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A lot of folk out there think us swingers are at it with everyone we meet which Isn't true
For most people have not that much time to give to this
Most folk who this are lucky if they can give the life style can do this once maybe twice a month
For folk have work family life care commitments with some time family members community commitments with gruops they belong to and so forth
Then when do have time to play half the time this dont happen for a good 50% of this socialsing
For swinging to take place lots of things have to have happen venue time scales have to march you have to find those people you have a spark with
Now a lot out there think this is free for all which it isn't
Most folk who this are choosy who they go with wont go with anything
There are a small number that do a good number of them tend to have something wrong with them
Its this minority that making hard work of it for at least 50% of swingers if not more
Newbies join have the wrong idea message folk in the most clumsy way and piss folk off
if the real ture message got out there about swinging we have far more join our world of swinging we would have less idiots dawn in to the site
So folk how do we get the message out there for the most swingers are not at it with everyone one we meet
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am.
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There are a small number that do a good number of them tend to have something wrong with them
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I am not sure what you mean by this. The way I am reading it - it sounds incredibly judgemental to say people who meet often have “something wrong with them”! |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity."
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions  |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions "
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?  |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it? "
It’s basically closed over down there |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?
It’s basically closed over down there"
A true tragedy. |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions "
Why not indeed…..logic and simplicity. |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?
It’s basically closed over down there
A true tragedy."
Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock. |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?
It’s basically closed over down there
A true tragedy.
Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock. "
I will let everyone know for you once I have dealt with the three wives who are still queuing by the bedroom door. |
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"We don’t, I’m quite happy for people to think I’m having more sex than I really am. .
Why?
Just out of curiosity.
Why not? If people think you’re at it 24/7 who am I to tell them it’s once or twice a week if I’m lucky. I’m not in the business of shattering illusions
If it is only once or twice a week then I can see why you would want people to think you are getting more. Awful being almost celibate isn’t it?
It’s basically closed over down there
A true tragedy.
Indeed it is, so can you let the masses know I’m at it 24/7. In fact, I’m never off a cock.
I will let everyone know for you once I have dealt with the three wives who are still queuing by the bedroom door."
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We IM’s and ahh’d over going from fantasy to reality because we too had the same misconceptions over swingers. Never having knowingly known any ourselves, we thought exactly that. Though still inexperienced, We have how come to understand that people get it to swinging for so many reasons, and look to interact, play and get enjoyment from of it in so many different ways. It’ll like saying all people who eat, eat junk food, and yes, lots of people do. Some far more than others. Some because it’s all they like. Some because it satisfies their craving for the time. Some are more selective about what they put inside their bodies and that’s normal too.
To labour the analogy further… Some want to stuff you, some want to be stuffed by you. Some want just to feed you or be fed by you and, for us, we are very lucky to have found some lovely people who want to teach us how to cook new things so we can enjoy and appreciate just how much verity of great food there is out there if you’re open to trying
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The 'idiots' out themselves in first messages so they are easy to avoid.
Some people do meet very often and it may appear that they will fuck anyone who asks. They aren't wrong for doing that.
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"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that."
 And that everyone just joins in...
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"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.
Shame though  "
You organise it, I'll come x |
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"Non swingers think that if you walked into a club you would see mass orgies like the Romans used to do. Naked bodies absolutely everywhere. It really isn't like that.
Shame though "
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