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We’ve turned down a number of men who’s OH either doesn’t know they’re stepping out or they say the OH knows and they have permission we say no to them as well as that’s definitely not our thing at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on
Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on
Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters "
I think separated is different to fucking behind someone back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off. The feeling of being cheated on and lied to is not something I'll forget in a hurry, I'd hate to be the cause of someone else's pain by helping their partner cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m separated, so still technically married. Some have found it a turn on
Not so much for me, it doesn’t bother me if someone is separated but I don’t like cheaters "
Some still think your married if you tell them your not yet divorced….
I do like the idea of a hot wife though. There’s something sexy about being part of someone’s fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean who finds it a turn on to play with someone who is cheating? X"
I couldnt care less what anyones relationship status is. We each have our own reasons for doing what we do. Some say its a turn on others dont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No.
Married people can have their reasons for looking elsewhere for sex and I've came to understand these over time and, in some cases, are sympathetic.
But I think it's pretty fucked up to specifically get off on fucking a married person.
I find this especially unattractive in women. |
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Married men are easier to deal with as you know the expectations from the start, however if it becomes a continuous thing it is hard not to get feelings involved.
I'd never want to break up anyone's family & wouldn't commit to someone who is cheating.
I do admit it does have an attraction as it is very passionate & lustful.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…
My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?
That’s a big gtf for us
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most folk don't say anyways,and as I'm not looking to date someone I'm not going to insist they jump through hoops to prove their singledom either really. Whatever is going on with someone I'm seeking consensual fun with is their own business not mine (I do have a sexual health testing chat though). |
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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago
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"Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…
My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?
That’s a big gtf for us
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By *ateshugsMan
over a year ago
Isle of Man, (Crosby ish) |
As an MM who is here with a wife who consents, all the a-holes who are here without, have tainted anyone who is legitimate, having any chances of connecting with a lot of people.
Annoying, when it comes down to folk not believing what I say when liars have said the same, but that is the way it is.
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"Most on here don’t like cheaters
Mainly because they run so fast and have wicked teeth and claws.
Oh, those cheetahs. . . "
But they ARE the fastest animal on Earth, so at least 'em credit for that!  |
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"Most on here don’t like cheaters
Mainly because they run so fast and have wicked teeth and claws.
Oh, those cheetahs. . .
But they ARE the fastest animal on Earth, so at least 'em credit for that! "
They make damn tasty crisps too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look through new joiners and see lots of women here admitting being attached without partner knowing.
Probably more who don't admit it.
I'm up front about it,if you don't like it, it's fine with me.
I'm too old to give a shit what others think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready. "
Posters are only giving their opinion, do gooders or do badders have nothing to do with it , they're only giving their opinion to a question asked . |
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"Dude, expect all the do gooders to post very shortly. Get your tin hat ready.
Posters are only giving their opinion, do gooders or do badders have nothing to do with it , they're only giving their opinion to a question asked ."
Exactly! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People puffing their little chests up & feeling morally superior, good effort from the OP. "
Oh come on!! People can only answer the question from a moral standing point. It’s just yours or their opinion to wether it is a superior view or not.
This question will always be brought up almost daily, and I don’t think peoples moral views will change. Or do they?…  I dunno. |
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"People puffing their little chests up & feeling morally superior, good effort from the OP.
Oh come on!! People can only answer the question from a moral standing point. It’s just yours or their opinion to wether it is a superior view or not.
This question will always be brought up almost daily, and I don’t think peoples moral views will change. Or do they?… I dunno."
Yes or no then surely? |
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"So you’re not interested in who they are as a person? It’s just their relationship status that you find attractive? That’s major objectification "
If they're a cheater - frankly to us it doesn't matter who they are as a person as they are a liar first and foremost.
We do care about what non lying and cheating people's personalities are though and are very much interested into getting to know them.
I'm sure 99% of all swingers do not have sex with someone for their relationship status or type of genitals alone - there needs to be some minimal mental attraction at the very least.
I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee" "
That "this is a sex site" thing is their perception of it that fits what they want out of the site.
Many who get involved in swinger lifestyle actually want more than sex out of it.
Even if it was purely just a 'sex site' it still doesn't give people remit to try and find sex by being dishonest not only too their partners but also to others they try to engage with.
There are websites specifically set up for that if that's what beeps your jeeps.
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"Swinging is supposed to be about trust and respect with your partner…
My point of view is if a guy or woman cant respect their own partner why would they respect another ?
That’s a big gtf for us
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sadly all so called respect for their partner goes out the window the minute they decide cheat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure many keys in a bowl, shag everything that has a hole people would disagree by crying out "but this is a seeeexxxxx siiiiteee"
That "this is a sex site" thing is their perception of it that fits what they want out of the site.
Many who get involved in swinger lifestyle actually want more than sex out of it.
Even if it was purely just a 'sex site' it still doesn't give people remit to try and find sex by being dishonest not only too their partners but also to others they try to engage with.
There are websites specifically set up for that if that's what beeps your jeeps.
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
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People talking like cheating isn't commonplace on fab, maybe not like the men but yes even plenty of women doing so.
The forums aren't a good guage of the full picture, as the majority of fab users don't post on them and aren't here to make friends or exchange pleasantries. However there will be people also in complete denial and have seen this happen here too |
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