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I would love to hear peoples opinions on what an ice breaker message from a single male to a couple or female should include...
Of course it's tough to get going on here, the more veris etc the more interest, kind of a snowball effect I suppose.
What would grab your attention and make you want to message back?
Cheers
Liam |
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"Just show ya penis "
This is failsafe advice. But on the improbable chance it doesn't work, just be yourself, OP. I don't think you should set out to "get attention" as it might easily come across as false or generic.
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over a year ago
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"Just show ya penis
You are wise beyond your years"
My grandfather was a wise man and warned me of what's to come, offering me sage like philosophy for any adult encounters to come.
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over a year ago
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"To be honest op ,if I didn't find the profile appealing,then the message wouldn't be either I'm afraid.
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^exactly this.
Most women and couples will check out your profile before they even consider opening any message you've sent them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d write a poem / rap song about the person you’re messaging. That would grab their attention. "
Yo yo yo check this one two
I wanna bang you
I'm actually gonna use this sometime and see how it fails  |
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"I’d write a poem / rap song about the person you’re messaging. That would grab their attention.
Yo yo yo check this one two
I wanna bang you
I'm actually gonna use this sometime and see how it fails "
It works every time except for 20% of the time… |
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"I’d write a poem / rap song about the person you’re messaging. That would grab their attention.
Yo yo yo check this one two
I wanna bang you
I'm actually gonna use this sometime and see how it fails "
^^ this would work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d write a poem / rap song about the person you’re messaging. That would grab their attention. "
Your looks and style,
I could not pass.
But do you take it
Up the arse ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d write a poem / rap song about the person you’re messaging. That would grab their attention.
Yo yo yo check this one two
I wanna bang you
I'm actually gonna use this sometime and see how it fails
^^ this would work "
Bless you but I think your love for me is distracting your judgement here |
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"Find something on their profile, and ask about it. It does 2 things; shows you've taken an interest beyond profile pictures, and gives the recipient something other than "hi" to answer."
Exactly this  |
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"Find something on their profile, and ask about it. It does 2 things; shows you've taken an interest beyond profile pictures, and gives the recipient something other than "hi" to answer."
Wish many men would. They don't care. They just see it as a quick hook up site where little effort is required because we all meant to be swingers here who fuck anyone just because we are feeling horny.  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"I would love to hear peoples opinions on what an ice breaker message from a single male to a couple or female should include...
Of course it's tough to get going on here, the more veris etc the more interest, kind of a snowball effect I suppose.
What would grab your attention and make you want to message back?
Cheers
Liam"
Hello darling you look fucking ravishing wanna see my dick  |
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over a year ago
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I actually don't care if they read my profile or not.
Messages that get my attention have humour, confidence, no sex talk!!!
But must also be accompanied by a good profile pic, username and bio. They tell me if you're my type or not. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"To be honest op ,if I didn't find the profile appealing,then the message wouldn't be either I'm afraid.
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This.
First thing we'll see is the username. If that's off-putting we'll probably not even bother looking at the profile.
Then it's straight to the visuals to check the photos. Cock heavy, bland, or just not attractive to us and we'll give up at that point.
If the visuals are good then we'll read the profile text. Any 'red flags' in there or mentions of activities that put us off and we'll probably not even read the message.
If there's enough in the photos and text to spark any interest at all then, and only then, will we read the message.
And if it's just a 'Hi' or 'When are you looking to meet' then it goes straight in the bin.
People put far too much importance on the specific content of an opening message when they should be concentrating on making sure their profile and photos are good enough to make someone want to open it in the first place.
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"To be honest op ,if I didn't find the profile appealing,then the message wouldn't be either I'm afraid.
This.
First thing we'll see is the username. If that's off-putting we'll probably not even bother looking at the profile.
Then it's straight to the visuals to check the photos. Cock heavy, bland, or just not attractive to us and we'll give up at that point.
If the visuals are good then we'll read the profile text. Any 'red flags' in there or mentions of activities that put us off and we'll probably not even read the message.
If there's enough in the photos and text to spark any interest at all then, and only then, will we read the message.
And if it's just a 'Hi' or 'When are you looking to meet' then it goes straight in the bin.
People put far too much importance on the specific content of an opening message when they should be concentrating on making sure their profile and photos are good enough to make someone want to open it in the first place.
A"
^^ absolutely spot on!
I don’t care what the message says as long as it’s friendly |
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I don't send many - none for a fortnight or so. I hate being rejected more than I like being responded to, so I err on the side of caution.
But when I do, it's usually because interaction through the Forums means I'm not entirely a random stranger, and it's usually a continuation of a conversation there. I NEVER message an entirely unknown person. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
There is the classic “FAF”.
People just say this doesn’t work as they don’t want you to seduce every woman on fab. In reality it pretty much guarantees a reply of “Yes, meet now?” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey bbe
Wanna fuck maybe?
You so class
Wanna cum in ur ass
[Composite of most of my inbox]"
Let's get jiggy,
I'll ride ya like a piggy
In and out,
I'll thrash it all about,
You be moaning, I be groaning,
Pump it again and heaven descends
(Drops mic) |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"I actually don't care if they read my profile or not.
Messages that get my attention have humour, confidence, no sex talk!!!
But must also be accompanied by a good profile pic, username and bio. They tell me if you're my type or not. "
This^^ |
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