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over a year ago
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I love it!
BUT it’s a bit morally dodgy. Getting your rocks off to getting caught it one thing, but the person catching you hadn’t consented to that play and so you could really upset or offend someone.
I prefer to keep it to places that are play friendly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always wondered about this. People that play in public, dont you worry about if a child sees you?
There was a couple not so long ago that were having sex, in the daytime in the sand dunes in Swansea. They were filmed from an overlooking flat. There are a lot of flats there, and most contain children.
The thought of that alone would make me not risk it, an adult catching me is one thing, but id be mortified if it were a child |
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over a year ago
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"We are exhibitionists and we absolutely love getting caught in the act. Usually just masterbation. We've had some right spontaneous things happen along with a police visit once  "
That's not something to be proud of is it?!   |
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Right, just to get this straight. There is no way i'd get caught, or do anything to offend anyone. So please don't confuse this with anything like that. It just gets the heart racing.
James is a pro photographer, pictures are taken with all the respect in the world. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Unless you're somewhere completely secluded there'll always be a risk of being seen and as 99%+ of the population aren't swingers then that's enough of a statistic to put me off the idea.
Imposing your kinks on others is never advised. The risk of it ending badly far outweigh the potential thrill gained. Is it worth being reported?
Whether a 'pro' photographer or an amateur with a camera phone it makes no difference.
Add in that the choice of location will also be key if you want to take nudes outdoors. Anywhere publicly accessible is a bad idea. And regardless of personal beliefs taking naked photos in any building with religious connections is highly disrespectful, the same with graveyards. There are no end of places it can be done with minimal risk of being seen by anyone else. Do it there and it's all good.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to be pretty egotistical to assume anyone would want to catch me 'flashing'.
Just makes me think of dirty auld men in raincoats, it's the same concept so be a no from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a bit of harmless fun so it’s all good, & obviously not done to offend others...!
each to own & nowt wrong in having fun knowing not harming any1 (by being careful)...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it!
BUT it’s a bit morally dodgy. Getting your rocks off to getting caught it one thing, but the person catching you hadn’t consented to that play and so you could really upset or offend someone.
I prefer to keep it to places that are play friendly. "
This is my take on it too. Totally understand the thrill of it however we always have to be careful not to accidentally get people caught up in our games. What is harmless to us could be really distressing to someone else just something for people to bear in mind. |
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I don't like confining sex and nudity to the bedroom... and I have indulged in outdoor fun. But I always seek out quiet and secluded spots, and do my best to make sure nobody is around.
If you're doing it because you love the risk of being caught, that's a bit messed up I think. Why does the thought of strangers seeing you flash excite you? What about consent? It's pretty disturbing!
I'm probably a hypocrite since I have had sex and removed clothes outdoors, but doing it for the risk of being caught doesn't sit right with me. |
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"I don't like confining sex and nudity to the bedroom... and I have indulged in outdoor fun. But I always seek out quiet and secluded spots, and do my best to make sure nobody is around.
If you're doing it because you love the risk of being caught, that's a bit messed up I think. Why does the thought of strangers seeing you flash excite you? What about consent? It's pretty disturbing!
I'm probably a hypocrite since I have had sex and removed clothes outdoors, but doing it for the risk of being caught doesn't sit right with me. "
You're not a hypocrite. There is a definite line between sex/ pics with the intention of getting 'caught' and doing it carefully where no-one will see.
Consent is everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I completely agree with what most have said. Finding a secluded area were are unlikely to be seen is one thing. Deliberately flashing someone or hoping you seen (suggesting it's not that secluded) is something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not the risk of being caught for us, just another dimension of us having a giggle, trying not to take it seriously and we hope others enjoy it too.
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You hope others enjoy it too? Hilarious giggle. |
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