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Update on Works Xmas Party At work !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Posted a thread on hear a while ago about works Xmas party thanks for all that commented
Apparently because I caused havoc and mayhem at last years calling the Mangers and the director
I have not been invited was informed of there decision over the phone this morning
So no Xmas party for me which by the way I’m not bothered about anyway
Got told it was because the manger and director didn’t want me there after last year
So just call me chaos and mayhem lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like a case for Christmas Party Lawyers 4 U.
Didn't read the older thread, but either it was serious enough to be dealt with at the time, and if nothing happened then bringing it up now seems unfair.
But, you also seem a bit of a handful, so maybe they're right.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes am not drinker now didn't used to be but I just don’t want to drink
Was singled out last year for being a grinch I did go but just had coffee in some pubs fruit juices in the other
Last drink I had was two years ago
I was bullied at work by ex supervisor as well ended up on strong sych meds mitrepine and sertreline changed the sertreline now as it didn’t agree with me am on zopicone and amitripeline as well
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and frankly I don’t give a damn  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn "
Are you in a union ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn
Are you in a union ? "
Yes Gmb already spoke to them they just advise I leave |
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"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn
Are you in a union ?
Yes Gmb already spoke to them they just advise I leave "
It's very tough, every time I've witnessed bullying at work the victim has left. It's incredibly difficult to root out and people are loathe to speak up for the bullied person. Anti-bullying policies aren't worth the paper they're written on and HR departments are there to protect the company not the employees.
I hope you can sort this out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn
Are you in a union ?
Yes Gmb already spoke to them they just advise I leave
It's very tough, every time I've witnessed bullying at work the victim has left. It's incredibly difficult to root out and people are loathe to speak up for the bullied person. Anti-bullying policies aren't worth the paper they're written on and HR departments are there to protect the company not the employees.
I hope you can sort this out "
Thank you for all comments I’m of age now where I think before I act unlike when younger where I would opened my gob and resorted to shall we say more extreme measures
HR are there to look after the company and in many respects my union the gmb don’t wish to upset the company either
I will probably end up leaving as it’s not helping my mental state will have to probably wait till after Xmas an leave when suitable vacancy arises |
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"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn
Are you in a union ?
Yes Gmb already spoke to them they just advise I leave
It's very tough, every time I've witnessed bullying at work the victim has left. It's incredibly difficult to root out and people are loathe to speak up for the bullied person. Anti-bullying policies aren't worth the paper they're written on and HR departments are there to protect the company not the employees.
I hope you can sort this out
Thank you for all comments I’m of age now where I think before I act unlike when younger where I would opened my gob and resorted to shall we say more extreme measures
HR are there to look after the company and in many respects my union the gmb don’t wish to upset the company either
I will probably end up leaving as it’s not helping my mental state will have to probably wait till after Xmas an leave when suitable vacancy arises "
I'm sorry to hear that. No job is worth your health though.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Always disliked bully’s was in Barnardo home at three always disliked how they picked on the younger and not strong could always fight back then
Dealing with it in workplace is totally different matter
Think I just need to calm down just let it go look for another job it’s like admitting they have won though current area manager and Managing director know what happened
But know both deny anything happened
I don’t have to drink to enjoy myself and I have and will stick to my guns
No Xmas party for me and franklay I don’t give a damn
Are you in a union ?
Yes Gmb already spoke to them they just advise I leave "
Ok ,I wish you luck in job hunting and hope your time there is bearable. |
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"Yes am not drinker now didn't used to be but I just don’t want to drink
Was singled out last year for being a grinch I did go but just had coffee in some pubs fruit juices in the other
Last drink I had was two years ago
I was bullied at work by ex supervisor as well ended up on strong sych meds mitrepine and sertreline changed the sertreline now as it didn’t agree with me am on zopicone and amitripeline as well
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You do know, someone took his company to court for somethibg similar. He is now legally allowed to be boring (his words)  |
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