Just a little bit down today, thought I was in a happily growing and swinging relationship with a woman I love so much, just to find out that it's over. Seems its because I would prefer to have her all to myself (at least emotionally) but that's not what's she's after..
Sorry if this seems like a sob story asking for sympathy, it isn't.. I just need to vent, get it off my chest.. Almost feel like I did something wrong..
Meh vent over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree loved my ex so fucking fit incredible woman just she struggled with my sex side but wish she cud of let it go still be having good life now
Turned me on wen or if we had 3 sum how much he fancied her and almost cum instantly |
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"Just a little bit down today, thought I was in a happily growing and swinging relationship with a woman I love so much, just to find out that it's over. Seems its because I would prefer to have her all to myself (at least emotionally) but that's not what's she's after..
Sorry if this seems like a sob story asking for sympathy, it isn't.. I just need to vent, get it off my chest.. Almost feel like I did something wrong..
Meh vent over. "
So sorry to hear this. It’s hard when you both want different things. Hope you are ok.
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"Just a little bit down today, thought I was in a happily growing and swinging relationship with a woman I love so much, just to find out that it's over. Seems its because I would prefer to have her all to myself (at least emotionally) but that's not what's she's after..
Sorry if this seems like a sob story asking for sympathy, it isn't.. I just need to vent, get it off my chest.. Almost feel like I did something wrong..
Meh vent over.
So sorry to hear this. It’s hard when you both want different things. Hope you are ok.
Mrs "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ach, hope you're doing as okay as can be OP. When things come to an end in relationships it's difficult. You're going to grieve as daft as that sounds.
Try and not frame it as you doing something wrong. You're just not compatible as a pair. Not your fault. I hope you're feeling better soon. x |
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Having come out of a relationship recently I know where you're at OP. It's hard, especially when you think all the right boxes had been ticked only to find they were not ticked in permanent ink.
I'm finding myself reserved to the fact perhaps my happy ever after is unachievable (for me). After 3 failed marriages and gods know how many failed relationships, perhaps being one half of something is not my destiny. No matter how hard I tried.
All I can say to you is forge ahead, yes hurt but don't let the hurt rule you. |
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When you love someone you're always ..always at the risk of that happening, there is absolutely nothing can be done if the other person feels the way they do , if you truly love the other person and they don't feel the same as you ..well get ready for what comes with that, only time will heal how you feel but if you want my advice don't waste anymore of your time mopping over it cause she's not mopping ,she has moved on and is doing what she wants to do . |
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Aww OP I am gutted for you. You are bound to feel low and have a mixture of emotions. We are your friends and if it helps you to vent here then we can support you through this period. Give yourself time.
NBVN x |
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Thank you all very much appriciate the support. Does feel as if I've heart my heart trampled all over, especially seeing as I know she's already meeting with other guys.. Doesn't feel as if she ever did care.. Meh ill just plod along will eventually get over her.
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"Thank you all very much appriciate the support. Does feel as if I've heart my heart trampled all over, especially seeing as I know she's already meeting with other guys.. Doesn't feel as if she ever did care.. Meh ill just plod along will eventually get over her.
Again thank you all"
Sorry to hear but your status has me thinking |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you all very much appriciate the support. Does feel as if I've heart my heart trampled all over, especially seeing as I know she's already meeting with other guys.. Doesn't feel as if she ever did care.. Meh ill just plod along will eventually get over her.
Again thank you all
Sorry to hear but your status has me thinking"
Maybe it's just a way for him to cope and enjoy a bit of human interaction/contact again. I've definitely gone down the fuck it out of me route and it helped boost my confidence to remember I was attractive to others.
There's no right or wrong (well no, there's definitely a few!) way to go about it. Just be kind to yourself Op. |
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Thank you.. Again.. Wow didn't know there was that much support on here. Yeah that status is me trying to just enjoy life, and forget her to be honest. All I feel like I'm doing is moping about, and it's not very helpful |
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You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her. |
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her. "
I'm in a similar boat and really need a boob to cry on right now! |
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her.
I'm in a similar boat and really need a boob to cry on right now!"
You can cry on mime but I've not plucked my nipples for 6 weeks. |
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her. "
Thank you, I do understand that.. But it's silly how the mind works. I'm hoping I find a meet, doesn't even have to be for sex, although I wouldn't complain.. Just the company would be nice. |
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her.
I'm in a similar boat and really need a boob to cry on right now!
You can cry on mime but I've not plucked my nipples for 6 weeks."
Me either it's totally fine, we can floss our teeth while enjoying the warmth of each other's chests. I'll put on some Barry white |
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Stay strong! x Love can make us act in strange ways ...... like uhmmmmmmm ..... not being able to possess someone , being broken hearted and advertising for meets today. It's wrenching at times.
You stay strong and up there x ! x |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her.
Thank you, I do understand that.. But it's silly how the mind works. I'm hoping I find a meet, doesn't even have to be for sex, although I wouldn't complain.. Just the company would be nice. "
I am off to a local social meetup tonight, it does get easier with time mate, like you thought more and said the L word |
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"You didn't do anything wrong. You're just not compatible. At least you were upfront about how you felt, otherwise it could have ended in a lot more hurt further down the line.
You'll feel better in time. I hope you find a meet and it helps to take your mind off her.
Thank you, I do understand that.. But it's silly how the mind works. I'm hoping I find a meet, doesn't even have to be for sex, although I wouldn't complain.. Just the company would be nice.
I am off to a local social meetup tonight, it does get easier with time mate, like you thought more and said the L word "
That L word was used a lot while we were together. |
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Things happen for reasons...time will tell if she made a mistake or as hard as it may be it was the right decision.
Evidently you had good times remember those and take solace from them...eventually you'll get back in the saddle ( so to speak).
You never know what's round the corner. |
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. That really sucks.
