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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..
Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s a hard one
As your stuck with being a “good friend” and letting him know
But also could case a riff and put you in the middle off something you don’t want to be
Personaly I would block and say nothing none off my business don’t need the hassle |
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"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..
Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "
It’s a difficult one.
She could be cheating, or conversely she could be on here with his knowledge and encouragement.
I’d tend to keep quiet about it, but if you do feel compelled to say something then maybe just have a private and respectful conversation with HER about it.
That way, if she’s cheating she gets a chance to reconsider, if he knows then it’s no problem… either way as long as you discuss it without judgement (even if you don’t agree) then you stand less risk of making things worse |
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"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..
Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "
if he loves his wife he could blame you for telling him but if she's cheating on him, which you don't know she may have permission, maybe you're best to stay out of it if she is cheating she may leave him eventually anyway, maybe have a quiet word on the side with her away from here and say you know, difficult because your mate loses in every scenario unless he's given her permission  |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I would say not get involve. Its a tricky one but at the same time, you don't quite know the full story of it all. I get he's your friend but that's between them though. Last thing you want is to be in the middle of it if everything begins to unravel |
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"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..
Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "
Not your monkey, not your circus.
For all you know, he's aware and happy for her to be here.
Noses are best kept out of other people's business.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?
I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?
I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get."
Bad idea, if it's her that would freak her out.
It could be a fake profile and she has no idea her pics are being used. 
I'd message her and try to figure out if she is real and exists and is happily on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?
I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get."
Do you know how creepy that is? It's awful when it happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?
I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get.
Do you know how creepy that is? It's awful when it happens "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, in your profile you say you'd prefer not to be contacted by people who know you, maybe extend the same courtesy to the lady in question and maybe mind your own business. By outing her you are outing yourself
And she could be playing with permission |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, in your profile you say you'd prefer not to be contacted by people who know you, maybe extend the same courtesy to the lady in question and maybe mind your own business. By outing her you are outing yourself
And she could be playing with
permission"
Own business is minded, was just asking for a little advice is all as was rather unexpected. |
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"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know  "
I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them? |
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You could contact her and she may delete her profile if she thinks she’s been caught red handed - but just as likely to create a new one - block you and you’ll never know.
Part of me says stay out and part says to broach it with your mate especially if he finds out and then finds out you knew and didn’t say anything … minefield - don’t envy you!! |
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"Just come across a good friends wife on here, profile had a fair few pictures and also made out that she was single and not married..
Say nothing? Or somehow bring it to my friends attention?? "
Do you want to fuck her?
Just a feeling I get........
Winston |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"How do you know it's her? Does she have face pics up, or do you know her well enough to recognise her from body pics?
I'd say nothing to him, but maybe consider contacting her and use her real name (if she doenst use it here) and see what response you get.
Bad idea, if it's her that would freak her out.
It could be a fake profile and she has no idea her pics are being used.
I'd message her and try to figure out if she is real and exists and is happily on here."
This ,can you be totally sure it's her otherwise ?.It makes sense to try and speak to her first and see if you can suss it out . |
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"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know
I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them? "
Cos that’s what mates would do for each other. |
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"Would you want to be told ? That’s the real question if you would then he should know
I personally think it's best to approach the actual person whose behaviour you have a problem with. Why would you talk to someone's partner about their behaviour rather than them?
Cos that’s what mates would do for each other."
Interfere in their relationship without knowing the full story? |
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