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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you? |
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over a year ago
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I'm sure there's a kink for that  |
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Could be fun with the right lady  |
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Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
If the kissing is super intense and very passionate, I'd probably cum in my pants  so yes, kissing can be more than enough for me. |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
My idea of absolute bliss...  |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
Yes definitely I love kissing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as I enjoy the kissing, I also would want the cock. |
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Yes please. As long as great conversation is flowing or we have comfortable silence, I'd be very happy with kissing on the condition I have cwtches as well. ( Cwtch is a Welsh cuddle) |
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Kissing and talking is wonderful, although there would definitely be some touching in there too.
Running fingers through hair as you kiss does strange things deep within my soul |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it. "
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen. |
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"God yes!  "
^ What she said. God yes. |
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Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! |
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Yep was very much into kissing
When I was younger .but I do give great massages too also with the right mental connection can make you cum without touching you .so mental physical without pentration if thats your thing .all needs catered for if a connection is made . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would 100% do kissing only meets |
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No not for me. I love kissing but if I like
Someone enough to do that it wouldn’t be enough for me. |
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Absolutely!
I adore lots of kissing…so long as it comes with additional cuddling/snuggling |
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"No not for me. I love kissing but if I like
Someone enough to do that it wouldn’t be enough for me. "
That makes it tricky In Starbucks |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"As much as I enjoy the kissing, I also would want the cock. "
Fair. Very fair. Dryhumping a good thigh or knee does go some way though. |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! "
Isn’t that kind of the point though? Seeing how long you can hold back and build up that delicious feeling of need …
I mean, okay. Yeah. You might not actually make it all the way through the night before giving in, but it’d be a lot of fun trying. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes please. As long as great conversation is flowing or we have comfortable silence, I'd be very happy with kissing on the condition I have cwtches as well. ( Cwtch is a Welsh cuddle)"
Oh I know all about a good cwtch. They hit differently, don't they? Kissing, comfortable silence and cwtches sounds ideal. |
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"No not for me. I love kissing but if I like
Someone enough to do that it wouldn’t be enough for me.
That makes it tricky In Starbucks "
 . I wouldn’t snog someone in Starbucks |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
Isn’t that kind of the point though? Seeing how long you can hold back and build up that delicious feeling of need …
I mean, okay. Yeah. You might not actually make it all the way through the night before giving in, but it’d be a lot of fun trying."
Oh for sure, I can definitely be the woman for THAT, but she specified no touching, no escalation, no pressure... My hips are gonna pile on that pressure whether I like it or not! So I would just have to duck out |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Yes love it , perfect second or third date in my opinion. Takes a lot of will power when you’re both hard/wet but it’s worth it as I think exercising that kind of control has a lot of longer term benefits |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I would have an issue with that, add in some snuggles and head strokes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way, not enough for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is my absolute favourite thing!. A great kiss can turn me on so much and for that reason I’d probably struggle not to want to take it further. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
Isn’t that kind of the point though? Seeing how long you can hold back and build up that delicious feeling of need …
I mean, okay. Yeah. You might not actually make it all the way through the night before giving in, but it’d be a lot of fun trying.
Oh for sure, I can definitely be the woman for THAT, but she specified no touching, no escalation, no pressure... My hips are gonna pile on that pressure whether I like it or not! So I would just have to duck out "
Dryhumping is definitely allowed.
Yeah, my hips and pheromones pile on the pressure so it rarely stays at just that beyond the first date. Damn body of mine. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I have a mix of friendships in my life, I'd be happy to have someone that I only kiss in my mixing pot  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yep was very much into kissing
When I was younger .but I do give great massages too also with the right mental connection can make you cum without touching you .so mental physical without pentration if thats your thing .all needs catered for if a connection is made ."
Does that happen often? The whole orgasm without touching thing. I've heard of it. Thought I was close a couple of times. But it's so very rare. Anyway, the point is no orgasms! None at all. Mental, whatever else. |
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"No not for me. I love kissing but if I like
Someone enough to do that it wouldn’t be enough for me.
That makes it tricky In Starbucks
. I wouldn’t snog someone in Starbucks "
C’mon, I know you can’t resist that latte moustache |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! "
I’m very much with you on that one. |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
Isn’t that kind of the point though? Seeing how long you can hold back and build up that delicious feeling of need …
I mean, okay. Yeah. You might not actually make it all the way through the night before giving in, but it’d be a lot of fun trying.
Oh for sure, I can definitely be the woman for THAT, but she specified no touching, no escalation, no pressure... My hips are gonna pile on that pressure whether I like it or not! So I would just have to duck out
Dryhumping is definitely allowed.
Yeah, my hips and pheromones pile on the pressure so it rarely stays at just that beyond the first date. Damn body of mine. "
Oh well in that case sign me up! It's like Shakira always said; my hips don't lie |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes love it , perfect second or third date in my opinion. Takes a lot of will power when you’re both hard/wet but it’s worth it as I think exercising that kind of control has a lot of longer term benefits "
How about a perfect (undisclosed number) date*? 
Yes, I like it a lot. I like testing that willpower and find the experience very very erotic. Don't get me wrong, sex is great but sometimes I want to do just the aforementioned.
*yep that's happening. Definitely. |
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I absolutely adore deep, passionate, meaningful kissing. So yes I would. |
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Sounds hot, but I'd need to sample the kissing first. What if they're no good at it?! |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
Good grief no. That would bore me stupid. |
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Yes if there could be snuggly cuddles (without roaming hands) |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
I have met for just kissing but an over nighter?!? The kissing makes me want more, so probably not that scenario, no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I'm an amazing kisser I would say yes think that could be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I'm an amazing kisser I would say yes think that could be good "
Well I'm sold |
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If that's just how things naturally panned out, yeah I'd be okay with that.
But not if it was suggested and planned |
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen. "
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
Have done that.
Just kissing and holding each other.
Talking and being present for each other. |
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How timely and fortuitous!
Only just a few moments ago this was mutually proposed with someone I've been communicating with (e.g. the sanguinary red flag).
The scenario would be to meet up beyond the relative confines of coffee-and-cake and adjourn to a more intimate setting for sustained kisses, entwining, stroking, whispering, silence and spontaneous 'non-copulatory' improvisations of basorexia. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Sounds hot, but I'd need to sample the kissing first. What if they're no good at it?!"
This is true; can you imagine the horror of kissing a washing machine mouth for a few hours? Or a tongue wrestler. Yeah... not good. You'd have to work out a way of sampling and having a good get out clause in case it's truly awful. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen.
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it. "
I don't think it's odd Nice. Far from odd. I think it's rather lovely truth be told and you're aware of what works for you. Why is that a bad thing? |
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If it was someone I met with lots then yes snuggle kissing nights are perfect.
But for meeting a good friend I only see 3 times a year, I would want to celebrate our friendship with sexual intimacy  |
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I love lots and lots of kissing and touching and cuddling. |
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen.
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it.
I don't think it's odd Nice. Far from odd. I think it's rather lovely truth be told and you're aware of what works for you. Why is that a bad thing? "
I don't think it is. Plenty of others do and have told me so. Fortunately as you probably know I care not one jot or tittle for other's opinions on such matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not. At my age I worry about making a second date.  |
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen.
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it. "
I totally get this. If I was swinging with an actual partner/husband I loved, which to be honest I don’t think I could anyway, but if I did I’d be the same as you. It would be purely a physical thing. No intimacy. |
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen.
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it.
I totally get this. If I was swinging with an actual partner/husband I loved, which to be honest I don’t think I could anyway, but if I did I’d be the same as you. It would be purely a physical thing. No intimacy. "
Intimacy is probably the wrong word. No affection or kissing. |
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I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Probably not. At my age I worry about making a second date. "
Completely understandable - you've got to seize life while you can haven't you? It's not something I'd recommend for 50+ fabbers generally.
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But clothes fall off when there's lots of kissing  |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! "
Yep. This.
I could only do that if I couldn't have sex. I have no self control. |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
And listen to your sultry voice
I’m in |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I do love a good snog - but it does make me horny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! Would love this. |
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"I do love a good snog - but it does make me horny! "
Me too. The more I think about it the more I know there’s no way I could do it |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
I would absolutely love this! Just making out and cuddles, talking way in to the night, falling asleep with the full length of their body naked against yours. Sign me up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo be up for just a night of kissing. I reckon whoever I'm kissing would whole heartedly enjoy the experience and would want more |
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By *obajxMan
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"I absolutely adore deep, passionate, meaningful kissing. So yes I would. "
Ditto |
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With the Mr yes, I love kissing but with a meet no, it's too intimate for me just kissing all night.
Mrs |
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If the kiss is good then I don’t think it could stop at just a kiss.
We’ve spent weekends with our FWB’s and there’s been times when it’s been just kissing but it tends to lead on to things later.
K |
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"Not for me. I only enjoy kissing a person I love but I don't think even then I'd enjoy hours of it.
I mean you wouldn't be locked at the lips for literal hours... it was some early morning exaggeration to get a general idea across. although, hey that could happen.
I enjoy being held in someone's arms, talking and sharing a kiss or two with no thought of anything other than sharing that time together as a couple. However I couldn't and wouldn't want to do that with anyone but Mr N. I'm fully aware that other people find this odd, so be it.
I totally get this. If I was swinging with an actual partner/husband I loved, which to be honest I don’t think I could anyway, but if I did I’d be the same as you. It would be purely a physical thing. No intimacy.
Intimacy is probably the wrong word. No affection or kissing. "
I understand what you mean. I think bits fairly difficult to be sexual without a degree of intimacy. It's the *type* and expression of it that's important I think. |
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Good chat is enough. Kissing optional. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?
And listen to your sultry voice
I’m in "
My voice is a best in small doses type of thing. But thank you, I don't think I hear often enough it's sultry. x |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
Not sure I could stop at just kissing lol |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
Kissing
Cwtching, starring into eyes, just soft gentle touches of the hair the neck, talking about anything and everything
Warm cwtches that give that safe fuzzy feeling inside x
I can but dream |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
Definitely no doubt about it |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion "
Logical conclusion. Brilliant. I'm going to start using that expression.
I think part of it is... why is sex the logical conclusion? Kissing can be a conclusion and a thing in its own right without being a precursor to more. Enjoying it for what it is. |
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I have to say though that I am not a hugger or Kissee by nature. The only friend I hug is one I've known for over twenty years and we only moved on to hugging in the last five. |
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"I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion
Logical conclusion. Brilliant. I'm going to start using that expression.
I think part of it is... why is sex the logical conclusion? Kissing can be a conclusion and a thing in its own right without being a precursor to more. Enjoying it for what it is. "
And also why is sex the conclusion? Great kisses and cuddles follow sex |
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Mmm mixed feelings. I do enjoy just kissing and it could be a nice relaxed evening on the one hand, but on the other it could be one of those hungry kisses with horny dry humping that'll mean I definitely need a wank later Depends on each other's moods and the type of kissing I suppose
LvM |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion
Logical conclusion. Brilliant. I'm going to start using that expression.
I think part of it is... why is sex the logical conclusion? Kissing can be a conclusion and a thing in its own right without being a precursor to more. Enjoying it for what it is.
And also why is sex the conclusion? Great kisses and cuddles follow sex "
Yes they do!
With regards to not being a tactile person, maybe that does have an impact on how you view it. It would make sense, wouldn't it?
I'm very much not tactile with people I don't know but when I have that connection (platonic or otherwise) I'm quite a tactile sort. Possibly why I like this sort of thing? |
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"I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion
Logical conclusion. Brilliant. I'm going to start using that expression.
I think part of it is... why is sex the logical conclusion? Kissing can be a conclusion and a thing in its own right without being a precursor to more. Enjoying it for what it is.
And also why is sex the conclusion? Great kisses and cuddles follow sex
Yes they do!
With regards to not being a tactile person, maybe that does have an impact on how you view it. It would make sense, wouldn't it?
I'm very much not tactile with people I don't know but when I have that connection (platonic or otherwise) I'm quite a tactile sort. Possibly why I like this sort of thing?"
It would very much have an impact on how I view this sort of thing. Our daughter's the same but our son is not. Humans are so interesting |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! "
This for me too tbh. If I fancied them enough to enjoy kissing them for ages then I’d be grinding against them in no time without even noticing it - then I’d be politely requesting their penis.
Not proud - just honest! |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Mmm mixed feelings. I do enjoy just kissing and it could be a nice relaxed evening on the one hand, but on the other it could be one of those hungry kisses with horny dry humping that'll mean I definitely need a wank later Depends on each other's moods and the type of kissing I suppose
LvM"
If you film the wank after and send it to the kissee, I'm sure that will be absolutely fine. My friend wanted to let you know. |
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"I love the sound of this, but in practise, I think it would get to a point where you needed a...logical conclusion
Logical conclusion. Brilliant. I'm going to start using that expression.
I think part of it is... why is sex the logical conclusion? Kissing can be a conclusion and a thing in its own right without being a precursor to more. Enjoying it for what it is. "
I don't know why it feels like there needs to be a..."logical conclusion". Because kissing is a very nice activity in its own right. But when do you stop? What happens if you keep going after your lips go all tingly? They might melt off and that would be terrifying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
This for me too tbh. If I fancied them enough to enjoy kissing them for ages then I’d be grinding against them in no time without even noticing it - then I’d be politely requesting their penis.
Not proud - just honest! "
Snog me silly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing?…"
Maybe, but it can lead me to wanting soo much more for all sorts of reasons. Eg, I thought she was hot before. That kiss was amazing. And imagination afterwards is thinking of what else could be. That kind of thing.
Is dry humping allowed, can I put my hands up your top? |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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I have someone I meet just for this. Well, occasionally a little hair pulling and spanking may occur. But actually no more than that |
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"Mmm mixed feelings. I do enjoy just kissing and it could be a nice relaxed evening on the one hand, but on the other it could be one of those hungry kisses with horny dry humping that'll mean I definitely need a wank later Depends on each other's moods and the type of kissing I suppose
LvM
If you film the wank after and send it to the kissee, I'm sure that will be absolutely fine. My friend wanted to let you know. "
I think I've seen one of those on my updates recently. I guess those style are a hit... with your friend
LvM |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"With regards to not being a tactile person, maybe that does have an impact on how you view it. It would make sense, wouldn't it?
I'm very much not tactile with people I don't know but when I have that connection (platonic or otherwise) I'm quite a tactile sort. Possibly why I like this sort of thing?
It would very much have an impact on how I view this sort of thing. Our daughter's the same but our son is not. Humans are so interesting "
Aren't we just? I have one dear friend who is very much not a tactile sort of person, you know the sort who might shudder if your fingers accidentally brushed across his as you're passing him the crop. But when he's feeling soft towards someone, you can just tell. Then it's all the little kisses, the hand holding. That affection needs to be there in a big way for him to want to be tactile. |
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over a year ago
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Yes, 100%. When you're meeting with the right person, kissing is more than enough to make for one very pleasurable evening. I can only imagine what it would do to us both and the horn you'd be feeling afterwards.
I do think it would be difficult to kiss and do nothing else though... naturally you want more and it wouldn't be easy trying to control the urge to grind and remove clothes.
But yes, I'd be up for it and I'd be satisfied when the night was done. |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
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I’ve done just cuddle dates.
So this seems appropriate.
Some folks just crave a warm body. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I have someone I meet just for this. Well, occasionally a little hair pulling and spanking may occur. But actually no more than that"
Isn’t a bit of gentle hair pulling essential for a good kiss, by both ?
To me just kissing includes sensual intimate touching and nibbling mostly through clothes or the bits of skin you can reach and dry humping but nothing beyond that, and not continually escalating to tease , the focus is on the intimacy of the kissing
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"Yes, 100%. When you're meeting with the right person, kissing is more than enough to make for one very pleasurable evening. I can only imagine what it would do to us both and the horn you'd be feeling afterwards.
I do think it would be difficult to kiss and do nothing else though... naturally you want more and it wouldn't be easy trying to control the urge to grind and remove clothes.
But yes, I'd be up for it and I'd be satisfied when the night was done. "
I'm willing to try for research |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Mmm mixed feelings. I do enjoy just kissing and it could be a nice relaxed evening on the one hand, but on the other it could be one of those hungry kisses with horny dry humping that'll mean I definitely need a wank later Depends on each other's moods and the type of kissing I suppose
LvM
If you film the wank after and send it to the kissee, I'm sure that will be absolutely fine. My friend wanted to let you know.
I think I've seen one of those on my updates recently. I guess those style are a hit... with your friend
LvM"
Ha! It's probably disappearing within the next hour, I've been getting far raunchier messages and offers than usual.
Sorry, my friend has. |
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
This for me too tbh. If I fancied them enough to enjoy kissing them for ages then I’d be grinding against them in no time without even noticing it - then I’d be politely requesting their penis.
Not proud - just honest!
Snog me silly "
Absolutely - just leave out the oil. Only one guy tried that and we kept sliding off each other! Funny but frustrating. |
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over a year ago
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job!
This for me too tbh. If I fancied them enough to enjoy kissing them for ages then I’d be grinding against them in no time without even noticing it - then I’d be politely requesting their penis.
Not proud - just honest!
Snog me silly
Absolutely - just leave out the oil. Only one guy tried that and we kept sliding off each other! Funny but frustrating. "
Woohoo....oil is hidden, I'm ready to be frustrated |
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes please and thank you |
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I've done this in the dim and distant past...it made the wait for our next meet exquisitely torturous.
Nowadays, I'm kind of with Nicecouple on this, I wouldn't want that level of affection with anyone but himself...a bit of kissing during genital swapping is fine, it makes things less mechanical, but not to the level of kissing for hours. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've done this in the dim and distant past...it made the wait for our next meet exquisitely torturous.
Nowadays, I'm kind of with Nicecouple on this, I wouldn't want that level of affection with anyone but himself...a bit of kissing during genital swapping is fine, it makes things less mechanical, but not to the level of kissing for hours. "
Oh Lily you're a changed woman. Yes, it does make sense - you're in a committed, ENM but romantically closed relationship.
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"I've done this in the dim and distant past...it made the wait for our next meet exquisitely torturous.
Nowadays, I'm kind of with Nicecouple on this, I wouldn't want that level of affection with anyone but himself...a bit of kissing during genital swapping is fine, it makes things less mechanical, but not to the level of kissing for hours.
Oh Lily you're a changed woman. Yes, it does make sense - you're in a committed, ENM but romantically closed relationship.
Do you think the DHs ever realise how lucky they are? I don't. "
I really don't think they do 
We should probably remind them on a regular basis...is scheduling monthly appointments to discuss too much? I'll send minutes and action points afterwards |
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over a year ago
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Naked kissing is very horny. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Kissing is slightly teasing but I find it pleasurable |
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over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
100 percent! Probably some form or hair grabbing and rubbing each other's upper halves and thighs but I actually love this, can make the sexual tension for the next time rocket sky high |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing makes my hips do things... I'm definitely not the woman for this job! "
Sssh no one has to know... |
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over a year ago
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I would want more after kissing as it does turn me on so just a kissing is not good for me |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
No, I'm not 15 anymore.
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100% yes. I love kissing  it would leave me really frustrated but I think that’s the beauty of it. The build up to the next time you meet would be electric! |
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"The build up to the next time you meet would be electric! "
Exactly! Nailed it. That’s why it would be so good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure I could manage it, in fact I wouldn’t be able to resist the urge x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure I could manage it, in fact I wouldn’t be able to resist the urge x "
Let's try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure I could manage it, in fact I wouldn’t be able to resist the urge x "
What if you were tied up...? |
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Possibly, if there was more another time |
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Yeah, I think that could be fun.
Now, who's offering? Pucker up... |
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"Not sure I could manage it, in fact I wouldn’t be able to resist the urge x "
Give me those lips  |
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"As much as I enjoy the kissing, I also would want the cock.
Fair. Very fair. Dryhumping a good thigh or knee does go some way though. "
If I can dry hump like a randy jack russell then I'm down for a lip lapping, thigh thrusting, tongue twisting meet! I get hot between the thighs torturing myself with what could be, if only my clothing were ripped from my quivering body!
Cherry x |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
Is that even possible, i mean id fail miserably, and id be ok with that |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
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Hell yes. One of the most erotic experiences I've ever had was a chance encounter on a nude beach that involved nothing more than kissing. Lots and lots of kissing. Still get hot under the collar thinking about it |
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No not for me! The chating maybe like to chat not so keen on kissing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kiss my arse |
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Both of us would absolutely have kiss-only dates. Wouldn't stay overnight though. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've done this in the dim and distant past...it made the wait for our next meet exquisitely torturous.
Nowadays, I'm kind of with Nicecouple on this, I wouldn't want that level of affection with anyone but himself...a bit of kissing during genital swapping is fine, it makes things less mechanical, but not to the level of kissing for hours.
Oh Lily you're a changed woman. Yes, it does make sense - you're in a committed, ENM but romantically closed relationship.
Do you think the DHs ever realise how lucky they are? I don't.
I really don't think they do
We should probably remind them on a regular basis...is scheduling monthly appointments to discuss too much? I'll send minutes and action points afterwards "
Too much? Nah. I think I'm just a bit amped up on the fact that people find me desirable so no, we can't be too much. Do you know what is also not too much? 2 for 1 cocktails. x2. x4 even. I'm going to WA you with a suggestion. .
P.S 100% you should just do kissing one night with himself. Mainly because at least one head of his will explode. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Enjoy a good snog or 10 lol
Think I would, just think of it as a social with a few snogs thrown in |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Wouldn't do overnight though, that's just a cock tease |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
Love to just kiss you, what a sexy voice, wow |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
i would be more than happy to meet a lady for snuggling up on a settee just for kisses,,, but if she is as cute as you it would be very hard to keep my hand from straying,,lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Umm. Some prolonged, passionate snogging is a joy to behold. But boy does in make your jaw ache! |
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Kissing, oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin what’s not to like. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?
Love to just kiss you, what a sexy voice, wow "
Aww thank you! x
My ego is well on the way to being an insufferable monstrosity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause! |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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Maybe depending on the person and situation. |
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Maybe it’s different for us as we are a couple and even tho we have no issues kissing I just don’t see the point in meeting someone just for that .I have my husband to snuggle and kiss with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!"
I'm in |
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over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!
I'm in"
what a nice one it is too |
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over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!
I'm in
what a nice one it is too"
Just same thought over that rear |
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over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!"
Someone needs to be tied up and taught patience... |
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It sounds lovely but I’m pretty sure after a while I wouldn’t be able to fight the urge to start playing with there cock and that would inevitably lead to sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It sounds lovely but I’m pretty sure after a while I wouldn’t be able to fight the urge to start playing with there cock and that would inevitably lead to sex "
It's hard ..... On the self control |
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over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!
Someone needs to be tied up and taught patience..."
Patience is definitely not one of my good qualities but my mouth is so I'm told |
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over a year ago
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"God no not for me, I want to be penetrated about 30 seconds into kissing, I wouldn't last even 10 minutes without a cock in my mouth, I'm a lost cause!
Someone needs to be tied up and taught patience...
Patience is definitely not one of my good qualities but my mouth is so I'm told"
I never said a word |
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I do love kissing, only problem is, it makes me incredibly horny |
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By *att192Man
over a year ago
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Tbh, sounds like a perfect first meet to me.
I'm a strange one I know |
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over a year ago
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Kissing is a big turn on for me, I like the idea of just kissing but I’m afraid I’d get far too horny and need more! |
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over a year ago
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Oh definitely yes ! I love kissing ! |
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"Kissing is a big turn on for me, I like the idea of just kissing but I’m afraid I’d get far too horny and need more! "
my point exactly,,, not a hope id be able to keep it as kissing, id explode,
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"How timely and fortuitous!
Only just a few moments ago this was mutually proposed with someone I've been communicating with (e.g. the sanguinary red flag).
The scenario would be to meet up beyond the relative confines of coffee-and-cake and adjourn to a more intimate setting for sustained kisses, entwining, stroking, whispering, silence and spontaneous 'non-copulatory' improvisations of basorexia."
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over a year ago
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Yes. I have intensely painful times during the month, so as long as whoever is kissing, is kissing me in the way I like…definitely at those times, yes please.
But am I allowed to do do a bit of above clothes stroking?! |
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over a year ago
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I would want to feel his willy at some point Im afraid if I was kissing him all night. And probably sit on it |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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thats the wright answer,, |
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over a year ago
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I’m sorry can’t just kiss well I can but not without sugar puff play oral play |
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Possibly at first but it wouldn't sustain long term. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"•How timely and fortuitous!
Only just a few moments ago this was mutually proposed with someone I've been communicating with (e.g. the sanguinary red flag).
The scenario would be to meet up beyond the relative confines of coffee-and-cake and adjourn to a more intimate setting for sustained kisses, entwining, stroking, whispering, silence and spontaneous 'non-copulatory' improvisations of basorexia.
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I meant to add that this would be my twist on an alternative 'social first' mantra."
Oh ex-husband. Sometimes I fear I may miss our matrimony slightly. Only a tad. A minor amount. I think it might be the full moon lingering in my psyche but I may have felt a warmth at such a description.
That sounds truly delightful and erotic.
P.S I like how your lexicon encourages me to have fun with mine. |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
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????????????????????????????? I kiss my fussy kitten when she has eaten her chicken dinner |
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over a year ago
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"????????????????????????????? I kiss my fussy kitten when she has eaten her chicken dinner "
Oh blessssss that is the cutest |
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No intimate touching, no oral. Definitely no penetrative sex.
Or is that too intimate/not for you?"
I would love that. Kissing itself is very stimulating and satisfying added with cuddles. Great for the chilly winters.
On the contrary, it would be awkward to have sex and not to kiss |
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over a year ago
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It's the only true way to determine if someone is attracted to you in my book. |
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"•How timely and fortuitous!
Only just a few moments ago this was mutually proposed with someone I've been communicating with (e.g. the sanguinary red flag).
The scenario would be to meet up beyond the relative confines of coffee-and-cake and adjourn to a more intimate setting for sustained kisses, entwining, stroking, whispering, silence and spontaneous 'non-copulatory' improvisations of basorexia.
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I meant to add that this would be my twist on an alternative 'social first' mantra.
Oh ex-husband. Sometimes I fear I may miss our matrimony slightly. Only a tad. A minor amount. I think it might be the full moon lingering in my psyche but I may have felt a warmth at such a description.
That sounds truly delightful and erotic.
P.S I like how your lexicon encourages me to have fun with mine."
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It's a sexicon-lexicon of love, ex-wife, a sexicon-lexicon.   |
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over a year ago
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I’ve actually done this, it was lovely to be honest.
It’s not always about sex for me, it’s about feeling good and enjoying the company |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Probably not. Kissing turns me on and I'd want more. |
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"Would you ever meet someone and be happy with only kissing? A few hours/overnight with lots of kissing and talking, no pressure to do more.
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Definitely a thumbs up here |
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Kissing with plenty eye contact . |
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It depends, my intentions may be honourable but could I trust the person I was with not to escalate, if they did but I said no would they get upset?
I can control myself, but in my experience Miss can't. |
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It all starts with a kiss, for me.
So, with the best will in the world it probably wouldn't end there.
At the very least there'd be some dry humping! |
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By *ai24Man
over a year ago
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Most certainly, especially if it was part of a build up to a future meet. |
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"It all starts with a kiss, for me.
So, with the best will in the world it probably wouldn't end there.
At the very least there'd be some dry humping!"
This is exactly what I was talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, I would be left extremely fraustrated.
It would be like going out for a nice meal and leaving after the starter!  |
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over a year ago
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In all honesty...no I don't think I could. I wouldn't want to either. Those moments are saved for my husband. |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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Absolutely not kissing is more intimate than anything else in my opinion (MsFox). Kissing is between myself and Mr Hound only(and omg it is amazing ) |
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There are a few Fabbers we would kiss the night away with. |
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I've done it before.... walked away so frustrated but enjoyed every minute of it
Tg x |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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Well this has been a delightful thread, thanks you smoochy lot. I'm still holding on to hopes for more solely kissing dates to come.
And I hope you all enjoy kisses aplenty, with or without the "logical conclusion".
Besos, x |
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"Probably not. At my age I worry about making a second date.
Completely understandable - you've got to seize life while you can haven't you? It's not something I'd recommend for 50+ fabbers generally.
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Oh. How to feel written off in one fell swoop!
It's not for (most) couples, at a guess. Not for us, although collectively this would be ok - well, to begin with, or aftercare
A recall when I was single, the talk on here of a cuddle group; to get together, watch a movie, eat pizza... all intertwined on a sofa. I'd quite like that.
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