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the hell you ladys go through on this site
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I now understand the hell you ladys go through on this site.
I recomended a female friend to this site as she wanted to explore with more people than just having fun with me.
She signed up less that 24 hours ago and she just send me screen shots of her profile.
471 people veiwed her profile and around 200 messages.
And i gotta say some of the messages the men have sent her are vile.
never realised how many desprate men there are here, anoys me as the sincer ones like myself get lost in with the nutters.
rant over lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her the good stuff then.
Amongst all those messages she signed up for and you recommended. She may find what she’s looking for!!
Men and women have different struggles on Fab. Hers is TOO MANY MESSEGES some are shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes plenty horny guys, some genuine & some not (like the flakes who have no interest in real time play but just keen to waste time and knock one out). Part & parcel of free sex site. Unfortunately, have to deal with the mud before finding gold.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best advice I can give for any woman joining the site
1. As soon as you make a profile hide it
2. Do not reply to any messages that come though at first as replying will allow them to slip through any filters put in place
3 set all filters to max
4 un hide the profile deleted all the message that came through before hiding and setting filters
And do her own hunting |
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When we opened this profile and when I opened my single profile the volume of messages was surprising although most were just hi type messages so easily deleted (did initially answer them but realised it wasn't feasible). It's very rare to receive a nasty message but they are easily deleted so good messages do actually stand out. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Best advice I can give for any woman joining the site
1. As soon as you make a profile hide it
2. Do not reply to any messages that come though at first as replying will allow them to slip through any filters put in place
3 set all filters to max
4 un hide the profile deleted all the message that came through before hiding and setting filters
And do her own hunting "
You know it NH  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best advice I can give for any woman joining the site
1. As soon as you make a profile hide it
2. Do not reply to any messages that come though at first as replying will allow them to slip through any filters put in place
3 set all filters to max
4 un hide the profile deleted all the message that came through before hiding and setting filters
And do her own hunting
You know it NH "
Yip I do that x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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never realised how many desprate men there are here, anoys me as the sincer ones like myself get lost in with the nutters.
rant over lol
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Nope. Just nope.
Other guys being 'nutters' as you put it will just make the good profiles stand out more, boosting their chances of success.
People aren't stupid. Women and couples are more than capable of setting good filters to out people they're not interested in. It's really not hard to stop incoming messages if you don't want them. We don't use a generic block on all single men yet on average get 20 odd messages a week - and most of those go straight in the bin because they've failed to read the profile and are asking to meet.
She'll be fine. It may take a while to get used to things but it's really not hard. And in a couple of weeks she can pop on this thread to give us all an update on how things have worked out. 
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