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How to be successful on fab...help needed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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Well both those statements are completely wrong
Also clubs are a single guys best friend
Go to socials and clubs build a report and doors will open
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Answer the following things:
- What do YOU classify as swinging
- What is your measure of success?
- What kinds of people are you (primarily) looking to meet?
- What is your USP (unique selling point)?
Answers to those will help you craft your basic profile. Spending more time on the site, and the forums, will help you observe dynamics, and get a better understanding of things you can do to help you stand out.
Getting yourself to a local social is a great way to meet more folks, and potential playmates.
Ultimately, be yourself, be honest, and put your best foot forward.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
Totally untrue."
Ya look at this poor fucker OP he can't get any action  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the 4 years you’ve been on, have you ever attended clubs or socials?
What does successful mean to you OP?
You get out what you put in on here. Make your profile the best it can be and perhaps change your approach if it hasn’t been working for you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure why soany people are asking about swinging so many of us here aren't swingers.
OP the easiest way to increase meet rate here is to get yourself involved in the social side of things.
Group coffee meets and work up to parties.
If its strictly one on one stuff your looking for then you need a profile that really sells yourself.
You don't need a 10pack or a massive dong but you do need to look like you put more than 5mins of effort into your profile one day you were horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the 4 years you’ve been on, have you ever attended clubs or socials?
What does successful mean to you OP?
You get out what you put in on here. Make your profile the best it can be and perhaps change your approach if it hasn’t been working for you.
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Need to disagree with you get in what you put out that stament is total bs
Sorry but that’s the truth as I put in more effort than anyone
It should be if you conserve and your face fits and you suck up to the right people
And don’t go against what they say |
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
Totally untrue."
Completely agree- you should maybe write a bit more about yourself on your profile. After four years of being on here , it could be a bit longer. |
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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I am precisely zero of those things and I attribute any "success" if you can call it that to going to the clubs and just being myself and talking to people like a real person. I use fab to say hi to people I like, the forums and if someone takes my fancy maybe invite them to go to a club night. If they ever do attend there is no guarantee they will even see me, but if they do and say hi then as far as I'm concerned that is success. Meeting and being friendly. Anything else beyond that is chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why soany people are asking about swinging so many of us here aren't swingers.
OP the easiest way to increase meet rate here is to get yourself involved in the social side of things.
Group coffee meets and work up to parties.
If its strictly one on one stuff your looking for then you need a profile that really sells yourself.
You don't need a 10pack or a massive dong but you do need to look like you put more than 5mins of effort into your profile one day you were horny"
What do you think swinging is? |
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"In the 4 years you’ve been on, have you ever attended clubs or socials?
What does successful mean to you OP?
You get out what you put in on here. Make your profile the best it can be and perhaps change your approach if it hasn’t been working for you.
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Absolutely this
It's all about how you act in the real world
Take me I'm not a muscular Adonis
I haven't got a full head of hair I wear glasses ( I'm selling myself well here  )...I'm more geek than a Brad Pitt ...but what I do have in bucket loads is Charisma,charm and the ability to get out there and talk to people in a normal way.
Don't expect this site to get you a meet if your not prepared to put the leg work in get out to socials,clubs,parties what ever and speak face to face with people
Do all of that and you might just get a toe hold in this bonkers world we all seem to gravitate around |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?  "
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ... |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ... "
Am I wrong?? |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong?? "
No my friend your bang on the money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong?? "
After seeing his reply you can add childish attitude to the list of enticing attributes  |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong??
After seeing his reply you can add childish attitude to the list of enticing attributes "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong?? "
You could be less of a dick about it though |
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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Go to clubs for success at shagging if that's what you view as success or if you want success at charming women's knickers off you have to be charming and your username fukme30 kinda says what you want lol |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong??
You could be less of a dick about it though"
I agree. I was just in a one of those moods |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong??
You could be less of a dick about it though
I agree. I was just in a one of those moods "
Ah well that's fine then  |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect? "
Totally agree with all of this! OP - you get out what you put in on Fab. You’ve put in zero… so guess what you’re going to get out of it? |
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The usual mistake guys make on this site is assuming that if you just message a lady and ask for sex she will say yes. Well the response will be the same as if you walked up to someone in a pub and posed the same question, and we all know what the answer would be!...You need to socialise, either online or in person... |
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong??
You could be less of a dick about it though"
Why is he being a dick about it ?
The forum's are full of threads from guys moaning about not getting meets
There tons of advice on these forums about how to improve your profile
And yet we get more of the same boring threads
If your not getting meets your profile and approach are CRAP end of.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly what a bunch of bell ends...egos man"
Perhaps the answer is closer to home…
You asked and from what I can see nobody has said anything to warrant you calling the posters above a “bunch of bell ends”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies I’m in one of those moods again so it’s brutal. Shit profile name, shit photo and rubbish bio. Plus last verification was 4 years ago??? What do you expect?
Nothing better than straight to the point answers ...
Am I wrong??
You could be less of a dick about it though
Why is he being a dick about it ?
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He is being a dick because of his own mood apparently.
Ya there are plenty of posts like this. But you can still reply to them with a little bit of civility or just ignore the topic |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly what a bunch of bell ends...egos man"
So you ask a question and don't like the replies so everyone who gave you advice you didn't like is a bell end.
Ah well enough said so. Continue to enjoy your journey your way so or not as the case may be. |
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"Honestly what a bunch of bell ends...egos man
Perhaps the answer is closer to home…
You asked and from what I can see nobody has said anything to warrant you calling the posters above a “bunch of bell ends”
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Can see why he gets no meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya, I'm thinking maybe don't come here asking this sort of question. Do a forum search there's loads of info. Look at other guys profiles, look how the 'successful' one present themselves and don't lose patience in here. Some folk get fed up seeing these threads and respond accordingly. Paddle your own canoe, good luck |
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OP a friendly word of advice, the room has turned, best back out and cool down. Relax, chill, go to a club and just chat to people. I totally get the frustration, but antagonising the forum is counterproductive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
I look more like a horse if that counts ...x"
Horses are lovely, we can pat their noses and plait their tails and polish their hooves.... |
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
I look more like a horse if that counts ...x
Horses are lovely, we can pat their noses and plait their tails and polish their hooves.... "
Dont 4get feed them suger lumps and ride them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who was the OP? 
Has he gone already.....lol..."
Not sure why that would amuse you tbh
Yes I get folk are fed up with this kinda thread but no one puts a gun to anyone's head making them read it, it's obvious from the title what it is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how would someone gauge "success" for me I think just making friends on here is a good start to a successful experience on here. Anything more than that is just bonuses.
this site has given me a lot of Information about swingers clubs/events that I had no clue about, which I can honestly say has been very helpful and given me more of a confidence about being able to attend (which is what I originally signed up to the site for)
if you have an ignorant approach to what this site is for then you are not going to have a successful experience.
thats just my opinion anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want someone to explain what being successful on Fab means!
I’m sorry for the op, sounds like this place didn’t work out for him, and there’s that note of jealousy that’s hard to shake off when you enter here.
Lots of verifications popping up on local updates. Your hotlist sharing statuses of what they’re upto. Some guy is ripped to fuck stating ‘it’s working out for me! Etc could make people who are unsure feel a little miffed and left out of a group that looks cool.
The best advice I would have given the Op is, don’t expect anything from fab, and your never disappointed. Anything more, like some strangers becoming almost friends is a lovely surprise. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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Thats not true at all.
Although this site does have its downsides, but there is so much it can offer as well.. great friendships can be forged, new things to be learned and most importantly, it allows everyone to be their true naughty self without having anyone judge them. I love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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I actually couldn't disagree with this more if I tried, especially since its had several threads in forums, I must admit the first time I saw a thread asking the lovely ladies of fab what they thought about men with big choppers and average ones, there was way more comments saying they prefer average over hung |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's hard on here if your single...unless your hung like a horse or look absolute dynamite
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I agree. But I think that's more of me trying to live up to societal standards and being really judgmental of myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this thread has come to a logical end
But what did we learn? "
That if you have a fragile ego, don’t ask the mob for criticism. Also, FAB wasn’t for the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this thread has come to a logical end
But what did we learn?
That if you have a fragile ego, don’t ask the mob for criticism. Also, FAB wasn’t for the OP"
Who’s the mob and are they hot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this thread has come to a logical end
But what did we learn?
That if you have a fragile ego, don’t ask the mob for criticism. Also, FAB wasn’t for the OP
Who’s the mob and are they hot?"
Everyone in the lounge, and yes we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this thread has come to a logical end
But what did we learn?
That if you have a fragile ego, don’t ask the mob for criticism. Also, FAB wasn’t for the OP
Who’s the mob and are they hot?
Everyone in the lounge, and yes we are"
Wait!…..I’m in the lounge? . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did the guy ask and leave a day later?
That's how you're unsuccessful on fab am I right?"
Yep.
How long do we think it'll be until he's back on with a new profile? |
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