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Why be on here then disappear?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There could be a thousand and one different reasons. It can definitely make you wonder, especially if you were getting on well but it isn't something you can change so try to forget and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else hates when everything is all going well & boom!
BYE!!
No excuse, no reason.  "
This is the new world, the world of online, it's shit but it happens. Forget it and move on with your day, simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it's sh#t but just the way it is, I just dunno about the unread messages cause it's like oh did they see it did they not is it lost should I send a second few days later etc.
One of many frustrations we all go through but tis what it is  |
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Leaky bucket analogy…that’s what you need!
Fill your bucket with plenty of women and when one falls out of the bucket, then you just replace with another one.
That way you won’t rue the ones that got away.
You’re welcome 
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else hates when everything is all going well & boom!
BYE!!
No excuse, no reason. "
If it’s a woman. They’ve changed their mind or were fake or a time waster.
If it was a man he was married or a fantasist or just had a wank.
I just chalk these stories or experiences up as part of the course of being on social media. Ie, people come and go.
On fab - people cum and go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leaky bucket analogy…that’s what you need!
Fill your bucket with plenty of women and when one falls out of the bucket, then you just replace with another one.
That way you won’t rue the ones that got away.
You’re welcome
K"
Does anyone have a bucket I can borrow...
And 9-10 women |
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Fab membership should include a clause stating that all members are under the obligation to inform any person they have had some interaction with, of their intent to leave the site and to provide a valid reason for their premature departure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sure it must hurt but they are just people. Lives take over, commitments, emergencies, fear sometimes. And some percentage will be fakes. You just try not to focus on one interaction, it's easy to get too invested. Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just figure they're not currently horny or not currently single. Can't say I've ever tormented myself over it. Unless we had definite plans that they're going to be bailing on, I wouldn't expect advance notice of them leaving. |
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Could be there scared of being found out if there already in a relationship or they might have lost there nerve or they were bored and that's why they joined in the first place to catfish people then vanish or it could be something in real life has more importance than here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as you may think you're more, you are just a random stranger online. You mean nothing.
People have way more important things going on in their lives and the last people they're gonna think off is that dude off the swinging site. |
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