Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet? |
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In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified  |
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"In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified "
Really? I’m not doubting your word, just shocked that actually happens! Has that stopped since you made a point of saying it ? |
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"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet? "
I'd like to think we all do it...
I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins and I was watching him in the shower |
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"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet? "
Of course people present themselves fully showered! |
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"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?
I'd like to think we all do it...
I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins
and I was watching him in the shower "
That’s recreational sex for you! |
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"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?
I'd like to think we all do it...
I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins and I was watching him in the shower "
To be honest with you, that sounds like a bonus to me   |
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"Am I one of only a few who automatically showers before a meet without having to be being told, or do we all do that?
I find it weird when people’s profiles state that you must have good hygiene. To me that seems like a given, who wouldn’t have a thorough shower before a meet?
I'd like to think we all do it...
I actually had a guy turn up straight after work and request a shower at mine, which was appreciated if a little strange haha hadn't known him 5mins
and I was watching him in the shower
That’s recreational sex for you!"
It was pretty awesome to be honest haha |
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Good hygiene is a must for me , i go well dressed ,exceptionally clean and smelling nice , but there have been times when I've got there and thought nope, and that's not nice to say I know but true I'm afraid |
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"Good hygiene is a must for me , i go well dressed ,exceptionally clean and smelling nice , but there have been times when I've got there and thought nope, and that's not nice to say I know but true I'm afraid"
Because of their personal hygiene? |
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"In the early days of being here I’ve certainly had gents turn up before in a less than desirable state of hygiene so experience has told me it is something that unfortunately has to be specified
Really? I’m not doubting your word, just shocked that actually happens! Has that stopped since you made a point of saying it ? "
Yeah it definitely happens.
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I have a shower, a trim, brush teeth and make sure that i look smart and feel great. I would expect that from others so I like to think that's what they expect from me. Unless they want a dirty scruff in wellies, but that's just kinky, lol. |
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"I have a shower, a trim, brush teeth and make sure that i look smart and feel great. I would expect that from others so I like to think that's what they expect from me. Unless they want a dirty scruff in wellies, but that's just kinky, lol. "
Exactly, I do what I would expect from my meet. But it’s beginning to sound like my expectations are actually more like hopes lol |
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"Am I the only one who purposely doesn't shower? Makes myself as musty as possible? Raw man smell?
Course I shower!"
Like there's a dead badger under there... |
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in general I shower or bath twice a day, if im meeting someone I will shower was close to the time im meeting as I can, Hygiene is very important to me and I expect the same in return, ive seen that on profiles as well and thought it was weird that it needed to be mentioned,
I ended up putting it on my profile at one point as I thought it was the "done thing" to add, until a friend of mine said to take it off |
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"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.
He's Mr Romantic  "
Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally! |
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"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.
He's Mr Romantic
Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally! "
Come on, they are lemon scented ! |
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"Good hygiene is essential and should be expected (unless specifically requested according to individual kinks)"
if I was asked not to shower or something like that id be out off the meet personally |
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"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.
He's Mr Romantic
Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally!
Come on, they are lemon scented ! "
Even worse, who wants to suck a lemon! |
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"If I'm meeting after work I dont have time for a shower but I always give me bits a go over with the wet wipes.
He's Mr Romantic
Yeah im not sure that is really sufficient personally!
Come on, they are lemon scented !
Even worse, who wants to suck a lemon! "
Superb  |
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"I have a question for everyone!
If you say you don't meet dmokers snd you turn up and they vape , do you take that as the same context?"
Sounds like a question for its own thread |
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My routine before play: shower/shaving smooth all over, do an enema to make sure super clean arsehole (obviously not in shower) & then shower again, shave face, moisturise, cut and file nails, put on my stockings & knickers to get ready (packing bag containing slut wear, make-up, wig, plenty lube, etc.), ready to attend party smelling fresh & clean...! |
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Most people would generally assume that social integration would result in people always thoroughly cleaning themselves prior to a meeting for sex.
There are some outliers. Some assume that washing several hours beforehand is sufficient  . Their self awareness is low and they are unaware of how much their cleanliness has disappeared, whilst sweating, using the toilet etc.
I've had men discuss meeting straight after being out at work all day - and I'm guessing that some may have lied about showering before work. I decline.
I ask people when they have showered, before finally meeting. I don't typically want people coming to meet, to then have a shower.
I've been really surprised by some people and their differing outlooks to mine and what I think is a typical expectation of hygiene. Just getting the right match of personality is hard, without adding hassles of hygiene too. |
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