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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After chatting to someone for quite while we decided to arrange a social. Just a morning coffee.
Messaged the night before to see if we were still on.
Woke up on the morning to check and found myself blocked. It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I get that. We'd exchanged face pics weeks ago and spoke quite regularly. I didn't even initiate it the social. But on the day of the arranged social blocked  |
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"It's common lol  I sent a woman who lives local a face pic and a polite message and she hadn't blocked me but adjusted her age range by one year so I couldn't message again  "
Age filters don't stop you exchanging messages if you have already exchanged messages. |
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"After chatting to someone for quite while we decided to arrange a social. Just a morning coffee.
Messaged the night before to see if we were still on.
Woke up on the morning to check and found myself blocked. It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.
Anyone else been blocked for reasons unknown?"
It does happen I'm afraid. It could be something you said or that they chose someone else. Don't stress too much about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are strange, it’s the cowards way out of saying they’ve changed their minds. Stops them having to own their actions.
The justification will be it prevents snotty messages back to them.
Anyway, half of the forums have me blocked - randomly find out every now and then, like when I dip in on one of those Fab me or which pic do you like the best threads
It’s just the way it is on social media 
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"After chatting to someone for quite while we decided to arrange a social. Just a morning coffee.
Messaged the night before to see if we were still on.
Woke up on the morning to check and found myself blocked. It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.
Anyone else been blocked for reasons unknown?"
Every fucking time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is so new to me. I've never read anything like this. My head is spinning with it. I'll need time to consider this im truly shocked. xx"
I like sarcasm GC |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is so new to me. I've never read anything like this. My head is spinning with it. I'll need time to consider this im truly shocked. xx"
Granny,you have me blocked!
Dammit, was about to send you a pic of my bum. |
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"This is so new to me. I've never read anything like this. My head is spinning with it. I'll need time to consider this im truly shocked. xx I like sarcasm GC "
I was being gentle. It's nice to be gentle |
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"This is so new to me. I've never read anything like this. My head is spinning with it. I'll need time to consider this im truly shocked. xx
Granny,you have me blocked!
Dammit, was about to send you a pic of my bum."
You'd be one of the last people I block dear heart and what's more, I don't have anyone on my block list......
I'll pass on the ass thanks still loving the lashes tho. |
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"1. Did you VOICE speak or just message and texts ?
2. Did you VIDEO see her or just a pic ?
Exactly this. Something tells me maybe it wasn’t woman after all."
Orrrrrrrrr Orrrrrrrrrrrr it was a woman but the pic was of some 30 yr old model and not a pic of reality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1. Did you VOICE speak or just message and texts ?
2. Did you VIDEO see her or just a pic ?
Exactly this. Something tells me maybe it wasn’t woman after all."
no video/voice calls, only chatted on here. Her veris suggested she was female |
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"1. Did you VOICE speak or just message and texts ?
2. Did you VIDEO see her or just a pic ?
Exactly this. Something tells me maybe it wasn’t woman after all. no video/voice calls, only chatted on here. Her veris suggested she was female "
Did you click on the veri givers ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1. Did you VOICE speak or just message and texts ?
2. Did you VIDEO see her or just a pic ?
Exactly this. Something tells me maybe it wasn’t woman after all. no video/voice calls, only chatted on here. Her veris suggested she was female
Did you click on the veri givers ? "
no I just assumed they were genuine. Aren't they all? |
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"1. Did you VOICE speak or just message and texts ?
2. Did you VIDEO see her or just a pic ?
Exactly this. Something tells me maybe it wasn’t woman after all. no video/voice calls, only chatted on here. Her veris suggested she was female
Did you click on the veri givers ? no I just assumed they were genuine. Aren't they all?"
No. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think I've been blocked but many men have stopped interacting with me.
They didn't tell me why, they just disappeared.
I send one message asking if they are ok and still interested, then I leave them to it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.”
One of the many reasons they don’t say this is to prevent any potential abuse. Not many people can take rejection and they don’t want to put themselves in that position. Or feel the need to explain themselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she wasn't real? She could have been genuine but it is a little strange for her to block if you spoke regularly and got on well. People are a bit odd sometimes, but she is entitled to do as she wishes. Anyway, better luck next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe she wasn't real? She could have been genuine but it is a little strange for her to block if you spoke regularly and got on well. People are a bit odd sometimes, but she is entitled to do as she wishes. Anyway, better luck next time. "
Are you real though? Cause I've never seen lemon butter cream before...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe she wasn't real? She could have been genuine but it is a little strange for her to block if you spoke regularly and got on well. People are a bit odd sometimes, but she is entitled to do as she wishes. Anyway, better luck next time.
Are you real though? Cause I've never seen lemon butter cream before...?"
I'm as real as they come baby.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe she wasn't real? She could have been genuine but it is a little strange for her to block if you spoke regularly and got on well. People are a bit odd sometimes, but she is entitled to do as she wishes. Anyway, better luck next time.
Are you real though? Cause I've never seen lemon butter cream before...?
I'm as real as they come baby. "
Great! Well I'll pick you up around 5 in my Grease style flying car if that sounds good for you? No oral while driving though I don't wanna hit any birds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it happens all to often I'm afraid and I do find myself questioning whether they were not who they pretended to be. At least you didn't turn up and they didn't show up. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"It's common lol I sent a woman who lives local a face pic and a polite message and she hadn't blocked me but adjusted her age range by one year so I couldn't message again "
You can still message someone even if they've changed their age range IF you've already messaged before they altered it ...its a glitch in the fab matrix ...trust me, I know |
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"After chatting to someone for quite while we decided to arrange a social. Just a morning coffee.
Messaged the night before to see if we were still on.
Woke up on the morning to check and found myself blocked. It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.
Anyone else been blocked for reasons unknown?"
Yes I look or try to look at some profiles and see I'm blocked. I guess they see the musings and its a pre emptive measure.? .. Who knows... I'll survive though. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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They maybe changed their mind ,or something came up in real life
Ideally people would say they'd changed their minds ,but I think many fear abuse if they do.
I'd just counter block op and that way they can't get back in touch with you. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"It's common lol I sent a woman who lives local a face pic and a polite message and she hadn't blocked me but adjusted her age range by one year so I couldn't message again
Age filters don't stop you exchanging messages if you have already exchanged messages.well I'm not blocked but can't send a message, so how has she done that? "
Magic  ... so you didn't get a reply back but have tried messaging again anyway??! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"After chatting to someone for quite while we decided to arrange a social. Just a morning coffee.
Messaged the night before to see if we were still on.
Woke up on the morning to check and found myself blocked. It's no big deal but I just find it a bit bizarre. Instead of just saying I'm sorry, change of heart or whatever. Strange.
Anyone else been blocked for reasons unknown?"
May be they just wanted the thrill of the chase OP ... it happens both sides of the fence  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"It's common lol I sent a woman who lives local a face pic and a polite message and she hadn't blocked me but adjusted her age range by one year so I couldn't message again
Age filters don't stop you exchanging messages if you have already exchanged messages.well I'm not blocked but can't send a message, so how has she done that? "
If she didn't reply to you,the filters will stop you being able to contact her
It's only if you've had previous contact that filters can he bypassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Normal on fab.
Other is when you reply to a message and the sender thinks it means you will meet and have sex. Lol
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It amazes us how many guys think that's how it works..... don't know what plenet they were brought up on...
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