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Who’s interested in bi fem??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My wife is getting a bit bi-curious and I’m hoping I can find the right woman for her! No idea where to start though. It would be just fem on fem play, even if we met a single woman there’d be no involvement from me. Seems that’s a really tough thing to find!! She wants me there and definitely have no issue with the male half of a couple also being there 
Just putting the feelers out for now  |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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If your wife is bi curious, she needs to do the looking, not you finding her a woman because as a bi female, that just reads like you're looking for a performing monkey for your benefit |
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Meeting fem fem isn’t hard to find at all.
Meeting fem fem, whilst partner watches and wanks is a completely different aspect.
C can meet other females without me being there. It’s clear then it’s not my fantasy but C’s desire to.
Also you asking on your partners behalf when it’s a written in your profile she’s dead against it now sounds even more like it’s for you.
Maybe revise how you approach things before saying somethings difficult 
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Finding an "extra" woman to join a couple is the hardest thing to do on fab, it'll be made considerably more difficult if your wife isn't leading that search. As a general rule, the easiest way is to play with other couples where the lady is bi.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On your profile it says she isn’t bi at all, explored this years ago and it’s not for her?
Which one is it? "
Apologies she talked to me about it last night and I haven’t updated the profile text! Rookie error on my part  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just genuinely trying to gauge some interest and see who’d be interested. I have zero interest in fem on fem and she said she’d prefer me there. There wouldn’t be any involvement from me, wanking or otherwise.
I think I’ll just tell her when I put a post out I’m coming across as a creep and leave it to her to have a nosey or make her own post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a rhetorical question?
Who isn’t interested in bi females!
Tad cliché.
That was my undercover name on deployment in Hawaii "
Shouldn’t have read that while putting on mascara. Now I’ve got to start all over again |
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It's hard meeting women when the male wants to watch, it can feel kinda like "putting on a show" for the man, we've met some lovely women from fab they've all started out is friends and that's developed.
I'm afraid it's going to be hard for what your looking for, but good luck, you never know you may meet someone at the social
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just genuinely trying to gauge some interest and see who’d be interested. I have zero interest in fem on fem and she said she’d prefer me there. There wouldn’t be any involvement from me, wanking or otherwise.
I think I’ll just tell her when I put a post out I’m coming across as a creep and leave it to her to have a nosey or make her own post "
Your best bet would be to chat to a couple who are into same room/ same couple/ no swap. Some may be ok with the women having contact then each go back to their man.
Ideally the women would meet for a social first to chat about it. Good luck.. |
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I meet bi fems alone, couples where male watches, couples where male actively joins the fun.
Enjoy it all.
It's far, far more difficult finding a couple who actually wants to go through with a meet.
Lots of chat, little action.
Find parties and clubs best.
Good luck, you'll need it. |
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"I was just genuinely trying to gauge some interest and see who’d be interested. I have zero interest in fem on fem and she said she’d prefer me there. There wouldn’t be any involvement from me, wanking or otherwise.
I think I’ll just tell her when I put a post out I’m coming across as a creep and leave it to her to have a nosey or make her own post "
So now there's no mention at all on your profile  I think easier to gauze interest by putting up a meet rather than a forum post, see who's available and positive in your vicinity. It's very particular setup but not unheard of, it used to be quite a common MO. It'd work for us, I can understand why a woman would prefer her partner present  |
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By *rolicUsCouple
over a year ago
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"It's hard meeting women when the male wants to watch, it can feel kinda like "putting on a show" for the man, we've met some lovely women from fab they've all started out is friends and that's developed.
I'm afraid it's going to be hard for what your looking for, but good luck, you never know you may meet someone at the social
Mrs "
This is our experience- Performing for the male gaze, even if female focussed, is not a turn on for me. Exhibitionism may be a kink for someone who fancies this scenario- there is a wonderful range of wants and lusts for people here.
We’ve had soft swaps with couples where the main focus was FF play but all were involved. It was super hot for all. You might find this more successful.
Mrs
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife is getting a bit bi-curious and I’m hoping I can find the right woman for her! No idea where to start though. It would be just fem on fem play, even if we met a single woman there’d be no involvement from me. Seems that’s a really tough thing to find!! She wants me there and definitely have no issue with the male half of a couple also being there
Just putting the feelers out for now "
Why would you need to be there if you aren't involved? Not many ladies would be interested in having a spectator watching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a rhetorical question?
Who isn’t interested in bi females!
Tad cliché.
That was my undercover name on deployment in Hawaii
Shouldn’t have read that while putting on mascara. Now I’ve got to start all over again"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I have zero interest in fem on fem and she said she’d prefer me there.
What would you do while you were in the room ? Read the paper ? Knitting ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife is getting a bit bi-curious and I’m hoping I can find the right woman for her! No idea where to start though.
How about trying Quest, Leeds ?"
This where you will be tonight?  |
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