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"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "
Not a hope in hell. |
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"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "
It very much depends on the circumstances, what was said, how it was said, was there any potential for confusion, was cold feet involved or was it a mistake. I would be cautious of making a further arrangement but would be happy for them to travel to me for a social meet as a late cancellation wouldn't put me our much and would confirm any earlier confusion. |
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"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X
It very much depends on the circumstances, what was said, how it was said, was there any potential for confusion, was cold feet involved or was it a mistake. I would be cautious of making a further arrangement but would be happy for them to travel to me for a social meet as a late cancellation wouldn't put me our much and would confirm any earlier confusion. "
might have been a hubby making plans for the wife...it actually happens....sometimes lol-then of course..he chickens out of telling her |
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"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "
No. Too many people to choose from to waste time with those who want to play silly beggers. I wouldn't even acknowledge them. |
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I'd give them a chance to explain the obvious misunderstanding that existed regards our meet that never was….!.
Then based on that answer, I’d make up my mind whether to risk making future arraignments with them….  |
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I’ve given somebody a second chance in a similar but not identical scenario to the OP and I’m glad I did. We had been in regular touch through this site for a few months and somehow when we got around to discussing plans for meeting up, he went quiet before anything was finalised. I just left it and he got in touch a few weeks later. I chose to give him the benefit of the doubt and we have now met and continue to do so and he’s a decent guy. |
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It's danger signal that's for sure. If I get a danger signal I'm out.
Look at it this way, if there is a communication problem at this stage there may be others further down the line.
Trust your instincts. |
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When I first came here I was a big softee and fell for all the banter, I was very naieve. Now you either want to meet me or you don`t, my time has been wasted enough, if I say I`m going to be there I wil be, nervous or not, so one chance is all they get with me now  |
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"They denied any knowledge???? How many offers is that person getting? I don't think any single guy will forget that he is due to meet
Give a second chance? hummmmmmmmm...NO"
A guy forgot he was meeting me a few weeks ago  pity tho, he was hot, but he blew it, I`m sure I`m no big loss tho he gets plenty of meets lol |
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Ok, we dont know the full story just that he denies all knowledge of arranging a meet.
Did he say he did want to meet in the future?
Im looking at it from a different perspecive as sometimes i have know knowledge of conversations ive had with people or that ive even spoken to them.
Did you get the impression it was a cop out. If he was still chatting to you, it seems a bit strange for an excuse. Saying he had forgotten i can see, but denying all knowlede?
I dont know what id do as i dont know what the interaction has been between you and this guy.
Now if we are talking about giving people second chances in real life, i wouldnt be where i am today without second chances.
Would be interesting to know what he said after denying all knowledge |
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"What would you do if you arranged a meet with someone and then the day before they denied any knowledge. Would you give them a second chance? X "
Not a fookin chance! People get one bite at the cherry with us and if they fuck us about that's it, we'll have already moved on to find someone who actually wants to me us, and not as an also-ran when their first choice blew out.  |
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