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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they sent a well worded message, didn't include a photo of their cock or were just generally complimentary.
That and I feel bad if I don't.
Mrs "
I’m with you on all of that. If it’s got the right tone then even if the person/people are not for us then I feel really bad not to reply. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s a well worded message, they include a face pic, it’s clear that they have read my profile, and if they are local enough, and I like the look of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they sent a well worded message, didn't include a photo of their cock or were just generally complimentary.
That and I feel bad if I don't.
Mrs
I’m with you on all of that. If it’s got the right tone then even if the person/people are not for us then I feel really bad not to reply. x "
Can I ask why? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
If someone has a profile that I find interesting I will reply I look at a profile before I answer any message on here.
If they have read my profile and you can tell from the message.
If it's a nice or a message I find interesting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will always reply to anyone who gets my attention with being engaging. It’s that simple.
Disclaimer- A reply does not indicate I want to sleep with them… unless they’re hot and sexy, and then I probably do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you make me laugh.
If I fancy you.
If your message was something a little bit different.
If I like you.
If I am feeling argumentative. X
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All of the above AND their username is not off-putting and photos are interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's such a positive twist OP.
Because they came across tactile, witty and genuinely interested in person rather than a body or set of mutual interests.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will always reply to anyone who gets my attention with being engaging. It’s that simple.
Disclaimer- A reply does not indicate I want to sleep with them… unless they’re hot and sexy, and then I probably do.
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Sorry. Just realised. I’m not a woman and I replied to this thread. Sorry op.   |
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I will reply to a well worded message if:
Its funny
They take the time to read my profile
They may be friends with people I have met before
I also reply if they message me without reading my profile, especially the part where I say I am not bi & have no interest in your other half's pussy & no she won't help me change my mind
Lmp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always reply even if it's just to say no thank you x"
See that’s lovely and although I’ve never messaged you I’m going to say thank you. It’s so much better than being left hanging. For people with bad self confidence like me a No is usually better than just being ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will always reply to anyone who gets my attention with being engaging. It’s that simple.
Disclaimer- A reply does not indicate I want to sleep with them… unless they’re hot and sexy, and then I probably do.
Sorry. Just realised. I’m not a woman and I replied to this thread. Sorry op. "
It was noted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf there aren't many I don't reply too. A well constructed message with something personal to me always gets a reply with or without face pics, because I'm not superficial, personality and humour are just as important and make up the whole package.
I just think if someone has made an effort then it's nice to be nice, chatting doesn't mean it will lead anywhere and I don't assume that guys who message automatically want to fuck me. Like me they are gauging and interacting. |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
I am in the process of noting down all the points raised and putting the data into my spreadsheet and formatting the perfect message template 
OK I’m not
I always try to address a profile and pertinent points
I try to be original and add some humour as well.
Then they look at my profile where I don’t hide who I am, if there’s anything there I like to think I can hold s conversation on more than I what I’d like to do to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically be hot and funny and you'll be fine. 
Why do you talk to me then, amigo?!  "
She says that with a straight face showing that black velvet cleavage!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was meeting:
- Making me laugh
- A face pic attached that attracted me as much as the body.
- Being articulate
- Being polite/a gentleman
Now I’m not meeting:
- A friend from the forums
- A forum game
That’s pretty much it. |
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For me can be for several reasons, but usually I check the following:
They read my profile and the message doesn’t have questions that are already answered there
It’s unassuming and sweet
Lives within a reasonable distance (15-20 miles max)
Has pics, both full body and cock - yes I’m here for a reason and like to see the goods 
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"If you make me laugh.
If I fancy you.
If your message was something a little bit different.
If I like you.
If I am feeling argumentative. X
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Shame I only scored on the last point, but a win is a win |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot "
So you could be missing out on great people because of spelling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot
So you could be missing out on great people because of spelling "
Your status made me laugh , that's the kind of thing that makes me reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot
So you could be missing out on great people because of spelling
Your status made me laugh , that's the kind of thing that makes me reply. "
thank you |
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"I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot
So you could be missing out on great people because of spelling "
I always keep in mind that spelling and grammar may be a barrier to some people. However, if it’s lazy spelling such as “plz” or “wuu2” I will instantly delete |
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"The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
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As you stated if they have read our profile and understand what we are looking for and they are exactly that we always reply. But to be fair we have had quite a few straight cpls message us lately who clearly had not read our profile at all. Jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do tend to see alot of lovely ladies talk about well written messages and great grammar and spelling, however I'm dyslexic as hell but without blowing my own trumpet I'm a hoot and I did mean hoot and not hot
So you could be missing out on great people because of spelling
I always keep in mind that spelling and grammar may be a barrier to some people. However, if it’s lazy spelling such as “plz” or “wuu2” I will instantly delete "
that makes sense |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I read their profile before I read their message. If it piques my interest I'll reply if their message also interests me.
An interesting profile will have either decent text or interesting/witty pictures, or the holy grail of both.
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
If they have read my profile; are polite and have made an effort to write something personal that isn't a cut and shunt I will always try to reply - even if it is my standard 'thanks but no thanks'. Profiles that catch my eye also have decent pics; don't have a truckload of BB pics unless they are a couple; provided a face pic; are physically attractive to me; have a well written (ideally humerus) bio and great veris. It can be hard to sort the wheat from the chaff due to volume of messages that just aren't worthy of a response. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've read them on the fora.
I'm bored/horny/touched by the sincerity of the message.
They seem to have something about them that makes me think, actually, you're my sort of person. I want to find out more about you. Not even in a sexual way, just as a person.
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"The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
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Basically the same reasons here. If a single guy messages and it makes me laugh, he’s defo getting a reply!
C x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
Basically the same reasons here. If a single guy messages and it makes me laugh, he’s defo getting a reply!
C x"
But in advertising that we sometimes then get ‘knock knock’ jokes! lol! |
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"The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
Basically the same reasons here. If a single guy messages and it makes me laugh, he’s defo getting a reply!
C x
But in advertising that we sometimes then get ‘knock knock’ jokes! lol! "
Lol |
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"Because they sent a well worded message, didn't include a photo of their cock or were just generally complimentary.
That and I feel bad if I don't.
Mrs
I’m with you on all of that. If it’s got the right tone then even if the person/people are not for us then I feel really bad not to reply. x
Can I ask why?"
For me I'm too soft it just feels not polite although I'm becoming a lot tougher, the Mr's teaching me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they sent a well worded message, didn't include a photo of their cock or were just generally complimentary.
That and I feel bad if I don't.
Mrs
I’m with you on all of that. If it’s got the right tone then even if the person/people are not for us then I feel really bad not to reply. x
Can I ask why?
For me I'm too soft it just feels not polite although I'm becoming a lot tougher, the Mr's teaching me "
I was like that, but I’ve learnt that I have to priority myself. I started with not apologising for taking up space, in places I was entitled to be, it’s a similar thing for me |
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"The why DON’T you reply made me think of reasons that I do reply. They’re not just the opposite of why I don’t so thought it might be a useful post.
- 100% if the person makes me laugh
- Definitely if they have clearly made an effort reading our profile
- Usually if they’re talking to both of us
- 100% if I/we are instantly attracted to the person’s pics
- Definitely if displayed veris show someone we have met and had a successful social (or more) with
- Always when I’ve put up a status with a time slot on that I’ll reply to all messages.
- From time to time when I’m on the wind up and it’s an obvious fake.
Basically the same reasons here. If a single guy messages and it makes me laugh, he’s defo getting a reply!
C x
But in advertising that we sometimes then get ‘knock knock’ jokes! lol! "
I’m use to a good dad joke anyway haha!
C x |
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