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By *vd1987 OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Now im happy to meet people. I also dont take offence if im not someone's cup of tea or if someone doesn't reply as we all know a lot if people of here get loads of messages.
But...... why do "couples" where only they man ever speaks and the "partner" never speaks untill the meet think we are being fooled?
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over a year ago
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Not sure what you mean by “think we are being fooled”
When I’ve met couples I have often only spoken to the male half leading up to meeting, him doing the “admin” dealing with messages and finding suitable guys…
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Loads of couples ask for a woman to woman chat before any meet goes ahead. Why should it be any different for a single guy?
Any man who asks for advice on this subject is told there is no woman and men posting on 'behalf of their partner ' are frequently accused of not actually having one. I think the op is perfectly valid |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
When we first came on here Niki was really keen and would WhatsApp with guys, but we soon learnt that they were mostly time wasting wankers.
After one particular idiot, she won't get involved on here at all, if we get a message from a guy I think she'll like I show her his pic and profile, if it's a yes I arrange a social ASAP, I don't indulge in wank chat whatsoever - if that doesn't suit someone that's okay, we all have our own way to use the site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow some are are harsh lol.
To be clear I have no issue with the guy arranging meets or starting the convo.
My issue is when they say the woman won't talk at all until the meet itself "
Yeah it's likely just a man wanking.
I always offer a phone chat to prove I'm real and exist. Never had a no show. Had some great fun.  |
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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago
south Yorkshire |
I do a lot of the typing on here when we are messaging other people but the mrs is always present and has most of the input in what goes in the message unless I’m arranging something that is a surprise for her. |
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Jason is the only one who chats here and does admin because Rhiannon hates technology and social media of all kinds. I make that clear as soon as people chat with us. We do however jump on a video call to prove we are who we say we are and have enough verifications to show we are genuine. Why assume that you are being fooled? I know there are fakes on here but there are also a lot of busy or shy people too. Their history should count for something right? |
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Well Mr4 does the so called admin bit on here and keeps Mrs4 fully informed and the decision to meet anyone is 100% her decision and her's alone ?? as due to past experiences as soon as 80% odd of "Males" found out it was her ...cue ..what colour are your panties...wanna see me wank ....wanna meet now ....here's me knob ...i'm so hard ...can you watch we wank over your pictures ...i'm about to ...and then some really deeply offensive comments ?? if she replied NO ?? xxx  |
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By *vd1987 OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Hmm again it's not an issue if someone is shy lol.
Im as easy going as you get. Suppose what I should of started with was I would only meet someone with either a quick phone call or video chat first (then if they want a social first too then thats fine also)
I think it's one wanting to avoid a phone call or video call are the issue |
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"Wow some are are harsh lol.
To be clear I have no issue with the guy arranging meets or starting the convo.
My issue is when they say the woman won't talk at all until the meet itself "
I just simply always require a video chat with couples for a few minutes where both of them are present , any failure to do this and I just say goodbye enjoy wanking to my pics on profile .
I am very blunt with people on this part as simply I distrust most people on this site are not what they are say are ..
Not really going to get upset over missing out on a meet with strangers tbh as there is always another person/peoples to meet later anyway |
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"Now im happy to meet people. I also dont take offence if im not someone's cup of tea or if someone doesn't reply as we all know a lot if people of here get loads of messages.
But...... why do "couples" where only they man ever speaks and the "partner" never speaks untill the meet think we are being fooled?
Happy fabbing!"
To be fair, the male half uses our couples profile and "filters" messages and I join any chats that seem interesting. If I'm chatting to a guy on this solo profile who I'm interested in, I often send them to the couples profile to have a chat with him.
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Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.
Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.
Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.
Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.
Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.
Happy hunting "
Couples like you are what men should avoid!!!  |
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By *vd1987 OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Speaking for ourselves, I (female) do all the admin and the male NEVER asks about my husband they talk dirty and pushy there is your answer.
Thanks for not sending us a message saves me the time blocking another single male.
Get over yourself single men are 10 a penny you haven't done yourself any favours with this post.
Happy hunting "
And also why would you assume id want to message you lmao |
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