I've been into kink as long as I've been interested in sex. As soon as I realised there was sexual attraction, I was always interested in dominatrix vibe women.
Maybe I watched Hellraiser when I was too young? |
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over a year ago
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Came back from my hiatus away just to answer this question as you not get a legitimate answer
All you get is piss take
I would say the first step in to the world off kink is
vanilla sex and build trust with the person or people
Anyone jumping straight in to kink with someone unknown is a risk
Kink play requires trust to be built
So both parties can feel safe that if and when it gose to far in the heat off things
They will know the person will back off
So all kink starts off vanilla till trust is built and then dive in to the world with the person or people
Hopefully this helps |
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"Came back from my hiatus away just to answer this question as you not get a legitimate answer
All you get is piss take
I would say the first step in to the world off kink is
vanilla sex and build trust with the person or people
Anyone jumping straight in to kink with someone unknown is a risk
Kink play requires trust to be built
So both parties can feel safe that if and when it gose to far in the heat off things
They will know the person will back off
So all kink starts off vanilla till trust is built and then dive in to the world with the person or people
Hopefully this helps "
no, I was actually interested in what other people's first steps into kink.
I am way past my first steps |
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It all starts with trust and lots of discussion between the parties and slowly go from there with lots of continuing consent is how we started and we're honestly still only a few steps down that road |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I've been into kink as long as I've been interested in sex. As soon as I realised there was sexual attraction, I was always interested in dominatrix vibe women.
Maybe I watched Hellraiser when I was too young?"
Glad I’m not the only one. My two first girlfriends both from very strict catholic families corrupted me, so sex has always been based on kink from day 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was seeing a now ex GF, she expressed an interest in exploring the Dom/sub dynamic, so we purchased some cuffs, blindfolds, restraints. She already had some toys. Had a great time, pity it ended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always been into flirting with great looking women.
Enjoy kissing.
Enjoy orgasms.
Enjoy the thrill of doing naughty stuff.
And so the recipe turned into a kink stew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Saying that first first steps was my 2nd ever time having sex as it was with 4 women in a bush in a park but at the time i never saw it as kinky just experience really |
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Watching eurotrash in my pre/early teen years followed by sexetera, sin cities etc followed by the explosion of the internet and the wealth of information/misinformation right at my finger tips.
I guess I always knew that I was destined for this life.
Mr Hayes. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I definitely felt like I crossed over into a different world when a rather wonderful lady farmer from the wilds of Wales got the toys (beads, plugs etc) out the second time we met.
Took a little convincing, although I was very intrigued from the start. Very quickly it was “wow”  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going in to Ann Summer seeing there large assortment of bondage gear whips masks such like imagine a certain lady on hear in Ann Summer elf dress with handcuffs and whip  |
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