"Because having a chat, having a drink and playing are 3 very different things and there should be no assumption that any one will lead to another."
Quite! You might spill your latte all over Miss Scarlet in the drawing room, and she'd never be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why it is so difficult just have chat with some woman have a coffe o drink and play togheter??
I’m sure I have something wrong ?? "
A coffee or drink would imply a social meet rather than sex in most instances.
A social goes a long way in deciding whether there could or would be anything else going forwards.
Just relax and go for a drink/coffee and get to know the person first……… And never assume that said drink will lead to sex |
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Bless ya x
As others have said, this place is completely full of men, and please forgive here, many of whom think that just because they are here, have a right to meet people, etc, etc…believe me here, I know a bloke quite well!!
Having spoken to a number of single women who list in here, as soon as you register, your inbox literally overflows with emails, requests suggestions, demands. So to put this in a commercial parlance, suggest you are ‘competing’ in a very saturated market, and as any product does on the market, you will need to stand out, or be different to get take up!
Good luck on journey x
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Sounds like you expect a chat to lead to sex . Unfortunately this is an assumption that a lot make on here and why I no longer do chats on here with people as I'm not meeting anyone new for the foreseeable future. I got fed up of saying how I am not meeting at present and then agreeing to just chat only to be hassled a few messages in to meet because we chatted. I just can't be bothered at present with having to constantly say no so easier not to chat to anyone new.
Maybe op lessen your expectations and just chat and see how it goes.If it leads to a social do not expect that as a green light for sex either.
And it's more difficult for me on here but in saying that plenty of men have luck on here. |
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