I suppose this applies to ladies meeting guys...if he had a drawer, box, chest or whatever crammed full of sex toys....
Would you happily use them?
I personally only use my own as I know where they have been and how hygienic they are x |
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As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then. |
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"As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then."
No but I wouldn't be eating off the plates. |
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"As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then."
My answer would still be no
As to your other note...I would never expect or ask a man for that matter to buy me any sort of sex toy. |
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"Maybe with a condom on and clearly clean, although I wouldn't expect a toy to be involved in a meet at all.
I agree but a wand cant be washed therefore a condom would have to be used."
If a toy can't be washed I wouldn't want it near me unless it's only for me.
Clean and condom. |
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Use my own thanks.
If it's something that doesn't go in, I dunno, nipple clamps for example then yeah, I'd give them a go, but genital toys are a no (unless it was opened from new in front of my eyes) |
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To the ladies that said no
That would mean that you wouldnt let a man near you for the same reason ?
Yes theyve been washed but you havent seen it and you also dont know where they have been either.
The only difference is theyve put a condom on.
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"To the ladies that said no
That would mean that you wouldnt let a man near you for the same reason ?
Yes theyve been washed but you havent seen it and you also dont know where they have been either.
The only difference is theyve put a condom on.
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I said no, mainly because I like to choose my own. |
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"To the ladies that said no
That would mean that you wouldnt let a man near you for the same reason ?
Yes theyve been washed but you havent seen it and you also dont know where they have been either.
The only difference is theyve put a condom on.
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It's a fair point  |
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I tend to use my own I've never actually met a guy who then bought out toys haha. It's no different to a penis when you think about it but I would use mine I think I would feel a little weird if they sprung a toy on me. |
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"To the ladies that said no
That would mean that you wouldnt let a man near you for the same reason ?
Yes theyve been washed but you havent seen it and you also dont know where they have been either.
The only difference is theyve put a condom on.
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Some blokes say their willies have been washed but that ain't true. |
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"I’m just laughing at the putting sex toys in the dishwasher bit!   "
Theres alot of toys that state dishwasher safe best to check your discriptions more.
Dishwashing. You can also deep-clean quite a few nonmechanized 100% silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass toys at once by placing them on the top rack of the dishwasher after surface-cleaning them. Then run the dishwasher on the sanitize cycle without soap (which is too harsh to be used with sex toys).
The point is the male wont wash his cock off at a high temp like you can with a dishwasher or a washing machine with a sex toy.
But I wouldnt want the washer spinning dildos in its drum that thumping and banging around will drive you nuts |
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"As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then."
Do you think ladies *need* telling to buy their own sex toys? |
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"As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then.
Do you think ladies *need* telling to buy their own sex toys?"
Theres plenty of ladies on here that ask there men to buy the toys for them for play with them. |
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By *Sweet94Couple
over a year ago
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"Maybe with a condom on and clearly clean, although I wouldn't expect a toy to be involved in a meet at all.
I agree but a wand cant be washed therefore a condom would have to be used."
Can I ask how a wand can’t be cleaned? We have had many and cleaned them, you just need to be careful. |
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"I once used his dildoes on him...i would never use them on myself. Never share toys"
Unless you used a condom on the toys I cant see any difference.
The same can be said with the man hes had his cock up her arse and meets you and he has it up your pussy.
Hes washed it of coarse and hes had a condom on with both instances.
The same thing can be said with a toy theres no difference between any of them.
Other than you ladies saying no to a toy thats better hygenically washed than a cock at a higher temperature. |
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"I once used his dildoes on him...i would never use them on myself. Never share toys
Unless you used a condom on the toys I cant see any difference.
The same can be said with the man hes had his cock up her arse and meets you and he has it up your pussy.
Hes washed it of coarse and hes had a condom on with both instances.
The same thing can be said with a toy theres no difference between any of them.
Other than you ladies saying no to a toy thats better hygenically washed than a cock at a higher temperature. "
You'll talk me out of sex at all soon. Unless he's been through the dishwasher  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah I get the whole argument about toys potentially being cleaner than a penis. Completely true.
But still, no thanks. I don't want a man using his bags of tricks* on me that he's used on every two bit hussy on me.
I'm special gosh darn it.
*I'd make an exception occasionally maybe. Once in a blue moon, every leap year. |
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"I once used his dildoes on him...i would never use them on myself. Never share toys
Unless you used a condom on the toys I cant see any difference.
The same can be said with the man hes had his cock up her arse and meets you and he has it up your pussy.
Hes washed it of coarse and hes had a condom on with both instances.
The same thing can be said with a toy theres no difference between any of them.
Other than you ladies saying no to a toy thats better hygenically washed than a cock at a higher temperature. "
It's a bit like using someone's toothbrush....just no |
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"I once used his dildoes on him...i would never use them on myself. Never share toys
Unless you used a condom on the toys I cant see any difference.
The same can be said with the man hes had his cock up her arse and meets you and he has it up your pussy.
Hes washed it of coarse and hes had a condom on with both instances.
The same thing can be said with a toy theres no difference between any of them.
Other than you ladies saying no to a toy thats better hygenically washed than a cock at a higher temperature. "
So you're telling all the ladies to completely ignore all the advice and instructions they're given to not share toys.
Do you realise that they can get damage that cannot be seen with the naked eye, and nasties can lurk in the damaged areas that cannot be seen with the naked eye.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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We have bags and boxes full of toys of various types.
Some are insertable, some used externally.
Condoms are used on dildos and wands.
Between uses they are cleaned and sterilised as much as they can be (toy dependant).
If there is a risk of fluid transfer between users then we would use it with a single person only.
But then we would also suggest people coming to us bring their own toys as they know them. |
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"As most dildos can be washed in the dish washer id say alot of the ladies are somewhat biased.
This includes strapon toys
If they are cleaned infront of you and taken out of the dish washer would you still refuse them ?
I can see the point with electric/battery operated ones id agree on this.
or the toy must be used with a condom over it.
At another note here you ladies shouldnt expect the men to buy toys, but should bring your own for play at meets then.
Do you think ladies *need* telling to buy their own sex toys?
Theres plenty of ladies on here that ask there men to buy the toys for them for play with them."
What do you mean by "there men"? One off sexual partners? Husbands? Any man within a 150 mile radius? I think you've imagined this. |
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