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over a year ago
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been chatting to this couple , mostly me the fem and the other fem , getting on great chatting the small stuff throwing in a fair bit of flirty banter , same from both sides, saying we are going to see them new year when everything we both got going on at home has calmed down etc , all of a sudden deleted . We messaged wondering if it was an accident (maybe even on my part) sent another friends request, sent a message saying if we have done said anything were sorry and take care and good luck type of thing - and nothing - theyve been on read the messages , kept some and deleted some. ,. Not going to be a pest and mither them but from going from at least a couple of messages a day to nothing still kind of hurts and to be honest we find very rude . Ok moan over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had similar.. seemed like we were all getting on great.. had a few girly fone calls - and the guys chatted to and we all had a bit of a laugh on webcams together.. etc
suppose we were lucky - as we did get a sorry "we need to leave the site" and away they went..  |
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Theres nowt stranger than folk.....
Dont let it get you down. I used to let it get to me, blamed myself etc, but now i realise that although I am genuine, not everyone else is.
Move on and stay confident.
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"been chatting to this couple , mostly me the fem and the other fem , getting on great chatting the small stuff throwing in a fair bit of flirty banter , same from both sides, saying we are going to see them new year when everything we both got going on at home has calmed down etc , all of a sudden deleted . We messaged wondering if it was an accident (maybe even on my part) sent another friends request, sent a message saying if we have done said anything were sorry and take care and good luck type of thing - and nothing - theyve been on read the messages , kept some and deleted some. ,. Not going to be a pest and mither them but from going from at least a couple of messages a day to nothing still kind of hurts and to be honest we find very rude . Ok moan over"
Maybe they have issues at the moment. Back off for a while and try again later. If they delete your message again - take it as a NO. Move on.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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after all the messages just one saying a change of heart would have been nice - we ourselves reply to all messages and have told people from the off if theyre not what we looking for etc -most reply with a thanks for letting us know and no hard feelings which leaves us feeling ok about the human race |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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they do have some home stuff going on as we both do at the moment - in fact it was some of this that seemed to gel the friendship - never mind onwards into next year we go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens quite a lot for us, can't seem to sort a meet even after phone calls fem/fem, loads of chat get on friends list and then comes the silence crazy but think that just the way it is j |
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