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"Leave the lights on. I hate that look of horror on their face.
Do what I do, give 'em a notebook and pen for their shopping list.  "
They'd only have enough time to write
Milk
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"Leave the lights on. I hate that look of horror on their face.
Do what I do, give 'em a notebook and pen for their shopping list.
They'd only have enough time to write
Milk
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Phew! Short and sweet, leaves time for them to do a couple of small DIY jobs  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Keep changing what they’re doing if I’m clearly enjoying it.
Yes!!! What’s the rush?
I mean if you’re about to get caught out - maybe  "
Yeh, I get that. Like, if your bus stop is coming up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a woman be in such a rush for penetration she filled her self with lube then wanted me to just fuck her with no foreplay prior to penetration.She was very horny and clearly got off on it. |
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"Not come down my throat, I hate it if you worked that hard and they just want to give you a facial"
Tell them!!! Oh, I suppose it’s hard when it’s in your mouth …
*that works a couple ways. |
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"Keep changing what they’re doing if I’m clearly enjoying it.
Yes!!! What’s the rush?
I mean if you’re about to get caught out - maybe
Yeh, I get that. Like, if your bus stop is coming up. "
I was going to say train . Great minds |
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If they have an attacking style of blowjob, where they believe frantic speed and gagging are the key. When they attack my cock like that, it does nothing but kill my boner! Porn style is not always best  |
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"I had a woman be in such a rush for penetration she filled her self with lube then wanted me to just fuck her with no foreplay prior to penetration.She was very horny and clearly got off on it."
You sure it was lube? |
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"It’s not ALWAYS fantastic….
What’s the worst thing that someone does when having sex with you?
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Nothing worse than being told that you're “much smaller” than their ex-partner that cheated on them. I was instantly deflated, in more ways than one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they have an attacking style of blowjob, where they believe frantic speed and gagging are the key. When they attack my cock like that, it does nothing but kill my boner! Porn style is not always best "
It has its place. But I like my cock, I wish they understand that they’ve made me hard, and my cock feels and wants different things.
Porn blow jobs os not the only BJ.  agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s not ALWAYS fantastic….
What’s the worst thing that someone does when having sex with you?
Nothing worse than being told that you're “much smaller” than their ex-partner that cheated on them. I was instantly deflated, in more ways than one "
Wow. That would have me softer than a plush cushion. That’s horrible to say when you’re in the moment.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To answer properly, when its formulaic rather than intuitive, reactive and responsive."
….going…through…the…motions….
And you feel it from head to toe don’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Childish giggling and silly comment.
Not good."
Oh shit. I giggle at the most inappropriate moments during sex *sometimes.
I know this wouldn’t impact you, but when I read this I realised how many times I may have broke her sexy moment.
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"Childish giggling and silly comment.
Not good.
Oh shit. I giggle at the most inappropriate moments during sex *sometimes.
I know this wouldn’t impact you, but when I read this I realised how many times I may have broke her sexy moment.
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Why are you giggling when you have a women to please?
This is serious stuff….it’s not a game of cricket.
Only messing of course - it’s just weird when someone giggles during sex I find. |
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"It’s not ALWAYS fantastic….
What’s the worst thing that someone does when having sex with you?
Nothing worse than being told that you're “much smaller” than their ex-partner that cheated on them. I was instantly deflated, in more ways than one
Wow. That would have me softer than a plush cushion. That’s horrible to say when you’re in the moment. "
Agreed. The annoying thing was that I honestly thought I was average sized in the trouser department and things were going well up until that point, but that single experience left me with lingering doubts ever since  |
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"Oh and the A,B,C's with their tounge, I mean come on.....
Mrs "
I thought this was generally a good thing for a woman 
*throws the rule book out the window. |
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"Oh and the A,B,C's with their tounge, I mean come on.....
Mrs
I thought this was generally a good thing for a woman
*throws the rule book out the window. "
Haha I'd rather enjoy myself than wonder what's coming after Z or that he missed a letter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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guys keeping the most noise while making the weakest of strokes ......its like I wanna join whatever party is going on in his head cuz it's not happening here for sure .... like calm down Peter pan |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Childish giggling and silly comment.
Not good.
Oh shit. I giggle at the most inappropriate moments during sex *sometimes.
I know this wouldn’t impact you, but when I read this I realised how many times I may have broke her sexy moment.
Why are you giggling when you have a women to please?
This is serious stuff….it’s not a game of cricket.
Only messing of course - it’s just weird when someone giggles during sex I find."
After you said it, I can see why it would be.
Me - it’s hard to explain why I’ve giggled/laughed. It’s just a feeling and the ‘giggling’ is some kind of release of energy maybe. I dunno, but luckily, she’s never ran off thinking I’m a weirdo. |
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"Oh and the A,B,C's with their tounge, I mean come on.....
Mrs
I thought this was generally a good thing for a woman
*throws the rule book out the window.
Haha I'd rather enjoy myself than wonder what's coming after Z or that he missed a letter "
Is he doing ALL CAPS? |
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I’m going to quote from one of my favourite films.
"Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still good."
Except that isn’t true, is it? Sometimes it’s just bad. I mean, not awful. Not so bad you wish you weren’t there. But … just not good.
The thing that disappoints me is when a woman expects me to make all the effort. Expects me to instigate every little thing. I want to feel wanted too, y’know? Join in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When they constantly change positions! A few position changes is great, but when you start changing it every two minutes it just becomes annoying. I don’t need to know that you’ve memorised the karma sutra!
Also, men that decide they’re going to make me squirt.
Honestly there is nothing I hate more than a guy leading with that. I care if you make me orgasm, not if you make me squirt. Stop making my pleasure about your ego |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m going to quote from one of my favourite films.
Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still good.
Except that isn’t true, is it? Sometimes it’s just bad. I mean, not awful. Not so bad you wish you weren’t there. But … just not good.
The thing that disappoints me is when a woman expects me to make all the effort. Expects me to instigate every little thing. I want to feel wanted too, y’know? Join in!"
When I say - fuck me harder, and he says ‘I am’
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"I’m going to quote from one of my favourite films.
Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still good.
Except that isn’t true, is it? Sometimes it’s just bad. I mean, not awful. Not so bad you wish you weren’t there. But … just not good.
The thing that disappoints me is when a woman expects me to make all the effort. Expects me to instigate every little thing. I want to feel wanted too, y’know? Join in!
When I say - fuck me harder, and he says ‘I am’
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Oh no!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m going to quote from one of my favourite films.
Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still good.
Except that isn’t true, is it? Sometimes it’s just bad. I mean, not awful. Not so bad you wish you weren’t there. But … just not good.
The thing that disappoints me is when a woman expects me to make all the effort. Expects me to instigate every little thing. I want to feel wanted too, y’know? Join in!
When I say - fuck me harder, and he says ‘I am’
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You - are - great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women that just wanna lie back and take it with little to no effort.
I doubt that's a problem with much of you here but over in vanilla world it can be!"
I appreciate it isnt a great thing, but occassionally it could be a trauma response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do what they think they know will make me cum
Instead of exploring me, finding out what I like and just enjoying the experience
Exactly this, and refusing to take any gentle direction. "
Gentle direction? Like when I hold her head and start bobbing her up and down like I’m getting jelly out of a mould? She’s goto appreciate that. |
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"When they’re silent the whole time.
You can make noise , we actually like it. "
If I’m not getting funny looks from neighbours… we’re we even doing anything last night? |
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"Women that just wanna lie back and take it with little to no effort.
I doubt that's a problem with much of you here but over in vanilla world it can be!"
Most of the guys I meet are pleasers... So they actually don't mind this. There are "vanilla" peeps on here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do what they think they know will make me cum
Instead of exploring me, finding out what I like and just enjoying the experience"
Communication is a must.Going that extra mile makes for more satisfying sex.If they won't take the time and effort to increase your satisfaction then maybe they don't deserve your body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When they’re silent the whole time.
You can make noise , we actually like it.
If I’m not getting funny looks from neighbours… we’re we even doing anything last night? "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women that just wanna lie back and take it with little to no effort.
I doubt that's a problem with much of you here but over in vanilla world it can be!
Most of the guys I meet are pleasers... So they actually don't mind this. There are "vanilla" peeps on here too."
Yeah I'm not saying the woman has to do ALL the work! But give and take. Of course I'm a pleaser but I want SOMETHING back, whether it's having made the effort with lingerie, being interactive, making lots of noise, basically just being INVOLVED.
I still have enjoyed sex where they've have sat like a starfish but it isn't ideal! |
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"I had a woman be in such a rush for penetration she filled her self with lube then wanted me to just fuck her with no foreplay prior to penetration.She was very horny and clearly got off on it.
You sure it was lube? "
Yes it was lube maybe not filled with lube but enough.But she said she could not stop cumming.She had a very high sex drive. |
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Furiously rubbing my left lip like they're trying to start a fire. To be fair most people are fine with me giving some gentle guidance on what I like and where, but you get the occasional person who refuses to take direction and goes straight back to blistering my poor labia. |
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