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How far are you willing to travel?
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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago
Camberley |
I think I'd probably travel a fair bit for the right person - which I would be unlikely to discover without chatting to them for awhile
Anything spir of the moment though I would say not much more than an hour. I do however live about an hour or so from central London so it's not like there is a small area to cover. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It would definitely need that initial connection of course. But I love the anticipation all that excitement in your way to meet new people/person. I like that bit just as much as the meet itself  |
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No more than an hour. If someone lived further I'd expect them to meet me halfway. If they don't agree we won't be meeting.
I've found that distance adds to expectation and not in the way that most describe it.
I've driven 3 hours each way to a meet and their attitude was if I'd done it once I should do it again and again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No more than an hour. If someone lived further I'd expect them to meet me halfway. If they don't agree we won't be meeting.
I've found that distance adds to expectation and not in the way that most describe it.
I've driven 3 hours each way to a meet and their attitude was if I'd done it once I should do it again and again. "
Very good point, never thought of it like that! |
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If you “travel a lot for work” then you technically aren’t travelling for a meet… you are travelling for work. A meet that happens to be in a location you are travelling to (for work) is an opportunistic by-product of that.
Completely different scenarion to someone who lives and works in London, but then travels to Scotland with the sole intention of meeting someone for sex, then returning home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you “travel a lot for work” then you technically aren’t travelling for a meet… you are travelling for work. A meet that happens to be in a location you are travelling to (for work) is an opportunistic by-product of that.
Completely different scenarion to someone who lives and works in London, but then travels to Scotland with the sole intention of meeting someone for sex, then returning home."
I only ment it in the sense that I’m use to traveling. I’m yet to have a meet in a place I’m working. I’ve managed to keep business away from pleasure for now… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to Gothernberg once to meet an internet friend. I didn't deem it excessive after a 3 year friendship, and I treasure that trip. Would I do that for the average meet, absolutely not. My general rule of thumb is can I get there and home in an evening if I needed to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make a point of local.
But and there was a but... I traveled for 45 minutes on promises of one thing and another from this guy.
It was not about the 45 minutes but more about what accumulates within the time that I put in... traffic delays frustration listening to a sat nav only to find that I visited a person who's hygiene was shall we say not to my standards.
Only to take another 45 minutes in traffic that had a worse delay returning home that turned into a 75 minute return journey..
Accumulated time lost, stressed and deflated.
Local is best..
Cash crisis prevails.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was in my twenties I drove from London to Manchester for a meet -- based solely on the size of her boobs!
Unfortunately she started her period when I was just north of Birmingham -- and, for her, that meant sex was off the table  
That was before I had the Internet though -- I'd met her from one of those message carousel chatlines that used to be a thing.
Nowadays I'm reluctant to travel more than twenty minutes.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on the connection I form with a person. Not purely on a sexual level because there might not be chemistry in person but do I like this person? Could I spend a day with them? I'd happily travel to anywhere in the UK if a good enough friendship has been formed. |
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If I was travelling I'd probably want to combine it with travelling to a local club and meeting someone before or after aswell. But theres so many local guys, I tend not to tall much to people who are far away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends on the connection I form with a person. Not purely on a sexual level because there might not be chemistry in person but do I like this person? Could I spend a day with them? I'd happily travel to anywhere in the UK if a good enough friendship has been formed. "
Perfectly said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the connection I form with a person. Not purely on a sexual level because there might not be chemistry in person but do I like this person? Could I spend a day with them? I'd happily travel to anywhere in the UK if a good enough friendship has been formed. "
Same here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past Ive been willing to travel a fair bit.
Right now I'm just two busy. I'd pop out to meet people for lunch or a coffee in the local area but that's about it. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"How far is everyone will to travel for a meet?
I do a lot of traveling with my job so I’d happily drive the length of the uk for the right person. I would walk 500 miles 
I would walk 500 more "
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I travel a lot for work but find that means I’m
less likely to want to travel far when not working, but also local meets are normally bad ideas. I guess 30-60mins is best for a fab meet. But there’s a few people on here I would travel any distance for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few years ago got chatting to a couple of people online. Ended up me visiting 5 times. Friendship not sexual but still a fair journey. About 8,000 miles round trip. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Few years ago got chatting to a couple of people online. Ended up me visiting 5 times. Friendship not sexual but still a fair journey. About 8,000 miles round trip. "
Wow!!! Obviously worth it! I think most will struggle to beat that. That’s pretty epic x |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"How far is everyone will to travel for a meet?
I do a lot of traveling with my job so I’d happily drive the length of the uk for the right person. I would walk 500 miles
I would walk 500 more "
...and fall down at your door!!?
No good to anyone though if you've used up all your energy walking all that way 
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I've travelled into Oxford for my two meetings so far, which is a journey of 4 miles but at least 400 years back in time...
Being so close to such a tourist hot spot definitely makes it easier to arrange meetings, though I wonder, at a low ebb of self-esteem, if they've come to see me or the dreaming spires. |
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