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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party! |
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So she's on a swingers site without her husband's knowledge but sharing her face picture.
I think she's quite foolish or brave depending how you look at it, or he actually does know, or it's actually him or someone has misappropriated her pictures from elsewhere and used them to set up a profile. Whatever it is and whatever you're thinking of doing be it meet her or telling her husband... don't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you know it was the same woman? Maybe they just look similar.
She was in the same dress. It's her.
Doesn't this make you even slightly suspicious?"
Not really. I dont have a face Pic on my profile plus she has other verifications on her profile. |
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"How do you know it was the same woman? Maybe they just look similar.
She was in the same dress. It's her.
Doesn't this make you even slightly suspicious?
Not really. I dont have a face Pic on my profile plus she has other verifications on her profile. "
So it's her, for sure? Unless she wears one off clothing it could be a different woman in the same dress.
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"It could be your boss using her photos on a fake profile to test you 
Testing for what?
To test his character, maybe he will give him a big Christmas bonus if he keeps it in his pants  "
do people really go to all this trouble.
I caught my ex partner out in a huge very serious lie. He said he'd done it to test me. I laughed in his face, that didn't go down well and apparently I failed the test |
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"Do it, if only for when your boss does your appraisal and asks “How well do you get on with others?”
“Really well. Extremely well in fact” 
I’m kidding, don’t go there under any circumstances "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party! "
Will she be at the Christmas party? Has she see your face pic? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party!
Will she be at the Christmas party? Has she see your face pic? "
Yes, I sent her my face pic before I realised. She has 7 meet verifications on her page. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party!
Will she be at the Christmas party? Has she see your face pic?
Yes, I sent her my face pic before I realised. She has 7 meet verifications on her page. "
Just smile at her at the party and say nothing. Don't make it weird. |
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"It could be your boss using her photos on a fake profile to test you
Testing for what?
To test his character, maybe he will give him a big Christmas bonus if he keeps it in his pants
do people really go to all this trouble.
I caught my ex partner out in a huge very serious lie. He said he'd done it to test me. I laughed in his face, that didn't go down well and apparently I failed the test "
I think some people no doubt do
If I was suspicious then I'd just ask someone, it's a lot quicker than plotting |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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What would you do in my case? "
To begin with, I'd have posted this in the fantasies section and maybe added in some bisexual elves (woodland or festive. Maybe both)
Had a wank and went to bed. Maybe a sandwich.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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If I was sure it was her I’d just block & put it out of mind. I’ve learned that professional and fab life don’t mix and don’t end well for all involved. Let them make their own mess without you involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What would you do in my case?
To begin with, I'd have posted this in the fantasies section and maybe added in some bisexual elves (woodland or festive. Maybe both)
Had a wank and went to bed. Maybe a sandwich.
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what kinda sandwich? |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party! "
she's seen your face then? Maybe she has permission? If you're that bothered delete and block her  |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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What would you do in my case?
To begin with, I'd have posted this in the fantasies section and maybe added in some bisexual elves (woodland or festive. Maybe both)
Had a wank and went to bed. Maybe a sandwich.
what kinda sandwich?"
Oh look, an elf. Talk and thee shall have (gimme that mouth, gimme that mouth, gimme that mouth)
Kind? fantasy situations, bisexual mystical creatures... it can only be one thing. Jam, egg and cheese.
I'm joking, obviously. Whatever you're making, get back in the kitchen  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her to come down the chimney on Christmas Eve. Make sure she then puts her pants back on afterwards, climb down and join you for a coffee. "
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"I got a message from a beautiful woman on Monday. I thought she looked familiar. Her profile says that she's married, but she's on fab without the knowledge of her husband.
Yesterday before I left work, I went into my boss' office for my performance management meeting and guess whose picture was on his desk? The same woman!
I respect everyone's freewill but I really love and need my job.
What would you do in my case? For some reason, I'm no longer looking forward to our Christmas party! "
Be the better man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair to all of those who have contributed to the thread, you're the only one who really knows your own situation, your relationship with your boss, the conversations you've had with his wife etc.
Have you mentioned to her that you work for her hubby, for instance.
Perhaps it's worth discussing that with her and seeing how she reacts.
Is she going to be at the Christmas do?
If so, as she's seen your face, she'd be bound to recognise you, and unlesd you've discussed it that could get weird.
Essentially, you're the only one who can really know how things could go and any implications if the two of you get found out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Or, to put it another way, it seems to me that it's only because you've discovered who it is she's married to that's giving you second thoughts.
What if you hadn't found that out until after you'd fucked her? |
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Did everyone then stand up and start clapping?
