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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
What's your standard answer when some one asks how you are? If you don't even think or self assess how you are feeling before replying?
Mine is I'm fabulous or fantastical. Must be an F thing.
I said it automatically yesterday, realised I wasn't, back tracked and changed my answer and they didn't give a shit anyway, the question is so often just a formality! ROFL |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to say
"Things are good"
"I'm good" or variants on that.
When what I really want to say is a full on verbal waffle of everything that's going on because I never have one emotion or feeling, there's normally a lot going on but hey, I've learned social norms. |
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Sometimes I stop and actually have to think about it, rather than autopilot a "fine".
If I was being asked face to face by someone cute, like the OP, I would probably light up "really good now you're here" or something |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I tend to say
"Things are good"
"I'm good" or variants on that.
When what I really want to say is a full on verbal waffle of everything that's going on because I never have one emotion or feeling, there's normally a lot going on but hey, I've learned social norms. "
Gotta love those social norms and expectations! |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Fine thanks..... as a complete stranger are you always concerned for the welfare of others. "
Nope. But if I'm neither interested nor have the time to listen to a genuine answer, I simply don't ask. |
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"What's your standard answer when some one asks how you are? If you don't even think or self assess how you are feeling before replying?
Mine is I'm fabulous or fantastical. Must be an F thing.
I said it automatically yesterday, realised I wasn't, back tracked and changed my answer and they didn't give a shit anyway, the question is so often just a formality! ROFL "
It's amazing how giving the honest but unexpected answer can throw people... which shows they weren't honestly enquiring... they were just saying a rhetorical phrase as an opener...
It's okay to not be okay... I'd offer you a hug! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's just a how are you message with not a lot else I don't tend to reply tbh
Guys get those too??? "
I have had them before - mainly from other guys but occasionally from a woman (not that many women message a single guy!) |
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"No one ever asks me 
How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.
-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to. "
Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"No one ever asks me
How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.
-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to.
Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you"
Oh no. Sending a get well hug your way x
Today I am rather chipper actually, thanks for asking  |
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"No one ever asks me
How are you today Paul? Standard answer please, not actually how you ARE feeling.
-Just kidding, you can be honest if you have to.
Haha OK I'm poorly but battling on , how are you
Oh no. Sending a get well hug your way x
Today I am rather chipper actually, thanks for asking "
Have a super day |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I always say ‘I’m terrible but thanks for asking’. Nobody knows how to respond with other than a nervous laugh  "
Ha, what would you say if they asked you to elaborate? Would you go into a troubled speech or say you're only joking? Or other? |
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"I always say ‘I’m terrible but thanks for asking’. Nobody knows how to respond with other than a nervous laugh
Ha, what would you say if they asked you to elaborate? Would you go into a troubled speech or say you're only joking? Or other? "
I’d actually tell them all about my shit day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?
If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking"
Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?
If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking
Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls..."
I'm flattered I make your testes tingle but I'm not that way inclined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, not bad thanks. Yourself?
If their answer doesn't end at "Yeah, good thanks" I immediately regret asking
Now you mention it I do have this sensation going on all up in my balls...
I'm flattered I make your testes tingle but I'm not that way inclined "
Damn it nothings easy around here!
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