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over a year ago
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Now I dont do anal. I have tried it a few times and just dont enjoy it, but as I get older and my periods more eratic I am thinking if I want sex I may need to re think things lol
So ladies, if your periods are all over the place and you spend more time on than off, what do you do to still be able to have fun!?
Now I know, some people dont mind having sex with a woman that is on, but I myself am not overly comfortable with the idea and as I am preferring to meet woman now I wouldn't want to subject her to it either.
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My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
Pxx"
Whats the ibuprofen trick!? |
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
What's the trick?
Pxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you don't enjoy anal then you should not subject yourself to it because you're worried about what a potential partner will think.
When I was with my ex we did anal when I was on but it was something with both enjoyed and he knew exactly how to do it so it wasn't painful or uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do that again unless I was in a proper relationship with someone.
Have you looked at possibly the pill or something to help regulate your period?
My friend has nightmare periods and her gp put her on the mini pill and it seems to have helped her.  |
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
Pxx
Whats the ibuprofen trick!? "
I think we all want to know this ! |
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"Or find a guy that has no problem with period sex, there are many of us out there.
She's stated she prefers to meet women....not really a solution. 
A"
She also named the topic 'anal' so there is obviously some aspect of the question that is aimed at men |
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
Pxx"
Vodka used to work with me when I was younger, only lightens it now |
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
Pxx
Whats the ibuprofen trick!? "
3 or 4 ( I'd need to look up the exact amount but 3 works for me) tablets of ibuprofen, 8 hours before you want to do anything. It stops your period. Sometimes it stops mine completely, other times it comes back the next day. But I've never had it fail for the day/night.
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"My period went through a phase of being wonky. I stopped having sex with anyone except E and a very dear friend. The other option I have used is the ibuprofen trick.
Pxx
Whats the ibuprofen trick!? "
Ibuprofen can lighten your period. Found this on Google:
“Results are unique to each woman, but I'd say, on average, a woman may experience 30 percent less bleeding if she takes 800 mg of ibuprofen (four over-the-counter pills) three times a day, ideally starting right before or when her period starts”
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding "
Please note that this is double the recommended dose and defo not to be taken if you have stomach issues/ulcers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding "
I've never taken it 3 times a day, just 3 tablets at once.
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding "
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Or find a guy that has no problem with period sex, there are many of us out there.
She's stated she prefers to meet women....not really a solution.
A
She also named the topic 'anal' so there is obviously some aspect of the question that is aimed at men "
True.
Or women with strap ons of course.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or find a guy that has no problem with period sex, there are many of us out there.
She's stated she prefers to meet women....not really a solution.
A
She also named the topic 'anal' so there is obviously some aspect of the question that is aimed at men
True.
Or women with strap ons of course.....
A"
Im not opposed to meeting a man if I found one I liked, just prefer women currently. |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
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"Whats the ibuprofen trick!?
Ibuprofen reduces menstrual flow, 800mg 3x a day can in some women significantly reduce flow. "
that is a very heavy dose of ibuprofen may not do your stomach much good |
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol "
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time? |
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"If you don't enjoy anal then you should not subject yourself to it because you're worried about what a potential partner will think.
When I was with my ex we did anal when I was on but it was something with both enjoyed and he knew exactly how to do it so it wasn't painful or uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do that again unless I was in a proper relationship with someone.
Have you looked at possibly the pill or something to help regulate your period?
My friend has nightmare periods and her gp put her on the mini pill and it seems to have helped her. "
I had the implant for 9 years (changed every 3) and it helped initially but slowly started to get worse again.
Now im not on anything currently but do have the pill so will start back on them and see if it helps at all |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Hey OP; my periods are definitely quite heavy and becoming more irregular recently ( ). I think visiting the GP is a good shout, they're a lot more clued up on possible things that may be causing it (endo+pcos here).
An option for sex could be mutual toy usage? You could use wands etc with another person, with a condom on if wanted. There's also masturbating facing each other, showers together are incredibly erotic and you kind of clean as you go along. I hope things get better for you soon x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time? "
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference |
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"If you don't enjoy anal then you should not subject yourself to it because you're worried about what a potential partner will think.
When I was with my ex we did anal when I was on but it was something with both enjoyed and he knew exactly how to do it so it wasn't painful or uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do that again unless I was in a proper relationship with someone.
Have you looked at possibly the pill or something to help regulate your period?
My friend has nightmare periods and her gp put her on the mini pill and it seems to have helped her.
I had the implant for 9 years (changed every 3) and it helped initially but slowly started to get worse again.
Now im not on anything currently but do have the pill so will start back on them and see if it helps at all "
Yeah I would. At least discuss with your gp.
Bleeding for 4 weeks isn't normal or healthy and may be a sign that something else is going on.
Do you have fibroid or PCOS? |
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time?
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference"
thank god don't want you rattling  |
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time?
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference"
This is really incorrect information. You're only 38 you shouldn't be having this kind of issues.
Ask them to ref you to a gynea Dr and if they don't say "ok will can you document on my file that you're refusing and the reason why."
Also are you upto date with your smear? |
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"If you don't enjoy anal then you should not subject yourself to it because you're worried about what a potential partner will think.
When I was with my ex we did anal when I was on but it was something with both enjoyed and he knew exactly how to do it so it wasn't painful or uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do that again unless I was in a proper relationship with someone.
Have you looked at possibly the pill or something to help regulate your period?
My friend has nightmare periods and her gp put her on the mini pill and it seems to have helped her.
I had the implant for 9 years (changed every 3) and it helped initially but slowly started to get worse again.
Now im not on anything currently but do have the pill so will start back on them and see if it helps at all
Yeah I would. At least discuss with your gp.
Bleeding for 4 weeks isn't normal or healthy and may be a sign that something else is going on.
Do you have fibroid or PCOS?"
Not that I am aware of |
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"It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time?
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference"
Good luck - I hope it helps! Many years ago, my periods were in reverse. I use to be ‘on’ for three weeks and ‘off’ for one week, so totally understand your frustration! |
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time?
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference
This is really incorrect information. You're only 38 you shouldn't be having this kind of issues.
Ask them to ref you to a gynea Dr and if they don't say "ok will can you document on my file that you're refusing and the reason why."
Also are you upto date with your smear? "
No im not. I cant have a smear until I am not bleeding and managing to make an appointment at a time im not is actually proving really difficult. Been trying for nearly 2 years now to get seen |
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"If you don't enjoy anal then you should not subject yourself to it because you're worried about what a potential partner will think.
When I was with my ex we did anal when I was on but it was something with both enjoyed and he knew exactly how to do it so it wasn't painful or uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do that again unless I was in a proper relationship with someone.
Have you looked at possibly the pill or something to help regulate your period?
My friend has nightmare periods and her gp put her on the mini pill and it seems to have helped her.
I had the implant for 9 years (changed every 3) and it helped initially but slowly started to get worse again.
Now im not on anything currently but do have the pill so will start back on them and see if it helps at all
Yeah I would. At least discuss with your gp.
Bleeding for 4 weeks isn't normal or healthy and may be a sign that something else is going on.
Do you have fibroid or PCOS?
Not that I am aware of"
I would ask for a referral
I had awful periods as a teenager and my gp kept fobbing me off until I kicked off one day and threatened to make a complaint about her if she didn't refer me to a gynea Dr (not my finest hour tbh) but I was sent for scans etc and was told that I have PCOS and one of my ovaries doesn't work lol
But thankfully other than heavy periods I don't have any other symptoms any more.
But I would 100% get it checked out! |
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"I've googled the trick. 800mg 3 times a day starting on the day or just before your period starts. Reduces bleeding
My last period lasted 4 and a half weeks. Id be rattling by the end lol
It might be worth speaking to your GP if you haven’t already. If you’d consider going on the pill, that can help regulate your periods and you can also run two packs back to back if your period would be due to fall at an inconvenient time?
I spoke to the gp. I was told it was my age and to be expected. No further tests orsuggestions from them. I have been given a pill from the sexual health clinic so will be going on that shortly to see if it makes a difference
This is really incorrect information. You're only 38 you shouldn't be having this kind of issues.
Ask them to ref you to a gynea Dr and if they don't say "ok will can you document on my file that you're refusing and the reason why."
Also are you upto date with your smear?
No im not. I cant have a smear until I am not bleeding and managing to make an appointment at a time im not is actually proving really difficult. Been trying for nearly 2 years now to get seen "
Jesus!
Yeah please ask your gp to refer you for further testing x |
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