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Sending g a message to a profile is pointless
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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…. There’s nothing to go off.
Fill in later - I’m still waiting after 6 months of you being in my hotlist.
And then there’s your profile which is completely the opposite and are filled with rules and regulations and answering questions before we speak. You sound like you’d whine about life to me if we’d meet.
Not to mention the puzzling ‘special password’ in the thread title.- So you want unique…. But we all have to have the same message title? 
But these are just 3 profiles I’m singling out of course.   |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
And they're the ones you scroll on by.
Pointless messaging them? Absolutely.
So don't.
Simples.
No matter how hot they look and how full your balls are if it's too much like hard work there'll always be another profile that doesn't give you headaches.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and the ones that log in once, create a profile suggesting that they are actively looking, yet haven't logged in again for the last 3 or so months.
And those that join in the morning and have a dozen or so verifications and 20 + friends by mid day..... |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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And those that join in the morning and have a dozen or so verifications and 20 + friends by mid day....."
Ah. But there's two types of those profiles.
Those that are obvious fakes and those that have deleted their old profile (often multiple times) and returned (or already have the new one ready and waiting) because they like the drama and attention, or something has happened in the forums/on site and they think a shiny new profile will make people forget.
Both happen a lot. You can tell the returning members by who verifies them, if they publicly show them. The clever ones don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about the ones that say "tell me what you'd do to me" and then complain about graphic messages...
Disclaimer. I dont send graphic messages, the complaints are on statuses! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"…. There’s nothing to go off.
Fill in later - I’m still waiting after 6 months of you being in my hotlist.
And then there’s your profile which is completely the opposite and are filled with rules and regulations and answering questions before we speak. You sound like you’d whine about life to me if we’d meet.
Not to mention the puzzling ‘special password’ in the thread title.- So you want unique…. But we all have to have the same message title?
But these are just 3 profiles I’m singling out of course. "
There is nothing wrong with people having rules and regulations, not with them asking questions. Surely that is what chat is for? To ask questions and see if you want to meet the person by looking at thier answers?
As for rules, it's not a free for all where you can do anything you like.
As for the mentioning of a password, that is so they know the messenger has read their profile.
The people with the above mentioned probably have plenty of mail and are not worried at all that person's like yourself think they are not worthy of messaging.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people with the above mentioned probably have plenty of mail and are not worried at all that person's like yourself think they are not worthy of messaging.
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100% correct
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Those who talk of meeting yet weeks later still nothing, attempts to set a date results in excuses galore. Messages read yet ignored even though we're 'friends'. Looking ideal then they leave site without a goodbye . Face pics sent, no reply. 'Great interest' then they dont log back in for weeks and forget us. The ol' "were free now if you fancy coming round" yet almost two hours drive away in the middle of the night, then nothing when trying to set a date. Plus the incredibly rude folk trying to meet Cherry on her own (one couple tried twice) . What's happened to this site ?
Yes we often think of leaving. Yes we tried a club but found much reduced numbers (compared to pre-covid) and dirty old men walking past Cherry while adjusting their towels. One gorgeous couple did sit with us for the evening but just there to socialise so no play... |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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Those that say thanks for getting them on the hot list so you know your message will be one of a thousand!
‘Captivate me’ or something similar when the profile gives you nothing to go on! |
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I'm perfectly happy for people to state their preferences on their own profile because it will have zero effect on my journey.
I don't send first contact messages and haven't done in almost 3 years and I don't use the search facility so I'm not missing out on anything that way.
It's when those profiles with particular preferences send introductory messages telling me I must shave off my beard, stop pretending to be straight and play bi or remember I'm old and male and therefore don't have options that those preferences become demands and instructions and don't deserve my respect.
Messages from couples who have it written in capital letters that they DON'T MEET SINGLE MEN UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES telling me to meet them the next day but don't try kissing the missus as she's only interested in my cock or telling me that my profile is a facade and they know I don't believe a word of it are just as disrespectful as anything a single man could send.
Imagine the furore if I was to message a random profile and tell them I didn't do blondes so she needed to change that before I'd put her on my to do list or that the missus needed to trim her pubes and I might consider shagging her as long as she didn't try kissing me because I'm only interested in her pussy.
Attitude and choice of language makes a hell of a difference regardless of who is sending the message.
Telling someone it's their loss for not agreeing to something they had no interest in in the first place just shows a level of entitlement that will only attract people of similar entitlement.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"…. There’s nothing to go off.
Fill in later - I’m still waiting after 6 months of you being in my hotlist.
And then there’s your profile which is completely the opposite and are filled with rules and regulations and answering questions before we speak. You sound like you’d whine about life to me if we’d meet.
Not to mention the puzzling ‘special password’ in the thread title.- So you want unique…. But we all have to have the same message title?
But these are just 3 profiles I’m singling out of course.
There is nothing wrong with people having rules and regulations, not with them asking questions. Surely that is what chat is for? To ask questions and see if you want to meet the person by looking at thier answers?
As for rules, it's not a free for all where you can do anything you like.
As for the mentioning of a password, that is so they know the messenger has read their profile.
The people with the above mentioned probably have plenty of mail and are not worried at all that person's like yourself think they are not worthy of messaging.
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