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What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?
The worst heartbreak used to be when my first ex cheated on me and dumped me for a guy twice her age back in 2006 but now, I known that the worst heartbreak I've ever felt was when my last ex, who I had known since secondary school and was my best friend at the time, dumped me by text and cut ties with me just days before Christmas back in 2016. |
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"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...
That really hit me  "
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You should have fashioned a Locket containing pooch's ashes. †  |
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"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...
That really hit me
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You should have fashioned a Locket containing pooch's ashes. † "
I have.. I wear it permanently mate   |
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over a year ago
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"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me
The words still hunt me to this day "
rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones |
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"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me
The words still hunt me to this day
rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones "
Very true |
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"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me
The words still hunt me to this day
rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones "
It’s hard when she was ment to be my best friend my sole mate the person I was ment to spend the rest off my life with 11 years and her hurtful words still ring in my head ever single day |
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Two for me...
Turning up for my first ultrasound to find baby was no longer there, no symptoms of miscarriage whatsoever.
Being told I was fat, ugly and useless and noone in this world would ever want me, took me a long time to find myself and realise he got that wrong
Tg x |
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"Going to work and getting a visit from the police to say my wife had been involved in an accident and having to go identify her,she was 6 months pregnant at the time.
I truly wanted to die"
Jesus that’s so hard man hope you got some counselling |
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Between 1983 and 1988 I lost both maternal grandparents whom I had been caring for since I was 12 years old, two uncles(one of whom was also my godfather), and an aunt and two cousins(one a week before his 30th birthday). Therefore by the time my dad passed away a week before my 22nd birthday I was completely numb to death and loss.
That whole period was just one long heartbreak. |
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"Don't live your life in the past
That's just the road to misery
Well bloody said !!!! Jheeeze "
But remembering the past helps us not making mistakes in the future and it also prepares us to understand and cope with future heartbreak.
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When my dad died both my parents long gone but was closest to my dad ! When I lost a baby! And when the father of my 3 youngest children died! Dealing with 3 grieving little ones was heartbreaking x |
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over a year ago
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Getting diagnosed at autism with 50. Not so much the diagnosis (which I embrace) but processing why I have struggled or completely failed at so many aspects of life and the huge "what if' I'd known earlier. Mourning your own life is not easy |
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Two incidents stick put as real heartbreak.
1. When my partner of 8 years walked out and told me by text she no longer loved me.
2. When my Gran died. She lived with us and was more like a mum. Plus it happened on my 21st so I was a bit emotional. |
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"When I held my 3 day old baby daughter in my arms as she passed away
Nothing else will ever come close to that indescribably pain x"
So so sorry Sparkle I wish I could give you a hug xx |
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"What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?
The worst heartbreak used to be when my first ex cheated on me and dumped me for a guy twice her age back in 2006 but now, I known that the worst heartbreak I've ever felt was when my last ex, who I had known since secondary school and was my best friend at the time, dumped me by text and cut ties with me just days before Christmas back in 2016."
Your carrying a heavy load.
You need closure,you wont get it here tbh |
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"What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?
The worst heartbreak used to be when my first ex cheated on me and dumped me for a guy twice her age back in 2006 but now, I known that the worst heartbreak I've ever felt was when my last ex, who I had known since secondary school and was my best friend at the time, dumped me by text and cut ties with me just days before Christmas back in 2016.
Your carrying a heavy load.
You need closure,you wont get it here tbh"
I moved on from what happened those years ago. Even though they broke my heart, they're not worth wasting my breath over. |
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"When I held my 3 day old baby daughter in my arms as she passed away
Nothing else will ever come close to that indescribably pain x
So so sorry Sparkle I wish I could give you a hug xx"
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mum passed in 2002
Wife passed in 2010
Much pain and heartache
Didn’t want to live myself after that
Life moves on
Still have good memories
That’s what I hold on to  |
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"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget..."
No, you don't. When you have to live with that negative change every single day, for the rest of your life, you do not and cannot forget. It depends entirely on the person and what they have experienced. |
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"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget..."
Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget"
I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad"  |
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When I got a call to say my sister in law had passed, it was like a physical pain in my heart, like someone had put a knife through it. Repeated far too often with other friends that have passed.
Relationship wise... Realising someone wasn't the person you thought they were, also numerous times, but easier to get over. |
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Another heartbreak I felt was when I found out a friend who I used to date over 10 years ago but kept in touch with over the years died last month. I felt so numb that day and I wept a couple of days later.
I then took comfort that she didn't suffer and will be watching over her family. Even though my friend is gone, the good times we chatted on Facebook I will always remember and cherish. |
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"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...
Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget"
I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad" "
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"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...
Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget" only those of us that have lost a child know the unending pain
I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad" "
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"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...
Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget" only those of us that have lost a child know the unending pain
I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad" "
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By (user no longer on site)
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My partner breaking up with me during lockdown was a total shock, I just didn't see it coming. I was broken and to make matters worse his true colours and nastiness came out afterwards in his abusive and threatening messages. It took a long time to get over it.
Aside from that, my dad's health failing every day is more heart breaking than anything else |
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Watching my 1st born fight for his life bk in 2002 born 6 wks early(3 wks in SCBU(ICU PART)...
And watching our 10 year old son(3rd born) fight for his life last yr in resus, lines, wires, monitors, tests, not responding...
Undiagnosed type1 diabetic in severe DKA...
Thankfully both ok but something i dont wanna see again. Watching your child fight for their life
(Mrs)
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"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...
That really hit me "
Every dog I've lost has hit me hard - always swear no more dogs, but always do. |
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There have been a small number but the worst was carrying my baby daughters coffin. That pain never leaves me, and I think about her some part of every day. It's been 30 years.. |
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My dad dying was one of my worst heartbreaks. I had never lost someone before so it was a bit of a shock and seeing him deteriorate wasn't nice.
When my daughter was born she was quite sick, and I'll never forget how I felt watching her scream and not being able to do anything when she was pinned down so they could do a lumbar puncture. I feel sick just thinking about it. I'm just thankful she was OK. Nothing worse in this world than seeing your child in pain. |
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When I was 15 my dad told me and my brother we didn’t have a dad anymore. My mum was in a very bad place at the time and up until that I always hoped he’d come and take me away from her not leave me completely |
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