FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Thoughts on pegging?
Thoughts on pegging?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).
So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?
And for the ladies, what do you like about it?
Thanks! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"My hips don't lie when they recoil in horror at thrusting 
I prefer to hand peg him"
Can’t say I’ve tried either haha
What do you get out of hand pegging someone is it more the power play that you enjoy or that you’re pleasing someone else? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love it, but I don't think pegging is an inherently D/s thing. It's just a sex act unless you put a dynamic into it."
agreed. And it that energy can be either D or s.
Imo, it's one of the more over analysed sex act. It doesnt make you gay nor sub. Just lube up, and enjoy!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"agreed. And it that energy can be either D or s.
Imo, it's one of the more over analysed sex act. It doesnt make you gay nor sub. Just lube up, and enjoy! "
For sure! I love playing with a good power bottom but they're a rare find haha.
Totally agree, and that's exactly where the stigma comes from - butt stuff isn't gay y'all, it's just really really fun. And gives incredible leg-trembling orgasms |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
……so…….
Done this twice. The first time was the ‘Cani/should I/would I scenario. It was, different. And certainly not a power play or exchange from me. Maybe she got off on having control, but I didn’t so much. Because it was me that wanted to try it.
The second time… the feeling of a climax from something like that was, different and not easy to forget. For anyone thinking about it, do it, it’s sex and if your into experimenting with new sex, you might enjoy it also.
*and a sexy chic with a cock looks hot.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Okay more information than I thought I’d get! Thanks everyone think I’m tempted to dip my toe in atleast!
so follow up question for those that have tried it. How did you bring it up with your partner? Was there much convincing or were they into it too? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Would love to try it, but not sure it would stay “in the bedroom” with the mrs, which puts me off. Would distort the ‘normal’ relationship. Couldn’t be doing with “it’s your turn to do the washing “ “no it isn’t” “you take a 9” dildo up your arse once every fourth Thursday, do the washing bitch” |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Ultimately, imho, for a guy it’s the power and role reversal / exchange which is awesome in terms of mental headspace… let alone the physical pleasures.
It’s a popular request for my wife from guys messaging - and perhaps one day we will.
Otherwise, wife Domming another woman is high on the to do list … but I guess that’s slightly off topic
Obviously it can get even more Domme should a woman be in to it , but it’s rare from my experience.
;-)
But be sure to get a good lube and don’t let one’s eyes get bigger than ones arse
Which is rather easy haha
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Done quite a bit of pegging over the years, sometimes from a BDSM perspective, which focussed more on power exchange, control, objectification/ humiliation etc.
Sometimes cross-dressed in my male persona. Orpheus is a dirty little sod who loves fucking guys. 
Also done it as part of swinging, when I want to play with both partners and recently started doing it with my lover. The look in his eyes as he loses control is one of the hottest things I've seen, and it makes him cum like a fountain. 
So many, many reasons why I love it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I absolutely love it with the right partner. The power exchange can be eye opening along with the sensations that are given to you especially if they have complete control and you cannot play. Need to find a new partner for pegging for sure |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Okay more information than I thought I’d get! Thanks everyone think I’m tempted to dip my toe in atleast!
so follow up question for those that have tried it. How did you bring it up with your partner? Was there much convincing or were they into it too?"
Mmmmm. You are really very flexible then!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
For us, it's a mixture of both. When you are both into it, it feels amazing. Lots of kissing makes it a very sensual experience. And as others have said, you cum like a fountain. But we also enjoy the power play side of it. Love it when she gets close to an orgasm, and really goes for it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Have a sexy hot bearded/ tattooed guy that's generally in control bend over for me?
Name me something hotter!!!
Well actually I could but it's maybe a tad early for such debauchery.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).
So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?
And for the ladies, what do you like about it?
Thanks!"
Fwiw pegging isn’t inherently dominant or submissive, no act is. You can be dominant while being penetrated. It’s not that case that women are always being submissive when they’re being penetrated, so the same can be for men; for example a dominant man can order a submissive to peg him.
Personally I like topping/penetrating someone because they enjoy it. Also I’m genderfluid and topping someone helps me feel more masculine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Have a sexy hot bearded/ tattooed guy that's generally in control bend over for me?
Name me something hotter!!!
Well actually I could but it's maybe a tad early for such debauchery.
"
Hello you again  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Whenever I hear this word I always imagine a cock with loads of washing line pegs on it hahaha "
That's the alternative...
Yes, it's a power thing or the role reversal, but it can be more than that with the right person. Depends on the dynamic really. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I was a scout leader for years, on camps we’d play a game where we see how many pegs we can put someone until they noticed. It’s was called pegging and when you realised you say “I’ve been pegged.”
I was mortified when I found out there was something else called pegging!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I absolutely love it! N has to be in the right mood as it is a more sub role than he prefers but it gets me so turned on, it makes me feel powerful. We have a strap on which has two ends so one end goes inside my pussy while I’m fucking him and it feels so good!
C x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's one of my favourite things to do, especially with a vocal partner. Seeing and hearing the pleasure it gives is fantastic."
Shame more women ain't like you and open minded.. pegging is fun.. good for you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I absolutely love it! N has to be in the right mood as it is a more sub role than he prefers but it gets me so turned on, it makes me feel powerful. We have a strap on which has two ends so one end goes inside my pussy while I’m fucking him and it feels so good!
C x"
what an Amazing couple and what a lucky guy to have you in his life.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Always been more dominant in the bedroom, so never tried it but have wondered when it comes up in conversation (usually in a joke).
So for the fellas, what does it feel like? Do you like the feeling or purely the power play? Can you compare it to anything?
And for the ladies, what do you like about it?
Thanks!"
Well...for me it's very sensual for some reason. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Its something i am very intrigued by. not a dominance thing either for me just another chance to see a man enjoying himself.
Unfortunately going anywhere near inkeds lil starfish would probably earn me a bop to the nose lol
(Mrs) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Its something i am very intrigued by. not a dominance thing either for me just another chance to see a man enjoying himself.
Unfortunately going anywhere near inkeds lil starfish would probably earn me a bop to the nose lol
(Mrs) "
Forgot to add i would really love to use a strap on on a lady also...
(Mrs) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Never actually tried it though personally...
