my choice, I am verified. I don’t believe you can treat people like they are fake unless proved otherwise. There are people who aren’t tech savvy, or who have issues like dyslexia or dyspraxia which means they can’t work things out like others can. Have a heart & give them your mug shot, they may then just block you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I prefer not to see them.
In my head they are super hot as well as funny, then they send it and it's just eugh. Then you have to phase the conversation out which is always awkward.
Ouch!
Moral of the story.. Don't send a face pic "
Fiiiiiine... Dick pic it is then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always like to swap face pics quite early on. I don’t want to be wasting each others time if it turns out there’s no attraction. "
^ looks like Megan Fox |
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"Do you send face pics when someone asks for one?
How do you respond?
This person asking is not verified so thinking they might be fake or just pic collectors."
Not straight away...but if I like what I see I usually do... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only after we have exchanged quite a few messages and I'm interested in them.
I do think people who have their face photos in public display are very brave!
I don't think them necessarily brave. It's all personal choice but I'm always a little worried about discretion.
It's great that they have no hang ups about being easily identified on a swingers site, but others may feel differently and require a more discreet approach.
Not putting everyone into the same basket, but if they're not worried about their own privacy how much will they worry about yours?
A"
Good point. I also would hate to be approached when out in the street if I was with my children for example. |
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