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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
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With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile.
No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders.
Since I asked the question I'll go first.
Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet.
Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc).
Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for.
There you go. Not a negative in sight.
Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience. 
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over a year ago
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I’ll probably open a profile from a woman or couple of I see wit/humour in the forum. (Sorry guys, I rarely need to read yours, but I still learn names of those who post often.
Also, if I see Northwest from someone I check them out, I’ll hotlist an interesting profile that has good text, anything that is negative I just close.
Pictures? A good profile picture that looks seductive could have me opening a profile too. I like teasing photos more than nudity. |
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"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile.
No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders.
Since I asked the question I'll go first.
Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet.
Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc).
Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for.
There you go. Not a negative in sight.
Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience.
A"
This is great advice, thank you. |
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By *bi Haive OP Man
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile.
No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders.
Since I asked the question I'll go first.
Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet.
Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc).
Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for.
There you go. Not a negative in sight.
Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience.
A
This is great advice, thank you."
No worries. It's just my/our view and others will be different.
Just felt it would be more beneficial to describe what positive traits we look for rather than (as is often the case and we're all guilty of it at times) moaning about what we don't like or want to see.
And more use to those seeking inspiration of course. 
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I like profiles that have a selection of pics so you get to know what the person looks like and a bio that gives you an idea about the person and what they are looking for on here. I don't actually mind nice nude pics as well.
For couples though I like to see a pics of both if it's only one person's pics I don't open the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bio that details what they are looking for with humour and warmth. I like to see some of their personality in their bio.
I'm not too fussed about photos as mine are crap, work in progress. A profile pic is a must though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women and couples - good looking women. Partial to a picture of legs in bath ( you know who you are) lingerie, someone who looks confident in their body whatever shape it is. A few pictures rather than just one.
A positive, fun sounding profile, though I think this forum is a great place to really tell someones personality and 90 percent of you have not disappointed!
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More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look) |
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"With the usual spate of requests for profile advice in the lounge, along with what have been perceived as 'single male bashing' threads this week - here's your chance, men, women, couples or TV/TS, to simply state what attracts you to a profile.
No details of what you don't like or what puts you off, just the positives please. Either in general or for specific genders.
Since I asked the question I'll go first.
Single Males - interesting and varied photos and a profile picture that catches the eye, photos in their gallery showing a full body (clothed and/or naked), a cock pic or two, signs of humour in the profile text and a clear idea of their interest, what they're looking for, an indication that they've set some kind of preferences and interests and some visible, positive verifications showing they do meet.
Couples - as above but gallery photos should include clear pics of both, separate and together, and any boundaries or preferences to how they play (full/soft etc).
Single females and TV/TS - I'll pass on this as not what we're looking for.
There you go. Not a negative in sight.
Over to you folk. The more info you give the more it may help your target audience.
A"
Making us laugh and you are halfway there. Humour is a very important trait to us |
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look) "
I'm sorry have I smashed my profile? |
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look)
I'm sorry have I smashed my profile?"
You’ve done well, Sir. A love of Cats, too!  |
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"More than anything, a bio that conjures up the image of someone fun, with personality, perhaps a little quirky. Something about their photos/their look, that I like (not necessarily gym fit, more that they put effort into how they look)
I'm sorry have I smashed my profile?
You’ve done well, Sir. A love of Cats, too! "
Let's raise an army of cats and have sex (each other not cats) |
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Area closeish
we are not to far off their age range.
They list softswing interest or accept both.
Straight males
Straight or bi females
Good verifications
Both sexes photos
Like a social first
Good humour expressed either in profile or in verifications.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) "
You got me cackling at work |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work "
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson) "
So you are really seeing if there is any cognitive dissonance then? |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
So you are really seeing if there is any cognitive dissonance then?"
Absolutely.
But more so to which level |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x"
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on "
Aisle 7 is worst  |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst "
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays?  |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays? "
Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is.
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays?
Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is.
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Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays?
Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is.
Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries
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I don’t go inside, I’ll fuck watermelons and grannies who can paint at the back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t go inside, I’ll fuck watermelons and grannies who can paint at the back
Oh I see, living your best life to the max as usual "
Well someone has to ! |
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays?
Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is.
Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries
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Come to the backof lidl and I’ll show you my wonky passion fruit!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Photos: I try to see if there is any creativity and if the way she portrays herself in her bio matches her pictures. (E.g., I am very shy but she has videos of her dildoing herself at Tesco aisle 4)
Bio: I usually pay careful attention to the words used. The way she describes herself and others while explaining what she is looking for. How her preferences are worded is an important component in my decision to pursue her or not.
Verifications: I check if they match her profile text. (E.g. looking for gentlemen who treat me with respect and not like a piece of meat, then her verifications be like : she sucked like a Dyson, and fucked like Mike Tyson)
You got me cackling at work
Same, stood at the microwave laughing my head off x
I'll be very wary to walk down Tesco Aisle 4 from now on
Aisle 7 is worst
I shall skip Tesco altogether then...Is the back of Lidl's safer nowadays?
Now I have upgraded to Waitrose yes it is.
Oh I'm sorry, not all of us can afford posh groceries
Come to the backof lidl and I’ll show you my wonky passion fruit!! "
Sorry I’m allergic to passion fruit |
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Profiles that know exactly what they want, and aren't hedging their bets (18 - 99, etc).
There's something to be said for those that appear to be in no rush, doing things on their own terms - it's a very attractive quality. It implies a quiet confidence.
There's a lot being said about well written profiles, for us what matters more is that there is clear effort being made - if there's no effort being made in the 'chase' then chances are any sexy time is going to be lame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profiles that know exactly what they want, and aren't hedging their bets (18 - 99, etc).
There's something to be said for those that appear to be in no rush, doing things on their own terms - it's a very attractive quality. It implies a quiet confidence.
There's a lot being said about well written profiles, for us what matters more is that there is clear effort being made - if there's no effort being made in the 'chase' then chances are any sexy time is going to be lame."
Can't agree more with all of the above. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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A decent write up of what they like and offer meets
Some pics that leave things to the imagination and make you want more
Being local ish
One or 2 veries that show what they're like and the sort of people they tend to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok time for a serious answer
I dont tend to go looking at profiles all that much i just interact with people and if they make me laugh enough or say something to make my willy wiggle il look
Other than that its mainly the avatar picture or a funny title that get my attention most to get me looking |
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"Good photos, couples with pics of both, a bio that reads easy, is positive and has a bit about them.
Mrs "
Same as above...decent quality pics draw you in first and also has to have decent blurb..ranty intolerant profiles put us off. |
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