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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From random 1st messages I say thank you but don't take much notice. From someone I've chatted to, means something to me, had a wonderful compliment from a friend on here yesterday, nothing sexual btw and it meant the world to me and uplifted me after a tough day  |
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With a pinch of salt, I've had compliments in the past that I thought were meaningful and meant but in reality I don't think they meant them and were just said because they didn't want to say the opposite 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see compliments as empty things 9 times out of 10. Unless it comes from someone who really knows me, I see it as an attempt to butter me up, which annoys me. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes get them from men 100s of miles away or from straight women just complimenting me on my profile and saying they want nothing in return....those messages always put a smile on my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh, very rarely, sometimes it does feel genuine but I dunno, I am very dubious on here. I've been foolish enough to believe it after spending time getting to know someone and then surprised when I have found out they gave the exact same compliment to another word for word. 
But that's just on here. I feel like compliments in person are a lot more meaningful, especially from people who know me well. |
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"Eh, very rarely, sometimes it does feel genuine but I dunno, I am very dubious on here. I've been foolish enough to believe it after spending time getting to know someone and then surprised when I have found out they gave the exact same compliment to another word for word.
But that's just on here. I feel like compliments in person are a lot more meaningful, especially from people who know me well."
I like the way you've structured this response, excellent use of paragraphs, can you come over so I can vape into your bumhole?
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Eh, very rarely, sometimes it does feel genuine but I dunno, I am very dubious on here. I've been foolish enough to believe it after spending time getting to know someone and then surprised when I have found out they gave the exact same compliment to another word for word.
But that's just on here. I feel like compliments in person are a lot more meaningful, especially from people who know me well.
I like the way you've structured this response, excellent use of paragraphs, can you come over so I can vape into your bumhole?
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Now that's the perfect compliment.
A little bit of positive feedback and no attempt to blow any smoke.
9.5/10
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who it’s from. As someone else said if it’s from other women it tends to feel more meaningful, I don’t know why. If it’s from other men I take it with a pinch of salt but I always thank them anyway. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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On Fab I take any compliment as simply words, almost a conversation starter, it doesn’t really mean anything.
A bit like Lemon said, it can be very off putting when you realise the same (individual) compliment has been given to others - and let’s be honest, people talk so it’s not difficult to find that stuff out |
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If I find something that I like in a profile, such decent photos, something that has made me laugh in their text. I will send a compliment message, but I expect nothing in return.
As I normally state that I am not after anything in the message. |
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I tend not to bother messaging people with compliments. They don't need to know I think they're pretty or that I love their outfits. I'm just a random guy online it will be meaningless to them.
If I've got something real to say (which is basically never) I'll take a shot and send a message, likely with a compliment attached. |
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You gotta harness in the good energy, block out the bad. Harness. Energy. Block. Bad. Feel the flow. Feel it. It's circular. It's like a carousel. You pay the quarter, you get on the horse, it goes up and down, and AROUND. It's circular. Circle, with the music, the flow. All good things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind but no longer actively seeking that complimentary attention through fab words. Its easy to assume none of them could be genuine and it's just a part of getting you to bed them, but I don't think that's always the case. So I am keeping a little faith. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, very rarely, sometimes it does feel genuine but I dunno, I am very dubious on here. I've been foolish enough to believe it after spending time getting to know someone and then surprised when I have found out they gave the exact same compliment to another word for word.
But that's just on here. I feel like compliments in person are a lot more meaningful, especially from people who know me well.
I like the way you've structured this response, excellent use of paragraphs, can you come over so I can vape into your bumhole?
Now that's the perfect compliment.
A little bit of positive feedback and no attempt to blow any smoke.
9.5/10
A"
no smoke. Just water vapour.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a double edged sword then isn't it?
If you say something nice you are after something - but surely that's why we advertise ourselves because we are also after something?
I would have thought the importance assigned to a compliment should reflect the level of effort applied. ie if it's a phwoar look at the amazing tits on her type then yeah you've got a point. If someone has read through your profile, picked something they really liked about it and specifically gone out of their way to pass positive comments on them why would you view that negatively?
I would pass comment on _nightsofthecoffeetable for instance saying that their photos are awesome and I'm actually envious of the artistic talent in them. Would I like to spend some time naked with them? Absolutely who wouldn't? Millions of miles away so never gonna happen even if we did have better more attractive pictures. Does that make the compliment less valid?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is interesting cause I love a compliment! But also I probably get a shit load less than almost every women on here 
By the nature of messaging someone on fab, surely it's because you have taken notice of their profile in a positive way anyway?
Well aside from the couple that message me 'no' all the time despite the fact I never messaged them and the woman that told me I was too fat for her who again, I never messaged |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is interesting cause I love a compliment! But also I probably get a shit load less than almost every women on here
By the nature of messaging someone on fab, surely it's because you have taken notice of their profile in a positive way anyway?
Well aside from the couple that message me 'no' all the time despite the fact I never messaged them and the woman that told me I was too fat for her who again, I never messaged "
I'm not sure which school of compliments you went to but generally speaking I'm fairly sure being called too fat is not usually considered complimentary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do from people who know me....
From random strangers on a "swingers site" where most are just looking for a fuck.....no "
But you are also here looking for sexual escapades no? And should I want to invest time searching I'm sure I'd find some  on one of the torso or great bod threads on this forum you have contributed? Or not?
A compliment is a free gift, accept it, smile and if you don't want to then don't do anything more with it. |
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"It's a double edged sword then isn't it?
If you say something nice you are after something - but surely that's why we advertise ourselves because we are also after something?
I would have thought the importance assigned to a compliment should reflect the level of effort applied. ie if it's a phwoar look at the amazing tits on her type then yeah you've got a point. If someone has read through your profile, picked something they really liked about it and specifically gone out of their way to pass positive comments on them why would you view that negatively?
I would pass comment on _nightsofthecoffeetable for instance saying that their photos are awesome and I'm actually envious of the artistic talent in them. Would I like to spend some time naked with them? Absolutely who wouldn't? Millions of miles away so never gonna happen even if we did have better more attractive pictures. Does that make the compliment less valid??"
Fully agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is interesting cause I love a compliment! But also I probably get a shit load less than almost every women on here
By the nature of messaging someone on fab, surely it's because you have taken notice of their profile in a positive way anyway?
Well aside from the couple that message me 'no' all the time despite the fact I never messaged them and the woman that told me I was too fat for her who again, I never messaged
I'm not sure which school of compliments you went to but generally speaking I'm fairly sure being called too fat is not usually considered complimentary "
No that's my point, I think of every message as complimentary but those particular 2 accounts I've received those from haha. But to be honest I did find them funny |
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"I do from people who know me....
From random strangers on a "swingers site" where most are just looking for a fuck.....no
But you are also here looking for sexual escapades no? And should I want to invest time searching I'm sure I'd find some on one of the torso or great bod threads on this forum you have contributed? Or not?
A compliment is a free gift, accept it, smile and if you don't want to then don't do anything more with it."
The OP asked how us ladies felt about receiving compliments...that was my reply. How others may receive any I give to them, is their perception. |
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You're the most beautiful woman walking the planet..... until you reject the advances of said compliment giver and then you instantly change to an up your own arse fat cunt of a walrus who should know their place.
Specific compliments are different, they can be taken as given. |
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I love getting compliments on here, but they almost always come from people I know and trust. But I'm sure, like so many things, it's on a different scale for women.
Besides, no one who doesn't already know me is trying to get me in bed, so there's some trust there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do from people who know me....
From random strangers on a "swingers site" where most are just looking for a fuck.....no
But you are also here looking for sexual escapades no? And should I want to invest time searching I'm sure I'd find some on one of the torso or great bod threads on this forum you have contributed? Or not?
A compliment is a free gift, accept it, smile and if you don't want to then don't do anything more with it.
The OP asked how us ladies felt about receiving compliments...that was my reply. How others may receive any I give to them, is their perception."
I get it 
Trying to sway you over to the mega happy side. I'm cheerful for no reason - a compliment makes me unbearably happy |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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It depends whom has sent it.
From a Female, it's probably genuine.
From a TGirl, it's probably genuine.
From a single male, they probably have an agenda.
From a couple, try to work out which one has sent it and then see above.
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"You gotta harness in the good energy, block out the bad. Harness. Energy. Block. Bad. Feel the flow. Feel it. It's circular. It's like a carousel. You pay the quarter, you get on the horse, it goes up and down, and AROUND. It's circular. Circle, with the music, the flow. All good things."
Someone once told me, time is a flat circle. Everything we’ve ever done or will do, we’re gonna do over and over and over again.
And every compliment we ever give, that person’s gonna hear the same thing over and over and over again from a hundred other guys on Fab. It doesn’t make your compliment any less honest and true, but you gotta respect the recipient’s inbox. That inbox is flooding over with love from Internet strangers in their infinite flat circle. But give that compliment anyway because the world loves your good energy. |
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"You're the most beautiful woman walking the planet..... until you reject the advances of said compliment giver and then you instantly change to an up your own arse fat cunt of a walrus who should know their place.
Specific compliments are different, they can be taken as given. "
This as well! This week I was best thing since sliced bread! A polite no ty from me turned into only asked cos ur old felt sorry for u and I expect u b dead by next week anyway! Made me lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem accepting a compliment on here. I am fully aware that compliments vary for their truthfulness and meaning, and I accept them without psychoanalysis.
The compliments that matter most to me are from people that I love and those connected to me in my real life.
NBVN x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies do you take a compliment well or are you just suspicious that the giver has an agenda and is just blowing smoke up your arse? "
If a couple message with complimentary words I usually take it with a pinch of salt but I've found when women message, I tend to actually take it as a compliment |
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I've made complimentary remarks in my messages in the past, mainly as an avenue to start a conversation and because I genuinely mean them. Sadly, I rarely get such compliments reciprocated, but I don't take it to heart too much. Nonetheless, it would be lovely, as a male, to get the occasional compliment from a sexy lady or couple, just to put a smile on my face when I'm feeling a bit down and despondent |
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"It's a double edged sword then isn't it?
If you say something nice you are after something - but surely that's why we advertise ourselves because we are also after something?
I would have thought the importance assigned to a compliment should reflect the level of effort applied. ie if it's a phwoar look at the amazing tits on her type then yeah you've got a point. If someone has read through your profile, picked something they really liked about it and specifically gone out of their way to pass positive comments on them why would you view that negatively?
I would pass comment on _nightsofthecoffeetable for instance saying that their photos are awesome and I'm actually envious of the artistic talent in them. Would I like to spend some time naked with them? Absolutely who wouldn't? Millions of miles away so never gonna happen even if we did have better more attractive pictures. Does that make the compliment less valid??"
Thank you, I don't think the compliment would be any less valid, I'm pleased you like our profile, you guys have great pics too it's always good to see both parties in the photos, slightly envious of the good boobs!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!' |
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!' "
For me it's when that agenda is sex. Doesn't matter to them who with, just sex. I'd rather they just wrote "you have a hole, I want to put my dick in a hole" and that be that, don't fluff it with things they don't mean for clout or to make the recipient think otherwise. |
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!' "
I wholeheartedly agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can graciously accept a compliment but I get embarrassed 
Mr is still waiting for someone to tell me I’m a lucky woman though "
I think you're awful and Mr deserves better.
That's what people like this days right? |
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"I can graciously accept a compliment but I get embarrassed
Mr is still waiting for someone to tell me I’m a lucky woman though
I think you're awful and Mr deserves better.
That's what people like this days right? "
Paaahaaaaa have you seen his face though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!' "
By an agenda I think they mean handing out compliments to any Tom , dick and harry in hopes they’ll have sex with them, without being sincere about it. |
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!' "
I haven't saw many saying they don't actively like being compliment. I think most see them as false rather than genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!'
For me it's when that agenda is sex. Doesn't matter to them who with, just sex. I'd rather they just wrote "you have a hole, I want to put my dick in a hole" and that be that, don't fluff it with things they don't mean for clout or to make the recipient think otherwise."
Yeah I get that and maybe we are living in a world where women are over complimented to some degree because alot of men think the more people they compliment the higher chance of vagina. But that is BLEAK.
I compliment a fair few women and some have joked on here I flirt too much BUT it's just a fun innocent flirt and doesn't mean I'm going to actively try anything more. But of course we message women that we find are hot, because we do get positive association if said hot woman responds! We all like being 'wanted' and 'accepted' at the end of the day
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"I can graciously accept a compliment but I get embarrassed
Mr is still waiting for someone to tell me I’m a lucky woman though
I think you're awful and Mr deserves better.
That's what people like this days right?
Paaahaaaaa have you seen his face though "
I've not seen either of your faces but feel free to change that! I would still meet you got a game of Twister anyday! |
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"Doesn't really mean much on here, in person is better."
Yeah, I think that's the difference on here. You can't see the sender's body language or determine their tone of voice, and I think that is what helps distinguish a genuine compliment from a non-genuine one. |
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over a year ago
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"Sparkles you have to that you own a lovely cream tunnel
You've never been in my tunnel so that's a false one "
He can tell by your wholesome creamy personality x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sparkles you have to know that you own a lovely cream tunnel
You've never been in my tunnel so that's a false one "
Well, this one didn’t work, have to change my tactics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sparkles you have to that you own a lovely cream tunnel
You've never been in my tunnel so that's a false one
He can tell by your wholesome creamy personality x"
you deserve a crown |
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!'
For me it's when that agenda is sex. Doesn't matter to them who with, just sex. I'd rather they just wrote "you have a hole, I want to put my dick in a hole" and that be that, don't fluff it with things they don't mean for clout or to make the recipient think otherwise.
Yeah I get that and maybe we are living in a world where women are over complimented to some degree because alot of men think the more people they compliment the higher chance of vagina. But that is BLEAK.
I compliment a fair few women and some have joked on here I flirt too much BUT it's just a fun innocent flirt and doesn't mean I'm going to actively try anything more. But of course we message women that we find are hot, because we do get positive association if said hot woman responds! We all like being 'wanted' and 'accepted' at the end of the day
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Bleak yes, everyday, multiple times a day occurance? Also yes.
Sad but true.
Its like the reverse of what happens in restaurants when people lie about the food being shit to get a freebie. Here they lie in complimentary form. Tell you you have beautiful eyes when in reality they ain't even looked at them, tell you you have a great profile when the reality is they only ever looked at your profile pic and never read a single word. Tell you you're gorgeous when the only photo you have is of your big toe.
After a while it really can interfere with your perception and I don't mean the way a lot of men project on here by saying women think they're goddesses or whatever bullshit they tell themselves, but it leads to not believing genuine compliments, second guessing everything and viewing how others see your worth as non existent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sparkles you have to that you own a lovely cream tunnel
You've never been in my tunnel so that's a false one
He can tell by your wholesome creamy personality x
It's more cheesy than creamy "
Your cream cheese personality then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!'
For me it's when that agenda is sex. Doesn't matter to them who with, just sex. I'd rather they just wrote "you have a hole, I want to put my dick in a hole" and that be that, don't fluff it with things they don't mean for clout or to make the recipient think otherwise.
Yeah I get that and maybe we are living in a world where women are over complimented to some degree because alot of men think the more people they compliment the higher chance of vagina. But that is BLEAK.
I compliment a fair few women and some have joked on here I flirt too much BUT it's just a fun innocent flirt and doesn't mean I'm going to actively try anything more. But of course we message women that we find are hot, because we do get positive association if said hot woman responds! We all like being 'wanted' and 'accepted' at the end of the day
Bleak yes, everyday, multiple times a day occurance? Also yes.
Sad but true.
Its like the reverse of what happens in restaurants when people lie about the food being shit to get a freebie. Here they lie in complimentary form. Tell you you have beautiful eyes when in reality they ain't even looked at them, tell you you have a great profile when the reality is they only ever looked at your profile pic and never read a single word. Tell you you're gorgeous when the only photo you have is of your big toe.
After a while it really can interfere with your perception and I don't mean the way a lot of men project on here by saying women think they're goddesses or whatever bullshit they tell themselves, but it leads to not believing genuine compliments, second guessing everything and viewing how others see your worth as non existent."
Yeah that is bleak and a shame. Cause there are us out there that only compliment when you know, we mean it. But such is life! And I can't help but tell people when I do mean it. I told another poster on this forum she was the best looking woman I had seen on here yet after receiving a face pic and I knew how that would go down but couldn't help myself because I absolutely truly meant it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Context and person is important.
Someone who's profile has lots of verís and profile so v focused on sex: meh.
Someone with a well rounded profile: nice to hear. May be slightly wary still
Someone who has complimented on body (or worse cock): even if genuine, doesn't really resonate deeply. Suspect its part of an agenda to meet (and that's fine btw)
Someone who has complimented on profile or a what I said on a forum post: more likely to be accepted as it feels personal.
A complete random: doesn't mean too much. Wary
Someone I've spoken with, or at least recognise from forums: yeah, that feels good. And taken as genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eh, very rarely, sometimes it does feel genuine but I dunno, I am very dubious on here. I've been foolish enough to believe it after spending time getting to know someone and then surprised when I have found out they gave the exact same compliment to another word for word.
But that's just on here. I feel like compliments in person are a lot more meaningful, especially from people who know me well.
I like the way you've structured this response, excellent use of paragraphs, can you come over so I can vape into your bumhole?
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I feel like you say this to all the girls.
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"I'm curious though, when people are saying they probably have an agenda...so?
Maybe I'm being naive? But a compliment is usually said to make people feel good about themselves and if the person who sent it wants to bang your brains out, does it matter? You don't have to respond and can block if they're being pushy?
I just think it's a sad state of things if people actively don't like being complimented, Jesus the world can be bleak enough and it's only a 'hey, you look or seem great!'
For me it's when that agenda is sex. Doesn't matter to them who with, just sex. I'd rather they just wrote "you have a hole, I want to put my dick in a hole" and that be that, don't fluff it with things they don't mean for clout or to make the recipient think otherwise."
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over a year ago
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"Ladies do you take a compliment well or are you just suspicious that the giver has an agenda and is just blowing smoke up your arse?
Guess it's not just me with "issues" then. "
Who says you have issues? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it’s always nice to get a complement but most mean nothing from guys here when they make it blatantly obvious they’d still wanna fuck even if you looked like shit…
On the other hand, compliment me in person and I don’t know what to do. I blush, get all embarrassed and don’t know what to say.
So I guess I’m just hard work  |
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I often compliment people here on their profile or pics .in most case they are rarely in my area or looking for what I'm looking for most of the time .but cost nothing to be nice to people .some apreciate it and say thanks .most don't but I'll continue doing it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we're chatting yes.
Alot on here seem very copy and paste or guys need better lines.
When it's in person I'll blush through all my layers of makeup and contouring |
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"With a pinch of salt, I've had compliments in the past that I thought were meaningful and meant but in reality I don't think they meant them and were just said because they didn't want to say the opposite
TG x"
Amazing arty photos, enjoyed them lots (take that however you want) xx |
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over a year ago
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I am rubbish at taking any kind of compliment. Stems from a childhood of trauma apparently, so I never believe much good about myself.. Insert tiny violin here... |
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over a year ago
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Only ever given meaningful compliments. I have messaged a couple ladies miles from me to say I loved their profile, one was hilarious and one was funny and clearly very honest. They appreciated it!
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It really depends on who is giving me the compliment.
If it's a first message;I take not much notice. I still remember when I was sorting out my profile.I did not even have a picture up yet and I had about 50 messages al ltelling me how pretty they thought I was  .
If its a compliment from somebody I know well then it means a lot.
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By *m_hardMan
over a year ago
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All compliments are attempts to communicate and rather necessary on Fabs because we don't have the luxury of non-verbal cues like one would rely upon in person.
The response to a compliment says something about the character of the person who received it.
If on your profile all your photos are of private parts and you didn't bother to write much about yourself, don't complain that you only get remarks about the images and nothing else.
I always try to be sincere as I believe most people are not stupid they can feel the truth if you are honest.
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"Compliments on fab don't mean anything.
The only ones I'd actually take are from guys after I've met them, unfortunately I don't get any after !
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awwww I love to give a genuine comment it's just my natural way but understand how they go stale here  |
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over a year ago
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I personally like them.
Without sounding like I'm fishing , I do often lack confidence in myself and was an ugly duckling.
Certainly over the last few years I have gained confidence, but a well worded compliment often puts a smile on my face.
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The ones that matter truly I get every day from Him. This here is just a nice but unexpected or not necessary bonus and being part of the couple I don't need to worry what they intend so much anymore.
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"I see compliments as empty things 9 times out of 10. Unless it comes from someone who really knows me, I see it as an attempt to butter me up, which annoys me. "
Do you view insults in the same way?  |
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