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Gee I hope the lady in question isn't reading this she must be really embarrassed and I imagine she was pretty upset whilst your getting your rock's off.
Bit crass tbh OP.
Why was it sexy for you,did it boost your ego??
Shame on you bragging about it. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've seen a few educational films by a porn star called Dirty Garden Girl who takes great joy in turning her arse inside out.
There's something for everyone on this planet, it must be said. |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Hi Guys
I didn't do it too her, it's something I didn't know she could do.
She asked me if I wanted to see something and she pushed it out.
I didn't realise it was a porn category until she shown me.
It was something different and I don't judge people |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I've seen a few educational films by a porn star called Dirty Garden Girl who takes great joy in turning her arse inside out.
There's something for everyone on this planet, it must be said. "
Thank you the point I was trying to make. I think people have read this as though I made her prolapse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to Google this. Id only heard of it happening to guys before, rectal prolapse, (and had the joy of seeing a few first hand at work  )
Reading about it, sounds quite nasty. And you found it sexy??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gee I hope the lady in question isn't reading this she must be really embarrassed and I imagine she was pretty upset whilst your getting your rock's off.
Bit crass tbh OP.
Why was it sexy for you,did it boost your ego??
Shame on you bragging about it."
I think the people posting about how disgusting it is would probably be more offensive toward the woman in question tbh |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Gee I hope the lady in question isn't reading this she must be really embarrassed and I imagine she was pretty upset whilst your getting your rock's off.
Bit crass tbh OP.
Why was it sexy for you,did it boost your ego??
Shame on you bragging about it.
I think the people posting about how disgusting it is would probably be more offensive toward the woman in question tbh "
First of all it aint disgusting it's a natural thing she had. People on this app annoy me |
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"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative "
99% of porn is neither a healthy nor accurate representation of sex. The existence of "prolapse porn" does not make it an acceptable or legitimate endeavour.
Also, wtf OP? |
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"Gee I hope the lady in question isn't reading this she must be really embarrassed and I imagine she was pretty upset whilst your getting your rock's off.
Bit crass tbh OP.
Why was it sexy for you,did it boost your ego??
Shame on you bragging about it.
I think the people posting about how disgusting it is would probably be more offensive toward the woman in question tbh
First of all it aint disgusting it's a natural thing she had. People on this app annoy me"
Agreed it is not disgusting, but it's not an ideal thing either. You only need to read about the vaginal mesh scandal to treat pelvic organ relapse. To see that prolapse is a serious issue for many women, like my aunt who had to have an emergency hysterectomy because of it. Yes it maybe a niche porn category (I've learnt something new today) but that doesn't mean people can't be concerned about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Guys
I didn't do it too her, it's something I didn't know she could do.
She asked me if I wanted to see something and she pushed it out.
I didn't realise it was a porn category until she shown me.
It was something different and I don't judge people"
That might have been helpful at the start OP |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Gee I hope the lady in question isn't reading this she must be really embarrassed and I imagine she was pretty upset whilst your getting your rock's off.
Bit crass tbh OP.
Why was it sexy for you,did it boost your ego??
Shame on you bragging about it.
I think the people posting about how disgusting it is would probably be more offensive toward the woman in question tbh
First of all it aint disgusting it's a natural thing she had. People on this app annoy me
Agreed it is not disgusting, but it's not an ideal thing either. You only need to read about the vaginal mesh scandal to treat pelvic organ relapse. To see that prolapse is a serious issue for many women, like my aunt who had to have an emergency hysterectomy because of it. Yes it maybe a niche porn category (I've learnt something new today) but that doesn't mean people can't be concerned about it."
I didn't know the health side of it.
I was literally saying this happenedition from person showing me never seen it before.
Then they said it's a type of porn |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Hi Guys
I didn't do it too her, it's something I didn't know she could do.
She asked me if I wanted to see something and she pushed it out.
I didn't realise it was a porn category until she shown me.
It was something different and I don't judge people
That might have been helpful at the start OP"
Yeah i agree mate. People thinking it wrong way round |
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"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative
99% of porn is neither a healthy nor accurate representation of sex. The existence of "prolapse porn" does not make it an acceptable or legitimate endeavour.
Also, wtf OP?"
I'm not surprised honestly on the subject of porn, all of the mainstream stuff centres on women enjoying typically painful or embarrassing acts  |
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"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative "
I'm not sure "porn of it exists" is an argument to make something ok? Porn of... all sorts of fucked up shit exists.
I don't know enough about it to comment on specifics, but I'm aware that it can be a major health concern, and would therefore not like to be involved in it myself. |
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"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative
I'm not sure "porn of it exists" is an argument to make something ok? Porn of... all sorts of fucked up shit exists.
I don't know enough about it to comment on specifics, but I'm aware that it can be a major health concern, and would therefore not like to be involved in it myself."
Agreed, it's certainly not something I'd encourage |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative
I'm not sure "porn of it exists" is an argument to make something ok? Porn of... all sorts of fucked up shit exists.
I don't know enough about it to comment on specifics, but I'm aware that it can be a major health concern, and would therefore not like to be involved in it myself.
Agreed, it's certainly not something I'd encourage "
I'm not advocating it . I was asking if others have encountered this as I hadn't previously |
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"If you Google you'll see people do it Inow porn. If u read my other comments you'll see the full story
Stop trying to push a narrative
I'm not sure "porn of it exists" is an argument to make something ok? Porn of... all sorts of fucked up shit exists.
I don't know enough about it to comment on specifics, but I'm aware that it can be a major health concern, and would therefore not like to be involved in it myself.
Agreed, it's certainly not something I'd encourage
I'm not advocating it . I was asking if others have encountered this as I hadn't previously"
It's quite clear from your original post that you were asking for "sexy prolapse stories" for your wank bank. Having been told you were out of order you're being completely disingenuous in pretending your query was one of legitimate concern. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read 
Okay read full context then move on"
Read the full context before messaging. Still doesn’t make it ok |
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on"
She asked if you wanted to see something.
You agreed.
She showed you she can prolapse, and you learned there is a niche porn market regarding prolapsing.
You found it very sexy.
What else is there contextually that's missing?
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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I used to work in care. Trust me, no matter how sexually arousing it can be for either party, you don’t want one!!!
Imagine constipation and a prolapse  . It happens quite a lot in the elderly. Yea it also means that we know what they used to get up to! |
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on"
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m assuming vaginal prolapse? It’s just unpleasant  (my actual face) "
Anal, with a vaginal one that poor lady’s last thought would be in sex, let alone showing it off |
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"I’m assuming vaginal prolapse? It’s just unpleasant (my actual face)
Anal, with a vaginal one that poor lady’s last thought would be in sex, let alone showing it off "
My thoughts exactly!
Like a party trick !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Calm down ladies, sure he said it was very sexy and then spent time searching for prolapse porn but OBVS we're all just taking it out of context  "
I knew what it was before I clicked on the thread and I knew how the lounge would take it |
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"I’m assuming vaginal prolapse? It’s just unpleasant (my actual face)
Anal, with a vaginal one that poor lady’s last thought would be in sex, let alone showing it off
My thoughts exactly!
Like a party trick !!
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I don't want to be at that party  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m assuming vaginal prolapse? It’s just unpleasant (my actual face)
Anal, with a vaginal one that poor lady’s last thought would be in sex, let alone showing it off
My thoughts exactly!
Like a party trick !!
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If someone told me it was I’d ask for proof  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Calm down ladies, sure he said it was very sexy and then spent time searching for prolapse porn but OBVS we're all just taking it out of context "
Oh ok, sorry for jumping the gun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?"
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to work in care. Trust me, no matter how sexually arousing it can be for either party, you don’t want one!!!
Imagine constipation and a prolapse . It happens quite a lot in the elderly. Yea it also means that we know what they used to get up to!"
And the issue with that is what? |
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Please bring back the innocent days of Fiesta and Razzle!
..now we have the era of porn oneupmanship, it's big business capitalising on demand for the more extreme...where anal's the norm and we're expected to squirt, gush, gag and turn our internal pipework inside out because some find it 'sexy' ffs! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response? "
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response? "
Exactly! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response?
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
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Because they see it as sexy
To them a prolapse isn't sexy so it's ok to attack people over it
I don't find it sexy, I've seen a vag prolapse first hand and it looked very painful and uncomfortable but if the woman involved and her partner dont have an issue then I don't get the problem tbh |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Thank you to the people understanding the situation.
People are just using this an an opportunity to have a go at me.
Again I didnt cause it to happen the person shown me.
And I agree there are things like squirting and fisting that people openly do and no one says anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you to the people understanding the situation.
People are just using this an an opportunity to have a go at me.
Again I didnt cause it to happen the person shown me.
And I agree there are things like squirting and fisting that people openly do and no one says anything "
It's been a pretty OTT reaction really. Don't let it get to you OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response?
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
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I am not proud of it, nor does it happen to me, but squirting is not a health issue unless its masking urinary incontinence which is another problem in itself.
I feel strongly against fisting and I’m very verbal about it for all the health issues that it causes.
The fact is: I am not demonising people who has these issues and decide to carry on with their sex life, but more in the lines of fetishising a health problem is wrong, and that’s what’s happening in this thread. Would you find sexy a person just because they had an arm amputated? |
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By *bc_welsh OP Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Thank you to the people understanding the situation.
People are just using this an an opportunity to have a go at me.
Again I didnt cause it to happen the person shown me.
And I agree there are things like squirting and fisting that people openly do and no one says anything
It's been a pretty OTT reaction really. Don't let it get to you OP "
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This is defo being blown up. I think that if the female in question had an issue she wouldn’t have mentioned it. I think that it’s a ‘kink’ or ‘fetish’ maybe and it’s not something that’s new to the sex industry. Some people find it hot, others not so much. Personally I don’t know why so many people are coming for OP
JS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any similar experiences
SURE - WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE TO STOP .. LOL
Believable its boys nature that experience it more likely &that origins of embarrassment being told from it. It could be worse like your boyfriend having a pigs penis for squirt time & sharing it doggy aged 9 |
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"Any similar experiences
SURE - WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE TO STOP .. LOL
Believable its boys nature that experience it more likely &that origins of embarrassment being told from it. It could be worse like your boyfriend having a pigs penis for squirt time & sharing it doggy aged 9"
What??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people strive to be so unquestioningly open-minded it appears their brains have actually fallen out."
When will you share the a kink list with fabbers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a recent meet and a lady prolapsed on me . First time experience and found it very sexy
Anyone else had any similar experiencesearches?"
Seriously ? That can be very dangerous, I hope she doesn’t see this post |
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"Any similar experiences
SURE - WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE TO STOP .. LOL
Believable its boys nature that experience it more likely &that origins of embarrassment being told from it. It could be worse like your boyfriend having a pigs penis for squirt time & sharing it doggy aged 9
What??? "
green arrow him and you will see he talks in complete riddles |
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"Any similar experiences
SURE - WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE TO STOP .. LOL
Believable its boys nature that experience it more likely &that origins of embarrassment being told from it. It could be worse like your boyfriend having a pigs penis for squirt time & sharing it doggy aged 9
What??? green arrow him and you will see he talks in complete riddles "
For your own sanity don't look at his profile. |
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response?
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
I am not proud of it, nor does it happen to me, but squirting is not a health issue unless its masking urinary incontinence which is another problem in itself.
I feel strongly against fisting and I’m very verbal about it for all the health issues that it causes.
The fact is: I am not demonising people who has these issues and decide to carry on with their sex life, but more in the lines of fetishising a health problem is wrong, and that’s what’s happening in this thread. Would you find sexy a person just because they had an arm amputated? "
I think amputation May be a kink |
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"Some people strive to be so unquestioningly open-minded it appears their brains have actually fallen out.
When will you share the a kink list with fabbers?"
Mainly just kinkshaming and shitposting but I'm always open to new ones.
Preferably those that don't involve my cervix or colon surfacing for air. |
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Now I like a bit of anal play with an attractive lady as much as the next man, a nice bit of sensual rimming, a cheeky finger and a butt plug, even a bit of gentle lubed up anal penatration, but if halfway through she decides to turn her arse inside out or even outside in then I'm throwing in the towel. So no OP, not for me but each to their own |
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"I’m assuming vaginal prolapse? It’s just unpleasant (my actual face)
Anal, with a vaginal one that poor lady’s last thought would be in sex, let alone showing it off
My thoughts exactly!
Like a party trick !!
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Like the village magician's performance at the Ball of Kerrymuir? |
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"Any similar experiences
SURE - WOULDN'T KNOW WHERE TO STOP .. LOL
Believable its boys nature that experience it more likely &that origins of embarrassment being told from it. It could be worse like your boyfriend having a pigs penis for squirt time & sharing it doggy aged 9
What??? green arrow him and you will see he talks in complete riddles "
I've had the pleasure of seeing his fables before, always highly amusing |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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like it or not or if it happened or not does not matter what matters is kink shaming is a no no ... theres lots of things i dont like that other do its a clear kink amongst some men and women there are pleanty of porn content on this pro and armature so if ''she'' wanted to show then thats for her and who played with her the medical side of thing just dont come into it as its a choice they choose this as a kink no laws are broken (i think)
is it healthy hell no but so is a lot of kinks not healthy ... live let live their bodies their choice their kink ..
do i like it no |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response?
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
I am not proud of it, nor does it happen to me, but squirting is not a health issue unless its masking urinary incontinence which is another problem in itself.
I feel strongly against fisting and I’m very verbal about it for all the health issues that it causes.
The fact is: I am not demonising people who has these issues and decide to carry on with their sex life, but more in the lines of fetishising a health problem is wrong, and that’s what’s happening in this thread. Would you find sexy a person just because they had an arm amputated? "
Any huge amount of fluid coming from the urethra is a health issue and shouldn't be happening during sex, no matter how sexy people think it is.
It's still enjoyable to them and nothing to be shamed for. Loads of women suffer stress incontinence even when they aren't having sex. |
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Okay, now we are able to join in tonight, here's our take. Please note that prolapse doesn't necessarily mean that the prolapsed organ is completely external, there are different degrees of prolapse and it depends on the grade (1-4) as to how far "down" the organ is compared to the normal position.
Rectocele - prolapse of the back vaginal wall
Cystocele - prolapse of the front vaginal wall, usually caused by prolapse of the bladder
Rectal prolapse - should be self explanatory - this isn't only external
Enterocele - prolapse of the bowel into the pelvic cavity
Uterine prolapse - when the uterus drops down and the cervix is either low in the vagina; at the vaginal opening or can be external
Vaginal vault prolapse - when the top of the vagina concertinas down towards the opening - this is a major risk after hysterectomy
I have triple prolapse - rectocele; cystocele and uterine prolapse. My rectocele has been surgically repaired once but that failed within 2yrs.
My prolapses especially cause me problems with toilet related matters, especially the rectocele.
Despite a fairly low hanging cervix, I am able to have sex in most positions thanks to a silicone scaffolding ring that holds it up as much as possible. But my cervix can be easily bashed, which is very uncomfortable.
It's not nice. It's not kinky. It's not fun.
I've had extremely invasive tests. I've had to urinate and defecate in front of multiple medical professionals, while x-rays and other scans were taken. While catheters were inserted into every orifice. While I was bleeding and passing massive clots on my period. None of these things are adapted for wheelchair users/disabled people and so I've needed even more help, while pretty much naked with wires hanging out of my arse and urethra and four or five people (men and women) in the room.
Prolapse of some degree occurs in around 50% of women at some point in their lives. If you don't believe me, check out the stats on the NHS and NICE websites. It can be treated, sometimes it can be prevented from worsening or surgery can alleviate in some cases (although this often fails).
I'm lucky because I'm young and I am able to manage my own toilet needs and my silicone ring. Spare a thought for Mildred, age 80 who cannot empty her bladder due to prolapse and has chronic UTIs as a consequence. Who cannot empty her bowels without someone manually pressing on the bulge out of her vagina. Who cannot tolerate someone shoving a ring of silicone up her vagina and so who has to live with the prolapse. Often, hysterectomy is not possible, perhaps due to comorbidity or risk of further prolapse in the future.
Men can and do suffer from rectal prolapse and/or enteroceles but all prolapses are infinity more common in women due to anatomy, influence of hormones and the impact of pregnancy/childbirth.
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"Okay, now we are able to join in tonight, here's our take. Please note that prolapse doesn't necessarily mean that the prolapsed organ is completely external, there are different degrees of prolapse and it depends on the grade (1-4) as to how far "down" the organ is compared to the normal position.
Rectocele - prolapse of the back vaginal wall
Cystocele - prolapse of the front vaginal wall, usually caused by prolapse of the bladder
Rectal prolapse - should be self explanatory - this isn't only external
Enterocele - prolapse of the bowel into the pelvic cavity
Uterine prolapse - when the uterus drops down and the cervix is either low in the vagina; at the vaginal opening or can be external
Vaginal vault prolapse - when the top of the vagina concertinas down towards the opening - this is a major risk after hysterectomy
I have triple prolapse - rectocele; cystocele and uterine prolapse. My rectocele has been surgically repaired once but that failed within 2yrs.
My prolapses especially cause me problems with toilet related matters, especially the rectocele.
Despite a fairly low hanging cervix, I am able to have sex in most positions thanks to a silicone scaffolding ring that holds it up as much as possible. But my cervix can be easily bashed, which is very uncomfortable.
It's not nice. It's not kinky. It's not fun.
I've had extremely invasive tests. I've had to urinate and defecate in front of multiple medical professionals, while x-rays and other scans were taken. While catheters were inserted into every orifice. While I was bleeding and passing massive clots on my period. None of these things are adapted for wheelchair users/disabled people and so I've needed even more help, while pretty much naked with wires hanging out of my arse and urethra and four or five people (men and women) in the room.
Prolapse of some degree occurs in around 50% of women at some point in their lives. If you don't believe me, check out the stats on the NHS and NICE websites. It can be treated, sometimes it can be prevented from worsening or surgery can alleviate in some cases (although this often fails).
I'm lucky because I'm young and I am able to manage my own toilet needs and my silicone ring. Spare a thought for Mildred, age 80 who cannot empty her bladder due to prolapse and has chronic UTIs as a consequence. Who cannot empty her bowels without someone manually pressing on the bulge out of her vagina. Who cannot tolerate someone shoving a ring of silicone up her vagina and so who has to live with the prolapse. Often, hysterectomy is not possible, perhaps due to comorbidity or risk of further prolapse in the future.
Men can and do suffer from rectal prolapse and/or enteroceles but all prolapses are infinity more common in women due to anatomy, influence of hormones and the impact of pregnancy/childbirth.
Here endeth the lesson."
And I think that supports why it’s not bloody kinky! |
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"Im not explaining myself again
You’re explaining yourself alright:
It was fun and found it very sexy are the only explanations I needed to read
Okay read full context then move on
Full context: something happened you liked. It's a thing that can be or contribute serious health issues. It's ok, though, because porn of it exists (because porn is notorious for displaying only healthy things).
What context am I missing?
Tbf lots of sex acts can contribute to serious health issues, for example anal and fisting to name a few, but they never get this kind of response?
Squirting is a health issue, but many people on the forums think it's something to be proud of.
I am not proud of it, nor does it happen to me, but squirting is not a health issue unless its masking urinary incontinence which is another problem in itself.
I feel strongly against fisting and I’m very verbal about it for all the health issues that it causes.
The fact is: I am not demonising people who has these issues and decide to carry on with their sex life, but more in the lines of fetishising a health problem is wrong, and that’s what’s happening in this thread. Would you find sexy a person just because they had an arm amputated?
Any huge amount of fluid coming from the urethra is a health issue and shouldn't be happening during sex, no matter how sexy people think it is.
It's still enjoyable to them and nothing to be shamed for. Loads of women suffer stress incontinence even when they aren't having sex."
I am not trying to kink shame anyone here, I’m trying to explain the severity of what we’re dealing with here and why it amazes me that people don’t take such problem as serious as it is. I didn’t want to go into much technical detail (even though I am a healthcare professional and know a thing or two about prolapses) bur KC has explained much better than I could and from first hand experiences.
That huge amount of liquid that comes from the urethra is simply and plainly wee, not harmful in the slightest. Ejaculation fluid comes from glands and are mixed with urine before being “squirted” what is not safe is some of the practices that are used to make a woman squirt. |
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^^^Forcing liquid out of the urethra when it is not "ready" to come out, requires forceful downward movement of the pelvic floor, a bit like the Valsalva manoeuvre. It risks over stretching the tissues and muscles over time, risking severe prolapse or failure of the sphincter muscles (which cannot be repaired or alleviated).
Involuntary incontinence might be distressing to some. It might not to others. |
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My take on this and I may sound a bit of a bore, is one of a little sadness in how a kink such as this came about. The people doing the 'showing' are presumably doing it willingly, but are they only doing it because someone somewhere once said it was sexy and they realise they can get some attention from it, from what is surely more of a medical emergency than an erotic encounter. There has always been a fascination and a marvel at looking at what bodies can do and the shock factor, but I dont know, it hints at exploitation and skewed thought processes and just generally not being a good idea. I wont go down the route of is a lot of bdsm/kinky sex just self harm in disguise? |
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Prolapsing is not something that I find horny but I realise that some couples do derive pleasure from it. What I find more shocking is the number of judgmental people who seem to think that whatever sexual activity they are into is great but anything they are not into is disgusting or perverted. For a forum of sexually open people this condemnation is probably very similar to the condemnation they would get if their friends, family co-workers and neighbours found out they were actively involved in a swingers site. C'mon people, nobody is asking you to get involved so if you dont like a topic leave the thread. The judgy stuff is bordering on bullying |
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By *essTTWoman 15 weeks ago
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"Prolapsing is not something that I find horny but I realise that some couples do derive pleasure from it. What I find more shocking is the number of judgmental people who seem to think that whatever sexual activity they are into is great but anything they are not into is disgusting or perverted. For a forum of sexually open people this condemnation is probably very similar to the condemnation they would get if their friends, family co-workers and neighbours found out they were actively involved in a swingers site. C'mon people, nobody is asking you to get involved so if you dont like a topic leave the thread. The judgy stuff is bordering on bullying"
Prolapsed are a massive medical problem and can cause a whole host of other issues.
Usually needs extensive surgery to fix and in some cases it can't be fixed.
Not a 'kink' that should be glorified. |
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"Prolapsing is not something that I find horny but I realise that some couples do derive pleasure from it. What I find more shocking is the number of judgmental people who seem to think that whatever sexual activity they are into is great but anything they are not into is disgusting or perverted. For a forum of sexually open people this condemnation is probably very similar to the condemnation they would get if their friends, family co-workers and neighbours found out they were actively involved in a swingers site. C'mon people, nobody is asking you to get involved so if you dont like a topic leave the thread. The judgy stuff is bordering on bullying
Prolapsed are a massive medical problem and can cause a whole host of other issues.
Usually needs extensive surgery to fix and in some cases it can't be fixed.
Not a 'kink' that should be glorified."
Well said. |
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"I've seen a few educational films by a porn star called Dirty Garden Girl who takes great joy in turning her arse inside out.
There's something for everyone on this planet, it must be said. "
About as attractive as an autopsy to me. |
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