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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't you hate it when people say that. Friends or family you haven't talked to for a while and then they ask why haven't you contacted them? Like it's your job to make 1st contact. The way I see it whoever sent the last message then it's the other person who hasn't made contact.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We just message each other when we have something to say tbh, cannot be arsed with turn rules with people I chat to, it would take forever with some of them  "
Yeah, I just don't understand why people say that? I'm like No why haven't you messaged me? I always try to be the last to message just in case this happens lol |
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"Don't you hate it when people say that. Friends or family you haven't talked to for a while and then they ask why haven't you contacted them? Like it's your job to make 1st contact. The way I see it whoever sent the last message then it's the other person who hasn't made contact. "
I don’t ‘hate it’. I get annoyed when I’ve done most of keeping the contact going, but then, they accuse me of not contacting, when I’ve challenged them.
I don’t apologise nor chase anyone anymore.
J |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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This can be irritating, but some people have busier lives than others, as they work longer hours, have kids and more demands on their time.
Others may suffer from anxiety and overly worry about contacting people.
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"Don't you hate it when people say that. Friends or family you haven't talked to for a while and then they ask why haven't you contacted them? Like it's your job to make 1st contact. The way I see it whoever sent the last message then it's the other person who hasn't made contact.
I don’t ‘hate it’. I get annoyed when I’ve done most of keeping the contact going, but then, they accuse me of not contacting, when I’ve challenged them.
I don’t apologise nor chase anyone anymore.
J"
I like a good level of all round communication |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't you hate it when people say that. Friends or family you haven't talked to for a while and then they ask why haven't you contacted them? Like it's your job to make 1st contact. The way I see it whoever sent the last message then it's the other person who hasn't made contact. "
I dont agree with the whoever sends the last messsage thing, I often text my sister and friends things before I forget whatever it is im texting. I do prefer phone calls though for anything important or just checking in on how people are in general. It really shouldnt feel like a 'job' if its your people you actually like and spend your time with. |
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"We just message each other when we have something to say tbh, cannot be arsed with turn rules with people I chat to, it would take forever with some of them "
Wait, is it your turn or my turn, because if it's not my turn and I do, the site gets cross with me...?  |
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