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By *ucspark OP Man
over a year ago
dudley |
Met a old girl friend today, so I was told she flirted with me, usual questions are you seeing anyone etc. I have a firm rule of no going back out with someone once we have fallen out.
So what firm rules do you live by or is it a case of whatever happens |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I got involved with a girl in late 1970's. We went out for a couple of years and had to part 'cos she "needed more than I could offer".
Fast forward 15 years and she 'phoned to say she'd been married, divorced and did I want to go for a drink?
We went out for another couple of years and parted the day Diana died. I won't forget that.
We met up again 3 years ago and have spent a lot of time together since. Neither of us (I think) has any expectation of this beyond two auld pals sharing a friendship few others could comprehend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm far too soft hearted and always forget the bad times and just smile for the great times iv shared with an ex partner...last week I had to say " there was to much water passed under the bridge".to my ex Mrs..iv still got a heavy heart and a dull feeling in my guts for that comment..  |
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"No regrets. Even when I have made stupid mistakes I have learned from them - so they were useful. No point in regretting."
Same here. I've made some monumental fuck ups in the past too, but just put them down as "life lessons".
It's a cliche but I also try to make sure I do something when faced with difficult choices, as I can live with regretting something I did but cannot stand regretting not having done something. |
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