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Longest 'hello' to fuck..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown  , some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?
I think mine is about 2 years!! |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown , some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?
I think mine is about 2 years!!"
Ongoing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So theres a thread running about how quickly you make the decision, but I was wondering the opposite.. people lead busy lives these days, sometimes theres a lockdown , some people like to build a rapport, a friendship, etc, so what is the longest you have gone, from first contact, to meeting someone for sex?
I think mine is about 2 years!!
Ongoing "
So you haven't had any meets?  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
I generally have the attention span of a gnat so am only interested in local and if it doesn't happen quickly I lose interest. The very occasional exception is if the guy is sitting at the top of my 'to do' list but isn't within striking distance. Then I have been known to bide my time for months |
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About 20 years. Used to flirt with girl at school and we kept in contact. Met up with her long time after school for a drink. One thing led to another. We both felt we had missed out not taking further before |
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I started talking to someone on here in the spring of 2020, life got in the way and we lost touch. Started talking again earlier this year and it still took another 2 months to actually find out what he was like in bed.
Unfortunately life has got in the way again, but I do hope we can pick things back up when life settles down again. |
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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago
southeast , midlands, southern France |
I find if people genuinely want to meet, it can happen quite quickly. Unfortunately because of fake profiles it can be all your life, I was Catfished on here and it wasn't untill about 6 months that I realised. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"6 months from her initial contact to consummation.
18 months from her initial contact to me finally telling her last night "no thank you".
Being a gentleman sometimes has its misgivings."
If I understand this correctly, you split with someone last night? Hope you are ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clocks still ticking away!
Same here.
I have situational circumstances - what's your excuse!  "
I want to get to know someone properly before I have my first ever meet with somebody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably about a year or so, its tough when people live so far away. There's people I've been speaking to longer than that and we haven't nailed it down yet sigh. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"When it’s right and you always know when it’s right it’s going to happen pretty quickly "
Nooooooo. Often the opposite, lust is impatient when you’re not that fussy.
Life , timing and other partners- good ones are often polysaturated for a reason! And sometimes you choose not to rush. |
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About 5 years. When I was with my ex we used to hang out with her best mate and her husband. When I caught the ex over the side we stayed in touch and in time her and her husband broke up. One night we ended up in bed and we were fucking for about a year. My ex was none too pleased to find out I was fucking her mate! |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"I want to get to know someone properly before I have my first ever meet with somebody."
Ohh, first ever meet? Yeah, fair enough... no rush! Fingers crossed all goes well for you.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Just under four years, I checked our WA messages. Fuck knows how he put up with my intermittent waffling messaging style. How he still does. It takes me some time to think I'd want to meet someone generally (rare exceptions obviously) and I'm a bit of a slow burner. |
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"6 months from her initial contact to consummation.
18 months from her initial contact to me finally telling her last night "no thank you".
Being a gentleman sometimes has its misgivings.
If I understand this correctly, you split with someone last night? Hope you are ok xx"
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Yes, it's all good, thank you. |
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