"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "
Yes, it’s unfortunately a thing. Bi women are sought after, bi men are shunned. We see this a lot from couples not just women.
No bi males allowed as part of a couple (and let’s be real, we all have preferences, but this doesn’t seem like one to us  ) For whatever reason there’s a stigma.
View it it as a decent filter and move on. |
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"What makes you think it's because you're bi as opposed to any other reason?
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It could be for other reasons but not when they say thinks that can hurt you like why would I want that anywhere near me when it's been in a guy etc |
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I couldn’t imagine a guy not liking a girl because she was bi  but it’s each to their own, I wouldn’t stress over it, just move on, there’s plenty that do I’m sure, don’t waste your time on people that like dick not liking you for liking dick |
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The first week I came on Fab a couple messaged me asking for a meet and then rescinded saying that they don't meet bisexual guys (though bi-girls were fine). Just something that you have to take on the chin and move on. View it as their loss, not yours. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"What makes you think it's because you're bi as opposed to any other reason?
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It could be for other reasons but not when they say thinks that can hurt you like why would I want that anywhere near me when it's been in a guy etc"
Some women and couples won't meet bi men ,which is why many will say they're straight.
Whatever someone's sexuality things like that shouldn't be said to anyone
Block people like that op ,
If someone chooses not to meet bi men there's not much you can do about it,but would you want to meet those who don't want to meet you anyway?.
Plenty still will meet you . |
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"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "
plenty of folk do, if folk don't want meet bi guys well it's their prerogative, each to there own. |
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"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "
People have a preference of what they like, like you do. Wouldn't stress it |
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"I actively like bi men, and especially bi mmf   
I have been told by a few health professionals to avoid having sex with bi men because the risk of disease is higher  I expect that’s bad and out of date advice, but maybe that’s why people avoid bi men? "
That's definitely bad advice but used to be the normal presumption. I always got tested when the ladies from the Terrence Higginns trust used to attend Vanilla Alternative club on bi night and thankfully by practising safe sex I've never had an sti in all my 50 years. I know where the stigma comes from it's mainly due to the straight male in a couple thinking a bi guy would jump him but that's not the case. Each to their own, best advice i could give to the op is to visit a club on bi night and chat to couples there. |
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"Hi all, as a bi man I fund it hard to neet woman as some seem out off by it. Is it just me or do others have the same problems "
Change your profile to straight and see what happens.  |
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