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over a year ago
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There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
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Well, he sounds like a right twat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
Well, he sounds like a right twat "
Only took me 13 years to realise that. Emotional abuse fucks you up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
Well, he sounds like a right twat
Only took me 13 years to realise that. Emotional abuse fucks you up. "
I really hope you've met enough decent people since then to know he was a bag of shit, that is awful x |
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
Well, he sounds like a right twat
Only took me 13 years to realise that. Emotional abuse fucks you up. "
Quite. You don't realise until afterwards though  |
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
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I dearly hope the Karma Train crashes through his living room - the utter cnut!! |
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
"The most painful, hurtful thing an ex has ever said to you? x"
Had a big conversation just after the break-up where they told me they lied about almost everything I asked them to be honest about while we were together. It's painful to watch someone blankly admitt all that with no regret or apology yet still persist you were the reason the relationship ended and you werent good enough for them.
We Live and Learn dont we |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he gave me a list of my inadequacies that were apparently the reasons he cheated on me. I know he was just trying to shift the blame but I still have hang ups about some of them now. "
Oh sweetie that’s awful. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When he gave me a list of my inadequacies that were apparently the reasons he cheated on me. I know he was just trying to shift the blame but I still have hang ups about some of them now. "
Same as my ex husband, all the reasons why he cheated on me. Just to tell everyone I was the one leaving and cheating on him once I met another person.
Another ex felt the need to tell me All the reasons why I wasn’t good enough to have a public relationship with me (he forgot to include the main one though: another woman)
List can go on and on… |
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
Well, he sounds like a right twat
Only took me 13 years to realise that. Emotional abuse fucks you up.
I really hope you've met enough decent people since then to know he was a bag of shit, that is awful x"
Well shot of him sound like a right cunt |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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You were in the gutter and nothing when I met you without me you wouldn’t be where you are.
And
You’ve outgrown my intelligence, where can I get another 27 year old? I was 27 when I met him. He was 18 yrs my senior.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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My kids dad told me that I’d ruined his life by having his kids. He also told me, when I had not long had a miscarriage, that I was cold hearted, and left me stranded in the rain, crying, in an unfamiliar town.
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"My kids dad told me that I’d ruined his life by having his kids. He also told me, when I had not long had a miscarriage, that I was cold hearted, and left me stranded in the rain, crying, in an unfamiliar town.
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"When he gave me a list of my inadequacies that were apparently the reasons he cheated on me. I know he was just trying to shift the blame but I still have hang ups about some of them now.
Oh sweetie that’s awful. X"
It is what it is. He's since harrassed me for 6 years saying he misses me. The contact has been entirely one way since a few months after we broke up. Some people are just a head fuck. |
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"When he gave me a list of my inadequacies that were apparently the reasons he cheated on me. I know he was just trying to shift the blame but I still have hang ups about some of them now.
Same as my ex husband, all the reasons why he cheated on me. Just to tell everyone I was the one leaving and cheating on him once I met another person.
Another ex felt the need to tell me All the reasons why I wasn’t good enough to have a public relationship with me (he forgot to include the main one though: another woman)
List can go on and on…"
Yep same here. He started telling my friends I cheated on him and that was the final straw for me and I've never spoken to him since. I'm sorry you went through that too. |
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"When he gave me a list of my inadequacies that were apparently the reasons he cheated on me. I know he was just trying to shift the blame but I still have hang ups about some of them now.
Oh sweetie that’s awful. X
It is what it is. He's since harrassed me for 6 years saying he misses me. The contact has been entirely one way since a few months after we broke up. Some people are just a head fuck. "
Yup, my other ex partner has been gaslighting me and mentally abusing me for the las 7 years when we weren’t even in a relationship anymore… people is sometimes the worst
Honestly sorry you’ve gone through similar things, happy for you to dm if you ever need to talk x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This should be called list of knobheads who don’t deserve oxygen, my ex still gets on with me as I was an adult about it all, paid maintenance on time, always saw my kids, made sure she had enough money for Xmas etc cos that’s what adults do, I don’t regret anything, my kids are fucking awesome but there are some real twats out there, I got lucky |
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"When I was pregnant with our daughter: ‘you know I’ll never touch you like that, it makes me sick’
He was a real charmer
I don't get it. You create something together and then he says that "
Yes, but in his defence, he did say further down the line ‘you don’t look as bad as I thought you would’
 that was a compliment from him!! |
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"When I was pregnant with our daughter: ‘you know I’ll never touch you like that, it makes me sick’
He was a real charmer
I don't get it. You create something together and then he says that
Yes, but in his defence, he did say further down the line ‘you don’t look as bad as I thought you would’
that was a compliment from him!! "
He obviously had myopia. Never mind your fella appreciates you, and so do us admirers from afar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one? "
The thing with my ex is, she doesn’t know the throw away comments or the things she thinks isn’t important are the ones that hurt the most.
But I’m sure I’ve done the same, this is why I keep my mouth shut when we talk now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That she had finally broke her toy
That I was so ugly that I will be lonely for the rest off my life
That no one will have me
The words still ring in my head 10 years later |
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"There are a couple that will always stand out in my mind.
“When I imagine you, I imagine the fit girl I fell in love with. So when I see you now I’m disappointed.”
“We’re not getting married until you’re skinny enough to look good in a wedding dress.”
“It’s hard to love someone who cries all the time.” (I was badly depressed)
Well, he sounds like a right twat
Only took me 13 years to realise that. Emotional abuse fucks you up. "
I hope he went on to have the lovely he obviously deserved. A very very short one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sad to read and see how people can be so cruel to those they once loved .
Hope you all have recovered from the hurt with no long term effects xx "
For me unfortunately no, I am still recovering and suffering from PTSD |
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That I was a crap mum.
That I was fat and useless
That noone will want me so I may as well just deal with his cheating.
When I had an accident and fractured my shoulders and injured my leg on a day out how my fat useless ass always spoils everything for him.
I could go on and on....
Tg x |
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"That I was a crap mum.
That I was fat and useless
That noone will want me so I may as well just deal with his cheating.
When I had an accident and fractured my shoulders and injured my leg on a day out how my fat useless ass always spoils everything for him.
I could go on and on....
Tg x"
Nice curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The most painful, hurtful thing an ex has ever said to you? x"
Lots of things I won't repeat cause I'm easily triggered
Also I don't want anyone to tell me off for staying with him even after he had said some horrendous things to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The most painful, hurtful thing an ex has ever said to you? x
Lots of things I won't repeat cause I'm easily triggered
Also I don't want anyone to tell me off for staying with him even after he had said some horrendous things to me "
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"The most painful, hurtful thing an ex has ever said to you? x
Lots of things I won't repeat cause I'm easily triggered
Also I don't want anyone to tell me off for staying with him even after he had said some horrendous things to me "
I did the same stayed far too long than I should have, no judgement here
Tg x |
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When finally I decided to leave the abusive relationship after 10 years, he told me I was so useless, fat and ugly nobody would ever want to be with me.
The most hurtful part is, after 5 years I can’t stop thinking about what if he was right. |
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"When finally I decided to leave the abusive relationship after 10 years, he told me I was so useless, fat and ugly nobody would ever want to be with me.
The most hurtful part is, after 5 years I can’t stop thinking about what if he was right."
He was wrong. What a smeg stain he was. Gorgeous bod |
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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I was in a toxic relationship and I’m not proud of it but I said some awful things in retaliation to her outbursts towards me
I moved out eventually but was still seeing her for sake of her children!
Knowing she was inviting round random guys whilst I wasn’t there
Our parting argument was she told me I would be alone because I was a fat ugly skint c@£t and she was going to sleep with my brother and mates
Cut a long story short I slept with what she thought was her bff
Her bff didn’t like her much either
20 years I was with the bff
I’ve not seen or spoken since the day she slammed the door as I left
But believe she has 5 children now all by different guys 3 failed marriages and lives alone as not even her kids want anything to do with her
There are some people who don’t deserve to be loved and some who get caught in the crossfire
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"When finally I decided to leave the abusive relationship after 10 years, he told me I was so useless, fat and ugly nobody would ever want to be with me.
The most hurtful part is, after 5 years I can’t stop thinking about what if he was right.
He was wrong. What a smeg stain he was. Gorgeous bod "
Thank you x |
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"When finally I decided to leave the abusive relationship after 10 years, he told me I was so useless, fat and ugly nobody would ever want to be with me.
The most hurtful part is, after 5 years I can’t stop thinking about what if he was right.
He was wrong. What a smeg stain he was. Gorgeous bod
Thank you x"
He is very definitely wrong. X |
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"When finally I decided to leave the abusive relationship after 10 years, he told me I was so useless, fat and ugly nobody would ever want to be with me.
The most hurtful part is, after 5 years I can’t stop thinking about what if he was right.
He was wrong. What a smeg stain he was. Gorgeous bod
Thank you x
He is very definitely wrong. X"
Thank you my lovely x |
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I was told “I don’t think I ever loved you. I just loved this lifestyle.” After 10 years, three of them married.
Y’know what was more hurtful though? Finding out later that she’d been bullying my female workmates. Never forgave her for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sad to read and see how people can be so cruel to those they once loved .
Hope you all have recovered from the hurt with no long term effects xx "
I’ll let you know when I finish c-ptsd therapy and get my eating disorder under control  |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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"Sad to read and see how people can be so cruel to those they once loved .
Hope you all have recovered from the hurt with no long term effects xx
I’ll let you know when I finish c-ptsd therapy and get my eating disorder under control "
Hope you’ll find a decent man that will look after you, and hope all your issues will be sorted out soon Xxx hugs and kisses xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this sums up perfectly why we always need to remember what we might consider just words, or an outburst or banter can have serious effects on others. Whilst we are not responsible for how others respond and react we are responsible for what we say. |
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