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I can’t get no, satisfaction.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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There have been a couple of times where I've made a proper effort and they're clearly
a)fucked out so now I won't have sex with anyone if that could be the case.
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b) deciding they just want me to give them oral sex all night. Which is fine if it's hot and we'd discussed it. Makes me feel like rent-a-mouth otherwise so I ended up not staying over even though planned. |
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"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for? "
A quickie isn’t when you can’t be bothered with the effort, it’s when you’ve been turning each other on with messages over the last few days, building anticipation until it can’t get any higher.
When you finally meet there’s no time for anything except doing what you’ve talked about for so long. It’s an almost animal instinct that you both have and you both need that orgasm right now. Who’s even got time to find a bedroom?
A quickie can definitely be worth it, and afterwards, you can do things a little slower |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a firm believer that you get out what you put in .... but there have been occasions when I wish I hadn't bothered and done the job myself!"
I’m a firm believer that they get out what I put in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for?
A quickie isn’t when you can’t be bothered with the effort, it’s when you’ve been turning each other on with messages over the last few days, building anticipation until it can’t get any higher.
When you finally meet there’s no time for anything except doing what you’ve talked about for so long. It’s an almost animal instinct that you both have and you both need that orgasm right now. Who’s even got time to find a bedroom?
A quickie can definitely be worth it, and afterwards, you can do things a little slower "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they make me feel like it wasn’t worth the effort they don’t get a repate meet
I don’t do quick fuck and go due to the length off time it takes me to get ready
Only time I do them
If it’s a club or social event whare I am all ready ready
Or if I am comeing off the back off another meet and I am still ready ie seconds
But always make them aware it’s seconds and leave the choice in they hands if they want that or not
Other wise it takes me day and hafe to get ready
So they better be ready to put in 3-4 hours effort
There’s no shame in brakes and chit chat inbween rounds
When I say 3-4 hour what I really mean is like a hour and hafe off sex and like hour and hafe for brakes and such bween rounds
I don’t expect people to bang on me for 3-4 hours straight I just mean no splat and run out the door
Rounds only |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you always feel like the sex was worth the effort, or is that what a ‘quickly’ is for? "
I don't know? If you enjoy it, it doesn't feel like an effort in the moment though ? |
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I'd like to think you get out what you put in (no not like that). But maybe your expecting porn when in real life its not. Forplay is the key please and tease slow and lots of kissing not just on the mouth. Except less and give more. Think of them not you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surly it should be mutually satisfying, not one sided, or am I being deluded"
Of course, but you can’t force it. Sometimes it just doesn’t go the way you planned. |
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I've had situations in the past where the sex hasn't been worth the effort even of pushing my knickers to one side and I should've just stayed home with my rabbit.
Hasn't happened in a good long time now. If I'm putting effort in I will make damn sure it's worthwhile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been in situations where I’ve thought I’d have been better just staying in the house and not bothering and other times where the sexual chemistry just wasn’t the same when meeting up which is unfortunate but no one’s fault. |
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I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about."
Not exactly most don’t expect two hours off straight banging
But a splat and run isn’t on the cards
There’s no shame in 5-10 minutes brakes to re load and go for rounds 2-3-4-5-6
Most guys can be ready in 15 minutes shower clean clothes on out the door
Woman are expected to shave from head to toe
There’s hour or 2 and needs to be done the night before
Then we got a outfit to pick out that in its self can take 2-4 hours depending
They try on about 8-9 different outfits before deciding on outfit 3
Next you got prep for the kind off sex ie if anal maybe on the cards you need to not eat after a serton time and clean out so no miss haps happen
That’s all the night before
The day off the meet
We have to time getting ready and make up
You don’t want to be come in to make up falling off faces and sweat patches on dress and such
now if I we hadn’t all that to do
And guys were fine in turning up with no slap on
Hairy legs ass and under arms and such
And my pjs or lounge ware on like joggers and a te shirt
Then buy all means splat and run
But when they expect a serton level off effort we expect a serton level off effort back |
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about."
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
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I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish. |
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish. "
What's sort of things   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.
What's sort of things "
I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits . |
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.
What's sort of things
I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits . "
Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.
What's sort of things
I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits .
Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something "
Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics |
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.
What's sort of things
I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits .
Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something
Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics "
Yeah nobody wants to waste time with all the sex stuff, that would be awful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some guys think of sec like a porn film 2 hours of hot funking in every hole etc just expect to much then find it disappointing when it's not like that. To much Internet porn.. Building to high expectations.
Bit like hearing about a fantastic film but when you go and you see it you think what was all the hype about.
Have you not had a 2 hour long sex session? It's definitely not uncommon buddy
I get what he's saying though! 2 hours of just putting things in holes sounds hellish.
What's sort of things
I'm guessing boy porn star bits in girl porn star bits .
Well that's ok then because I thought you were talking about an extreme version of the film Hostel or something
Well now I'm intrigued as I haven't seen that! I'm guessing it's at least more interesting than in, out, shake it all about porn antics
Yeah nobody wants to waste time with all the sex stuff, that would be awful "
I know, right? Bleurgh |
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